| For The Guys- Would you seriously date an ex-prostitute?
Posted: 10/23/2006 3:14:49 PM | PROSTITUTION IS ONE OF THE MAIN REASONS MOST MEN COME TO VEGAS,,,, SLOTS, BUFFETS, FREE ALCOHOL AND WHATS NEXT THE HOT BABES, HONESTLY, GUYS HERE IS A SCENARIO..........ME BEING THE ATTRACTIVE AND SEXY BEAUTY THAT I AM, IM IN A CASINO, A GUY SPOTS ME PLAYING A SLOT MACHINE, ,, HE THINKS TO HIMSELF," WOW SHE IS HOT, WHAT CAN I DO TO MAKE HER NOTICE ME.. THATS WHERE MONEY COMES INTO PLAY AND WHAT EVER ELSE COMES INTO MIND.................. I KNOW YOU ALL SAW MY POST THAT WAS UP, WHO EVER REMOVED IT THANKS HERES ANOTHER    | |
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| For The Guys- Would you seriously date an ex-prostitute?
Posted: 10/23/2006 5:56:04 PM |
some women are forced into it just to pay their bills
Yes, perhaps, women of low moral standing and no education... who have no desire to ever make anything of themselves.
But no, I wouldn't date one if I could. Too much drama, too much emotional baggage, not to mention multiple STDs. | |
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| For The Guys- Would you seriously date an ex-prostitute?
Posted: 10/23/2006 5:56:44 PM | | Any longterm relationship that involves taking off the glove below the belt involves the battery of STD tests for me, anyway. You never actually know what it's in the past of anyone you sleep with, so it's not at all unlikely that you've unknowingly slept with someone who sold themselves for money once or more in the past, anyway. I've known people who were offered exhorbitantly large sums of money by rich men for a weekend getaway with the underlying assumption that sex was involved. They took it. In their place, I might have, too, if a rich, attractive woman offered to pay my way to Asia for a week. | |
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| For The Guys- Would you seriously date an ex-prostitute?
Posted: 10/23/2006 6:16:08 PM | | Reminds me of something Joan Rivers once said,,,a guy sleeps around and sleeps around and he's a stud,, a girl makes 20 , 30 mistakes,, she's a slut......double standard,,,if she's fun to be with,,why the hell not???? | |
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| For The Guys- Would you seriously date an ex-prostitute?
Posted: 10/23/2006 6:27:26 PM | Whatever you need I suppose.....?????
I don't think we're talking about Julia Roberts in "Pretty Woman" here, or the "amazing women" of Las Vegas as mentioned above......... I was under the impression that we were talking about prostitutes??? Like the ones on the East side of Vancouver prostitutes. Not some girl who tries it once to get through college,... but the strung out, beaten down women of Hastings Street. Yes they are people, and all people need love. I respect that, but again, I say no thank you. | |
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| For The Guys- Would you seriously date an ex-prostitute?
Posted: 10/24/2006 8:31:05 PM | For the poster of message 28;
>some women are forced into it just to pay their bills
>>Yes, perhaps, women of low moral standing and no education... who have no desire to ever make anything of themselves.
So what do people who come here and barely speak any english at all do to survive until they can get a decent job? Guys can do construction; what kind of job should a women with no working papers do to pay the $1000 a month rent and bills? Minimum wage work won't do it. Nanny jobs are the equivelent of slave wages. Are you hiring women at 15$ an hour for anything?
I know most peoples answer will be something like, "Well, they should learn english and have a trade before they come here", but that isn't reality. Lots of people come here with nothing, hoping to make a life for themselves. For centuries, women subjugated themselves into a marriage where they were basically their husband's slave and servent to survive, and traded sex and housekeeping for food and shelter. Instead, she now trades it for money. How is that different? It's also been said that women trade sex for love, men trade love for sex. It's all trading, whether money is involved or goods or services. And exactly why is it only acceptable for a woman to become a physical therapist and massage a back for money, but she can't massage a penis for money?? Too many inconcistancies in life. | |
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Posted: 10/24/2006 9:20:23 PM | | What a person did in their past, so long as they weren't a war criminal, rapist or child molester is none of my concern. Who they are as a person is. So long as they don't ahve anyting that can't be cured then its all good. | |
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| For The Guys- Would you seriously date an ex-prostitute?
Posted: 10/24/2006 9:27:07 PM | | if you asked me this question a few years ago I would have said no but my outlook has changed Yes I would date an ex prostitute even marry her if I loved her but ONLY if they had given up that line of work for good. as in NEVER AGAIN and she had no addictions of any kind. and she was of course STD free I believe everyone should get a second chance Anyone who is able to turn their life around. Has my utmost admiration and respect. So yes I would definetly date one. if she can respect my past and leave it in the past I'll do the same. | |
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| For The Guys- Would you seriously date an ex-prostitute?
Posted: 10/24/2006 9:37:33 PM | Obviously there are a few guys here that date hookers. Once a hooker, always a hooker.
And exactly why is it only acceptable for a woman to become a physical therapist and massage a back for money, but she can't massage a penis for money??
Are you saying massaging a back and massaging a penis are the same thing? So you wouldn't mind if your girlfriend who worked as a masseuse massaged penises? And why did immigrants come into the picture? They can stay in their own country and prostitute all they want. They can keep thier diseases in their own country. I'm sure the guy was talking about drug addicts that have sex for drug money anyway.
And people ask how prostitutes are different from other women. Do most women have sex with 25+ guys a night? And yes hookers would be more likely to have stds because they have many more partners. Condoms don't protect against everything and some don't even use them. | |
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Posted: 10/24/2006 9:38:53 PM | "So what do people who come here and barely speak any english at all do to survive until they can get a decent job? Guys can do construction; what kind of job should a women with no working papers do to pay the $1000 a month rent and bills? Minimum wage work won't do it. Nanny jobs are the equivelent of slave wages. Are you hiring women at 15$ an hour for anything?
