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Posted: 10/26/2006 2:02:06 AM | It's all a matter of perspective. Drugs? Anyone here use caffiene? Or drink anything alcoholic? Both are chemicals that have the same properties as other compounds that are considered 'drugs'. You know hookers and strippers that are on drugs? Have you looked at the number of politicians who've used drugs (and probably still do)? An astounding number of 'pillars of society' have used drugs while legislating (the lawyers) and advising (the doctors) others not to. Hypocricy at it's finest.
Child molesters, murderers, etc. yes, they are human beings. The will get treated as such, and take the punishment and corrective actions that are necessary for whatever makes them do what they do. If they remain prone to their abusive behavior, they should stay incarcerated. Each case is different. And while I don't like capital punishment, if I actually witnessed anyone molesting a child, in a rage, I'd probably kill him or her myself at that instant (I was molested as a kid), and take whatever punishment I had to, just to remove that person from the planet to avoid them ruining anyone else's life.
Obviously giving someone pleasure by manipulating part of their body for any sort of reimbursement bothers you. Just because you feel some parts are off limits doesn't mean everyone else does. It's that puritanical attitude that causes the repression of the natural sexual drive, results in frustration, which manifests itself in violent ways as a relief valve. Violence is perfectly fine in our puritanical society, which likes to funnel it into military force. While military force is necessary, all too often it is used by the elite for financial gain, and I'd really rather have our soldiers getting a rush from an orgasm than killing people just so the rich can profit from their lands.
Not everyone 'resorts' to using prostitutes. Some people prefer no long term relationship. Should they bend to what you think is appropriate? And if so, why? Maybe they are on a business trip far away from home for an extended period; why would they start a relationship that they know will end, if they can purchase the companionship, and yes, sex too if they want it, with a willing 'vendor of services'? We 'rent' drivers of taxis instead of driving ourselves or buying a car, we 'rent' people in restaurants instead of making our food ourselves, we 'rent' someone to do our plumbing, electrical, and carpentry, so why can't we 'rent' someone to give us an orgasm and/or affection instead of doing it ourselves? Hey, lawyers and doctors charge upwards from $300 an hour, and when they're done, we usually feel like we paid too much. On the other hand, I'm willing to bet most people who've paid for sex (or in my case, affection) left feeling, 'yeah, that was really nice, I'd like to do that again'. Ever think anyone left a doctor's, dentists, or lawyers office thinking the same thing? Probably not.
See, it's all perspective. Once you take away the issue of who's 'morals' are right and who's are wrong, it's all the same thing.
And no, I've never paid anyone for sex. I have spent a small fortune to just sit and cuddle with lap dancers after I got divorced though. You can give yourself an orgasm; you can't give yourself affection, and when you need a hug, you need a hug, there's no substitute (and don't get me started on the old,'maybe you should get a dog for companionship' idea. I'd really prefer a woman to a dog). Too much loneliness will drive me crazy, so I found a 'cure'. O.K., any prostitutes want a normal date?
(Now getting off my soapbox). Let the flames begin.
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Posted: 10/26/2006 8:36:19 AM | Guys could be already dating a woman (or planning to), not realizing that she is a prostitute.
I've hung out with women who were prostitutes but never did anything sexual with them. Some women who are prostitutes are more sexually conservative than you think. | |
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Posted: 10/26/2006 8:47:16 AM | Verboten....
your quote ", the vagina is a muscle. Who says "she might be too loose" anymore? Probably only men who are too small."
Your comment is contradicting itself.... penis is a muscle as well. And what's wrong if a guy has a smaller penis or a bigger one for that matter? and if it does matter than I guess only women with tighter vaginas and bigger breasts are good than. | |
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Posted: 10/26/2006 10:59:29 AM | in a way i did...she wasn't a prostitute, but she had been with quite a few men, probably more men then i know any man has been with women, and she was only 21 at the time. i knew all this before we started dating. i asked her to get tested and i would to just to make her feel more comfortable. after we got our test results, then we started banging like rabbits.
not all (ex)prostitutes do it for the money, my ex did it because she was missing something and she wasn't sure what it is. her father molested her as a child, every guy says sweet things just to get her into bed, then dump her, confusing her. now she has a good family with a guy who loves her (not me, but i wanted to, she a comic geek like me...lol)
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Posted: 10/26/2006 5:06:42 PM |
Your comment is contradicting itself.... penis is a muscle as well. And what's wrong if a guy has a smaller penis or a bigger one for that matter?
You obviously missed my point. And, you obviously don't know how to use "contradiction" properly.
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Posted: 10/26/2006 6:00:28 PM | Nightfly,
I should have been more specific and used 'illegal drugs' for all you simple people. Yes many people use illegal drugs in every profession but not as high a percentage as prostitutes do.
