| For The Guys- Would you seriously date an ex-prostitute?
Posted: 6/27/2009 3:25:55 AM |
We're all prostitutes in life..one way or another... think about it.. angelle_star: I hear that logic so many times on posts like this. (Cash for Sex is another post that comes to mind). Let me ask you the following questions.
Have you ever offered yourself indiscriminately for sexual intercourse especially for money?
Have you ever devoted yourself to corrupt or unworthy purposes?
Have you ever debased or prostituted your talents?
Have you ever lowered yourself in status, esteem, quality, or character ?
I am not picking on you personally, I'm only trying to make a point here to you and others who might attempt to use this logic.
I looked up the word prostitute on AOL's Dictionary and this is what I found:
http://www.referencecenter.com/ref/dictionary?invocationType=topsearchbox.refcentre&query=Prostitute
Prostitute is a Verb, derived from the Latin word prostitutus.
Its definition is as follows:
1. 1 to offer indiscriminately for sexual intercourse especially for money
2. 2 to devote to corrupt or unworthy purposes : debase - prostitute one's talents
Prostitute is a Verb, derived from the Latin word prostitutus.
Its definition is as follows:
1 a woman who engages in promiscuous sexual intercourse especially for money : whore.
b a male who engages in sexual and especially homosexual practices for money
2. 2 a person (as a writer or painter) who deliberately debases his or her talents (as for money)
I further checked out the definition of the word debase.
1. to lower in status, esteem, quality, or character
Does any of the above in italics describe you? | |
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| For The Guys- Would you seriously date an ex-prostitute?
Posted: 7/19/2009 11:16:20 PM | | Ever look on craigslist? Its filled with women puttin it out to get the bills paid or put themselves thru college. Not the traditional kind and they try to distance themselves from the title, but its all the same. Would I date one? Doubt it, but them think if women would give me cash for sex would I take it? Hmmm...think I bit off more than I can chew by this response..........its tough to loose that stigma and you've really have to trust that its all out of her system and has no desire to do it again.And no, didnt pay for any of those craigslist women either. | |
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| For The Guys- Would you seriously date an ex-prostitute?
Posted: 7/20/2009 2:12:41 AM | | I think I would. I have made many mistakes in my life, perhaps some would say too many. Just because another person has made mistakes what gives me the right to say that "I'm better than you". I would try not to judge the person if I did, even though at times it seems easy to jump to conclusions. It's just a date or maybe dates, there would be nothing that would say that it would work out or that you would marry the person. So, why not? Maybe they need another chance that no one else is willing to give them. | |
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| For The Guys- Would you seriously date an ex-prostitute?
Posted: 7/20/2009 6:26:21 AM | | There is no way I would date an ex-prostitute. Its not about being "better than you" or anything like that. A woman who chose to go into this profession made her bed, now she has to sleep in it. To me, its the same thing as would you want your daughter (or other woman you care about) to date an ex rapist? Hey, a reformed rapist deserves another chance don't they? I would hope no one would think they are any better? Same logic. NO WAY NO HOW for me. Once a "Prossy" always a "Prossy". Its in the blood. Ciao! | |
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| For The Guys- Would you seriously date an ex-prostitute?
Posted: 7/20/2009 9:03:55 AM |
Ever look on craigslist? Its filled with women puttin it out to get the bills paid or put themselves thru college. This is ridiculous. How does a guy who can't make ends meet make an extra buck or two? Do some guys ever think of this? Do they have any value for anything? I don't blame the women, I blame the guys.
Doubt it, but them think if women would give me cash for sex would I take it? I would never take cash, I would never offer cash. To me, sex is precious and not a commodity to be traded. I value my sex life and would hope that whomever I engage with feels the same way. Sex is too important to me to even consider dating a woman who sold her "soul" to other poor unfortunate men, or men who have no sense of pride. Thats how I feel, thats my story and I'm sticking to it. Ciao. | |
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| For The Guys- Would you seriously date an ex-prostitute?