I know most peoples answer will be something like, "Well, they should learn english and have a trade before they come here", but that isn't reality. Lots of people come here with nothing, hoping to make a life for themselves. For centuries, women subjugated themselves into a marriage where they were basically their husband's slave and servent to survive, and traded sex and housekeeping for food and shelter. Instead, she now trades it for money. How is that different? It's also been said that women trade sex for love, men trade love for sex. It's all trading, whether money is involved or goods or services. And exactly why is it only acceptable for a woman to become a physical therapist and massage a back for money, but she can't massage a penis for money?? Too many inconcistancies in life".
That really was an awesome post nightfly, I couldn't agree more. | |
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| For The Guys- Would you seriously date an ex-prostitute?
Posted: 10/25/2006 12:26:11 PM | "Are you saying massaging a back and massaging a penis are the same thing? So you wouldn't mind if your girlfriend who worked as a masseuse massaged penises? And why did immigrants come into the picture? They can stay in their own country and prostitute all they want. They can keep thier diseases in their own country. I'm sure the guy was talking about drug addicts that have sex for drug money anyway.
And people ask how prostitutes are different from other women. Do most women have sex with 25+ guys a night? And yes hookers would be more likely to have stds because they have many more partners. Condoms don't protect against everything and some don't even use them. "
You're making way too many generalizations.
1.First of all, immigrants are not diseased STDs don't care what race you are or what country you come from anybody can get one. even YOU My father came to Canada as a refugee with nothing and made a life for himself. It's not easy coming to a new country being exposed to a new language and a new culture. I would like to see you try it My father couldn't stay in his own country he had to leave.
2. Not all prostitutes are self destructive crack whores. some are but not all many of them are professionals just like in any other trade.
3. Condoms don't protect against everything but they do reduce risks and many prostitutes especially higher class prostitutes (escorts) insist on using them Think about it, sex is their profession They are concerned with their own health and safety as much as you are with yours. They want to protect their assets. and many hookers don't have 25 guys a night Thy're some that only have a few clients a week.
4. Prostitues ARE like any other woman They are human beings and they deserve to be treated with respect and dignity.
5 Either you can help them or keep your mouth shut. You are in absolutely no position to judge these women you don't know them or what kind of lives they've lived. Because sexwork is so taboo and in most cases illegal It's harder for these women to get out of the business or find other work if they quit and they can't go to the cops if they are being threatened or ripped off. | |
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| For The Guys- Would you seriously date an ex-prostitute?
Posted: 10/25/2006 12:42:30 PM | | i wouldn't. it wouldn't have as much to do with her sexual past as her psychological state of mind and her ability to leave that life behind. when i say that life i am not talking about the sexual part, i don't think alot of people can get over a lifetime of living like that in that environment with out being effected negatively by it in some way. | |
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| For The Guys- Would you seriously date an ex-prostitute?
Posted: 10/25/2006 5:50:17 PM | Well first and foremost, she needs to get tested. I don't CARE if she claims that she's been tested, and clean. She could be lying, and STD tests are NOT 100% correct all the time.
With that said, hell yes I'd consider it. I'd be very careful, though. If she was a street prostitute, she surely has some MAJOR emotional problems... Especially with intimacy. She easily could be the kind to run off when she starts feeling emotionally close too you, basically wasting all of your invested time.
Bottom line, the past is in the past. If SHE is able to move past it, and it does not bother you at all, it's all good. | |
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| For The Guys- Would you seriously date an ex-prostitute?
Posted: 10/25/2006 8:32:15 PM | No.
......ok, benefit of doubt here: I won't rule it out completely, maybe if I learned the circumstances around here prostitution, (perhaps some terrible situations in life forced her into it) I may.
But under most normal situations, the answer is likely a simple "no" | |
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| For The Guys- Would you seriously date an ex-prostitute?
Posted: 10/25/2006 9:40:53 PM | LOOK that's like saying would you put on a used condom from another guy and USE IT>>?
I mean come ON MAN!!!
better yet why don't you use the same fork that that the previous 100 people used at a restaurant without washing it???
HECK NO my friend heckkkk noooo... | |
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| For The Guys- Would you seriously date an ex-prostitute?
Posted: 10/25/2006 10:11:35 PM | Darkguy84
Did I say only immigrants are diseased? There are diseases everywhere and are spread around throughout the world. Also, I did not come to canada and i'm not your father. My ancestors came here as immigrants also and struggled and they found decent jobs so your daddy isn't the only one if that's who you're talking about.
Who said every single one was a drug addict? Many of them are. Are we talking only about "higher class" ones? I knew some and they were on drugs. I knew strippers and they were on drugs. I knew street whores and they were on drugs. I never met one who wasn't on drugs. Child molesters and murderers and other criminals are human beings. Do they deserve to get treated like anyone else? I would not but you may.
Also, you cannot help someone who won't help themself.
You seem to know a lot about prostitutes. Sorry about your luck. I'm sure you're one of the ones who would like it legal so that you won't end up in jail one of these days.
And you never responded about massaging a penis and back being the same. Of course it wouldn't matter to you because obviously your "girlfriends" do both.
A few clients a week? What is a few? 10 or 15? That's more than a lot of women have in their lifetime.
In my opinion I think it's sad and disgusting that a guy has to resort to using prostitutes. But that is just my opinion.
If she was a street prostitute, she surely has some MAJOR emotional problems... Especially with intimacy. She easily could be the kind to run off when she starts feeling emotionally close too you, basically wasting all of your invested time.
There are also guys that are like that too. Maybe they were gigalos? Or maybe they have only been with hookers?
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