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| | How do YOU handle rejection?Page 12 of 12 (1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6, 7, 8, 9, 10, 11, 12) | I'm no stranger to rejection. I can't say it doesn't bother me. But I can say it doesn't bother me for very long. I try to keep myself humble so no one else has to do it for me. When i face rejection it's not a big blow to my ego. I know who I am so other people's acceptance or rejection doesn't really shake that conviction.
When I'm rejected I try my best to wish that person happiness. Why should a person be seen as defective just because they rejected me? Who the hell am I? I'm not for everybody.
I have been in situations where I've approached women respectfully and then they rejected me with a real nasty attitude or they go brag to their friends within earshot. For some people, rejecting others is an ego trip. | |
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Posted: 7/15/2009 7:40:24 PM | Everyone gets rejected somewhere along the line ...you just have to get past it. I have been rejected and I have rejected too. Listen to this: I had drinks with a man a couple of weeks ago. Yes, we got along, talked, shared things in common etc., but the next day I knew that we would never be more than friends. I saw he was on chat and sent another thank you for the drinks even though we had already texted the night before. I mentioned that he was very interesting, but that I didn't think we could be more than friends and that I hoped to see him at one of the local POF parties. WELL... I got the nastiest chat back, plus email, plus text and he used my being a couple years older in derogatory ways.... THEN, he, under a different email or a friend of his, sent the most vile email saying that he had heard things about me - (none of which were true). He had even told me I was much prettier in person than my picture when we met.....NOW as the rejected one (though nicely), he showed his true colors. My only response was that I guess I made the right decision then, didn't I.....
This guy reacted so over-the-top that I consider myself lucky to have made the right choice. If this is his typical reaction to things, I understand now why he has been married 3 times, of course, the divorces were not his fault either!!!! | |
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Posted: 7/28/2009 7:41:41 PM | Dammit! Why can't I ever get a creepy stalker chick?
I'm a creepy stalker chick!!! LOL! But only for a second.
Story was that:
I've just been rejected and he's making a big mistake!
Oh well, he probably was not worth it?
Especially the fact that it turns out that he was
starting to have signs of tons of baggage and psychological issues!
So I don't feel so bad anymore because
I'd have to deal with that baggage and I just met him.
I'd hate to see how the future would continue on.
What I know is that I tried and I know that it is not me that
is the problem or has problems!!!
Some people are just way too serious and can't be bothered to live life
for once. Because life is short. I'm all about life.
So as a joke- when the rejection took place- I was a very bad girl!!!
In a nice way.
I wrote some consecutive msgs in a row giving guilt trips being kind of
aggressive, but that was my quick short sweet being rejected fix.
Now I'm over it. NEXT!!!!!  | |
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Posted: 7/28/2009 8:02:52 PM | I've been rejected so much that I'm not sure how I handled it before....
Haha
But when I get rejected online, I never know it. No one ever says "No, not interested" or anything. Just.......silence/no response.
I consider that worse than actual verbal/written rejection. | |
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Posted: 7/28/2009 8:24:34 PM | Omg. LMAO.
That woman should watch "He's Just Not That Into You"
I handle it well, I think...  | |
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