Posted: 7/20/2009 9:23:52 AM | "Ever look on craigslist? Its filled with women puttin it out to get the bills paid or put themselves thru college."
If you believe that one I've got a bridge to sell you cheap.
I wouldn't care that a woman had slept with alot of different guys.
The reason I wouldn't even past the probability of STDs is I can't imagine there is such a thing as a well adjusted ex-prostitute...
I don't see how an ex-prostitute could not completely hate men at a deep level. Seems hard to believe anyone would be strong enough emotionally to come back once going down that path. | |
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| For The Guys- Would you seriously date an ex-prostitute?
Posted: 7/20/2009 9:32:06 AM | | i would have no problem with it.You see it is those character building moments that make us who we are besides i imagine there are some interesting stories behind the practice. I would want them to be clean no desire to end up with a terminal disease | |
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| For The Guys- Would you seriously date an ex-prostitute?
Posted: 7/20/2009 10:35:57 AM | | question is ladies...would you seriously date a chip n dale or male hooker?? ( wait are there male hookers??) now for the question above damn i would really have to love this girl but even then it would be hard for me to get past that there still would be stalkers n such lerking around!! | |
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| For The Guys- Would you seriously date an ex-prostitute?
Posted: 7/20/2009 11:01:51 AM |
Sure why not, now introducing her to my relatives might be a little rough, but oh well. Lets see, how about introducing her to your daughter or your mother? "Mom, This is Bambi...she's really a nice girl once you get to know her....
"question is ladies...would you seriously date a chip n dale or male hooker?? Better yet, how about a reformed rapist or child molester? Hey, they deserve a second chance too, don't they?
if shes an ex-prostitute that means her Vjay is as wide as the grand canyon. And her heart is the size of a pea, and most likely so is her brain. | |
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Posted: 7/20/2009 3:42:50 PM |
if shes an ex-prostitute that means her **** is as wide as the grand canyon. so the answer is HELL NO!
To be quite honest bro its the opposite I mean sure prostitutes get a lot of penis, but all small penises because I know some girls that have done this before and told me stories about it. Most of the time they are either old, very fat, or very small down their. Once in a while they get a stud with an alright sized heat but overall its not enough to spread their vaginas that wide with a lil wanker. Trust me I know I have f*cked someone who used to be a prostitute before or so she said she used to be she may still have been one? Who knows. | |
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| For The Guys- Would you seriously date an ex-prostitute?
Posted: 8/17/2009 12:39:06 PM | Well, I'm probably going to lose a lot of points from most women reading this about me but, should this women be STD free, drug free and both physically and psychologically healthy and attractive, I could date her seriously. I actually have a lot of respect for both male and female sex workers. For people who feel down, depressed, unloved, unworthy or lonely, a few hours with an undiscriminating, caring and attentional lover could do more good than years of therapy. It would at least do a whole lot more good than all the judging, preaching and discriminating those self-righteous religious fanatics could actually ever offer. How many tragedies could have occurred due to someone not being loved? How much violence, anger and pain could be avoided with people just getting laid every once in a while? Love and intimacy are basic human needs, yet no everyone gets to truly experience it.
Personally, I think the industry should be legalized and government sanctioned (Well, in Canada anyway, the states should really fix their health care first  ).
Provide free STD testing; a clean, safe and legitimate work environment; and provide financial help for those with proper doctors/psychiatrists prescription. In one move you have cleaned the streets of unsafe prostitution, allowing police officers to concentrate on more dangerous crimes; provided the government with a steady new source of income; and provided a positive and essential service to a good portion of the population. Not only that, but it would also provide people with a very valuable method to learn about sex and get better at it; who better to learn about sex than an industry professional? The world's oldest profession isn't going to go away any time soon, I say might as well make the best of it. | |
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Posted: 9/26/2009 9:29:18 PM | For what it's worth dude, I'LL SECOND THAT.
Personally, I think the industry should be legalized and government sanctioned
FACT is if we reversed everything we'd be in a LOT better shape than we're in now. I can promise you that.