Child molesters and other criminals are human beings but they do not deserve my respect. I also do not think violence is ok and am against it and needless wars.
I do not think certain body parts are 'off limits'. I simply asked if the guy had a masseuse girlfriend if he wouldn't mind that she massaged penises because it was stated by him that massaging the back and penis is the same thing. Also this is not a puritanical society anymore. If it was we wouldn't have stds all over the place and unwanted pregnancies and 13 year olds having sex with whoever.
If you want to date or marry a ex hooker or by all means do so, but don't be surprised if he/she doesn't wander. Like the song, "you can't turn a ho into a housewife, they just don't act right." People do change but not likely.
If people want to 'rent' other people's bodies than that is their choice. If they do then they shouldn't be in a relationship already and spread disease to their partner or they should tell their partner first. Hookers, escorts, etc. have said most of the clientele are married or have a girlfriend. If you don't believe me ask them.
For the people all for it and legalizing it, how would you feel if your daughter was doing it or your mother? Do you think it's okay for them to do it because it's like any other job?
By the way, the strippers weren't there to cuddle with you. They were there to collect $. But if that makes you feel better then go for it. I would rather cuddle with someone that I have an emotional connection with. | |
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Posted: 10/26/2006 6:12:44 PM | you should be able to relate, everyone on this earth has been a prostitute to something or someone,at SOME TIME. Be it their job, thier pet, thier wife, entertainment, whatever...so go ahead, cast the first stone..... | |
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Posted: 10/26/2006 6:56:12 PM | so whats the difference between a prostitute and any other woman. all women withhold sex until they get what they want and its usually something of value that they want.
so yeah i would. and in todays world, there are a lot of women that have had more partners that a lot of prostitutes so theres no difference there either. | |
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Posted: 10/27/2006 5:16:33 AM | | Why wouldnt you? That is just another profession! You'd date a doctor , lawyer, or Indian madien, so why not a lady that works her profession? Maybe you think to much of yourself.I just wouldn't want to be treated as a john. | |
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Posted: 10/27/2006 7:16:17 AM | "I've hung out with women who were prostitutes but never did anything sexual with them. Some women who are prostitutes are more sexually conservative than you think."
conservative???? lol, i guess they just don't want to give it for free when they can charge their clinet $$$$$$. | |
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Posted: 10/27/2006 9:51:49 AM | All women are worthy of being pursued, courted, and treated like a princess…regardless of their past and promiscuous choices and lifestyle…yes she will be a challenge for any man dating her, but then again we ALL have baggage, but any woman who has had a life like-that, can be redeemed and be made pure again…and a lot of it has do with us guys. I would certainly date her and in fact, I have, I have married her, and have had children with her….and it’s been 15 years that I would never exchange in the good and the bad…you love her because it is just the right thing to do.
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Posted: 10/28/2006 10:51:39 AM | | If I met someone and liked them and wanted to date them, the fact they used to be a prostitute wouldn't matter. I'd treat them the same as I'd treat any woman I was with. It's not what we've done it's who we are that matters. | |
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Posted: 10/29/2006 4:39:29 PM | "Did I say only immigrants are diseased? There are diseases everywhere and are spread around throughout the world. Also, I did not come to canada and i'm not your father. My ancestors came here as immigrants also and struggled and they found decent jobs so your daddy isn't the only one if that's who you're talking about.
Who said every single one was a drug addict? Many of them are. Are we talking only about "higher class" ones? I knew some and they were on drugs. I knew strippers and they were on drugs. I knew street whores and they were on drugs. I never met one who wasn't on drugs. Child molesters and murderers and other criminals are human beings. Do they deserve to get treated like anyone else? I would not but you may.
Also, you cannot help someone who won't help themself.
You seem to know a lot about prostitutes. Sorry about your luck. I'm sure you're one of the ones who would like it legal so that you won't end up in jail one of these days.
And you never responded about massaging a penis and back being the same. Of course it wouldn't matter to you because obviously your "girlfriends" do both.
A few clients a week? What is a few? 10 or 15? That's more than a lot of women have in their lifetime.
In my opinion I think it's sad and disgusting that a guy has to resort to using prostitutes. But that is just my opinion."
luna *azul
You just don't get it do you? Just because I'm defending prostitutes doesn't mean I go to them. I have not gone down that route and don't plan on it anytime soon. So please get off your high horse . However I don't look down on prostitutes. and if you truly believe that prostitutes deserve to be treated the same as child molesters and murderers then there is something seriously wrong with you. We already know that a lot of prostitutes use drugs you're basically spewing the same stuff you said in your last post. Should prostitution be legalized? I believe it should. If you believe prostitution is wrong or disgusting that's your belief. but whether it's legal or not it's never going to go away. So you're just going to have to deal with it.
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