Make GOVERNMENTs ILLEGAL (actually in the USA they pretty much are now considering none of the administration over the past 25 years have considered the US CONSTITUTION anything but a historic doc with no modern day importance) (and BANKS) and legitimize prostitution.
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| For The Guys- Would you seriously date an ex-prostitute?
Posted: 9/27/2009 12:18:52 PM | | actually yes i would, i know shes experienced as long as she was clean, who cares about her past, there are a lot of women out there that say they arnt prostitutes but the first question out of there keyboards is how much money do you make, or there the good women out there that take everything from a man in a break up | |
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| For The Guys- Would you seriously date an ex-prostitute?
Posted: 9/27/2009 6:43:11 PM |
Until you've actually been in the position, plz dont judge.
If you allow yourself to be in that situations like that, then you will be in that situation. If you have no self control, or pride in yourself, then yes, you will be in that situation. I would never allow that to happen to me and would never stoop so low. But thats me. Its up to the person. I won't judge for others but I am my own judge for myself and I will express my opinion for myself.
You can justify things whatever way you choose. You can bring in whatever statistics or reasoning you want. Its up to you.
If thats the case, let me ask the ladies. Would you date an ex-drug dealer?
How about an ex-sex offender. Maybe they've straightened out their lives and after all, they deserve a second chance too, don't you think?
I would not date an ex-prostitute. Pure and simple. Not for me. I would never be able to trust someone with that kind of background. | |
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Posted: 9/27/2009 7:47:59 PM | Umm I don't want to get too entangled in this conversation overall.
BUT I wish more men and women knew that the whole thing about loose p*ss*** being caused by sexual experience was a myth. Vajajays are muscle, they expand and contract when women are aroused. Tightness has more to do with kegals (good) or being uncomfortable (bad) than lack of experience. | |
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| For The Guys- Would you seriously date an ex-prostitute?
Posted: 9/27/2009 9:35:37 PM |
you say in one breath you dont judge others, but then say people who choose prostitution have 'stooped so low'.
I said that I wouldn't stoop so low. I was speaking only for myself and not for others, AND I do make judgements for myself and how I govern my life, and thats all I have to say about that. I make no judgements on women who do it or men that love them. Again, only make personal judgements for myself. If you agree, thats fine, if not, so be it.
she admitted her past to you, would you refuse then?
Yes I would refuse. Again, personal decision. In my opinion a leopard never changes its spots. Who is to say if times get tough again, or she is upset with me about something, she wouldn't resort to it in the future? Again, would YOU date and ex-drug pusher or ex-sexual criminal if you met the most perfectly suitable man for YOU, who was intellectually your equal, emotionally + financially stable, sober, STI free, and unequivocally dynamic + had great synchronicity emotionally with you in the bedroom, then he admitted his past to you, would you refuse him?
when told of the circumstances surrounding why she turned to prostitution, you may feel a sense of empathy for her? I may have some empathy, but that wouldn't change my trust for her.
do u not think handicapped or elderly people deserve to have sexual tenderness from people who choose this as a 'career path'? Everyone deserves tenderness, sexual and otherwise, but for me, tenderness ends with the exchange of money. There are other ways for handicapped or elderly people to achieve sexual tenderness without having to pay for it. Again, only MY opinion, but thats how I feel. | |
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| For The Guys- Would you seriously date an ex-prostitute?
Posted: 9/28/2009 5:39:18 AM |
If that's your honest opinion,I suggest you never get married.
One things for sure, I'd never marry you!
Dearest closer2u: I've been married twice, first time ended with divorce, amicably and I am grateful that I she gave me my daughter. My second marriage ended almost 2 years ago when my wife passed away from Colon Cancer. Never did it ever enter my mind that I would be entering either marriage with the exchange of money as a motive for getting getting married or have the attitude that something was owed to me or that I owed someone something. I married for traditional reasons, namely love, companionship and to raise/have a family. | |
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