| Is Anyone Seriously Looking 2 Meet & Date On Here...?
Posted: 11/27/2007 8:43:24 PM | JUST WAY TO FUNNY. I READ THE PROFILE FAST . and did not see he was a guy looking for a guy. there is threads for gay guys on this, wow just when i thought i saw it all, way to funny. i should ask him if he thinks hilly is cute. mabye that why he posting in here, i know all us girls don't have a shot. | |
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| Is Anyone Seriously Looking 2 Meet & Date On Here...?
Posted: 11/28/2007 9:46:03 AM | yea i think we all got fooled on that one big time,must be the time of year with the thanksgiving, and chrismas, i have been running around with my head off. trying to get ever thing ready and done. but i needed the giggle, only here.  | |
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| Is Anyone Seriously Looking 2 Meet & Date On Here...?
Posted: 11/30/2007 6:55:11 AM | O my god do u think so really sweetntarty? should be a clue, when some one is looking for a pity party, i just don't let her get to me life is just to dam short.the losing her home is true i seen the bill myself over 3 grand in baack lot rent.wow she has not paid it in over 2 yrs at 155 a mt. come on. i wish my bills where that cheap. she does nto have a hold on life at all,she does not understand one has children and things they must do, but my mom never raised my kids, nor would i wan't her too.thank god you never had to use pg's bathroom, i still haveing bad dreams over that one. and i did try the elf thing very cool.  | |
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| Is Anyone Seriously Looking 2 Meet & Date On Here...?
Posted: 11/30/2007 9:36:03 AM | I don't know pg, I've never met her. But I really don't think this is the kind of stuff that should be posted on a public forum about anyone. Besides that, it's definitely off topic...aren't there rules about that on here? I've noticed you bashing her in every post in the PA forums.
On topic...No, I've decided there really aren't a lot of people on here who are seriosly looking to meet and date. Lately, I've just been on here to read the forums. | |
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| Is Anyone Seriously Looking 2 Meet & Date On Here...?
Posted: 11/30/2007 4:48:05 PM | First of all, Deb is right... the forums aren't the place to bash anyone, especially if they aren't here to defend themself.. and it is WAY off topic.
Anyway... I'm pretty much done with trying to meet someone on here. I'm having much better luck on that other site. (Thanks, Dr. Phil!)  | |
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| Is Anyone Seriously Looking 2 Meet & Date On Here...?
Posted: 11/30/2007 9:01:28 PM | I'm not looking, not anymore.Already found him.
He is my best friend,and soul mate.
Its going to be the happiest Christmas I ever had.
Have known him since May 2002.
We have a life time to share.
Wish everyone good luck in finding that special person
who makes your heart skip a beat.
Pat  | |
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| Is Anyone Seriously Looking 2 Meet & Date On Here...?
Posted: 12/1/2007 2:11:26 AM | | Pat Im so happy for you .......I hope you have a wonderful xmas and Happy New Year. I thought I found the one from another site, but guess Im wrong. Oh well , someday it will happen for me. I dont believe people really want to meet and date on here.......Most are only looking for one thing. Oh Well Life goes on...........Merry Christmas EVERYONE | |
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| Is Anyone Seriously Looking 2 Meet & Date On Here...?
Posted: 12/1/2007 9:24:26 AM |
Pat Im so happy for you .......I hope you have a wonderful xmas and Happy New Year. I thought I found the one from another site, but guess Im wrong. Oh well , someday it will happen for me. I dont believe people really want to meet and date on here.......Most are only looking for one thing. Oh Well Life goes on....
Pat... yaayyy... I am so happy for you, too. Call me if you still have my number, or email me on AOL. I want details, lady! 
Shorty.... you're right, someday it will happen for you.. and for all of us. I agree with you completely that most people on here don't really want to meet, let alone date.
Try that other site...............lol | |
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| Is Anyone Seriously Looking 2 Meet & Date On Here...?
Posted: 12/19/2007 12:35:16 PM | I do not see many male replys, so I will give mine, and it is only mine.
Am I wrong, or must you not first start off as friends first???? So do you think that happens over night???? I would be happy to date someone who is not the walking wounded, who knows who she is, and then is not afraid to show that to me. I think either,paying or free sites are JUST one way to meet people or friends, who may grow into more than just friends. My search is this, simple, know who you are, be willing to share that at some point in time, be (HONEST, be factor with knowing who you are.)
So if you want to go ahead and pay to have this feeling that the men are better on pay sites, go ahead and pay.
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| Is Anyone Seriously Looking 2 Meet & Date On Here...?
Posted: 1/25/2008 9:14:21 AM | I see my thread is still here.
Anyway I still feel this is a friend site not a dating site,
which I made some nice friends on here...!
IMHO...... I do believe paid sites u have better luck only,
because who wants to pay unless ur really seriously looking..?
When I 1st found this site I thought what the heck,
I will try it... but as time went on I thought what a joke...as far as
meeting someone serious.
Not saying it couldn't happen, but I wouldn't HOLD MY BREATH..!
One of the biggest issues I find on this site is others that include ppls NICK....
and bashing them...should not be allowed...! | |
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| Is Anyone Seriously Looking 2 Meet & Date On Here...?
Posted: 1/27/2008 6:17:51 AM | Well, so far I've seen only about two dozen women with a profile that actually says something other than... "Blah blah blah, your just going to look at my picture anyway"... Of those that had a real profile, maybe 6 interested me. Out of those, on this site, I have yet to even receive a common curiosity response of any sort... Maybe the reason this is a "friend site" has mostly to do with incomplete profiles..I don't know maybe my profile stinks too. I'll take any constructive criticism anyone wants to give me on it.
Now my side rant...
Unfortunately, it appears that integrity in both men and women seems to have taken a huge nose dive... Overall, I've met more women that want to jump headlong into bed TO start a relationship... I'm starting to wonder if there is something wrong with me... Don't get me wrong, I like having fun but there has to be some sort of self-control...
Silly me insisting that anyone I choose to be with would actually be someone I respect and admire... I must think way too highly of myself and have unrealistic expectations ;)...
And no... Pay sites aren't worth it either, tried one for three months, about a half dozen dates with women that had such low self esteem I wondered how they function in society at all... On the third date, one said to me, "This restaurant is too good for someone like me!" :-O . How does one say something like that? Even think it? It wasn't even that good of a restaurant! I gave her two more dates and I had enough... Met one that was a drunk with three DUIs! Pretty girl but three DUIs!!! One that had an ex-boyfriend that hit her and was still coming around.. Sorry, I'm not a knight on a white horse...
Even worse, I know that some women use these sites as more of an ego boost than to actually find a good man. Keeping the account years after they "found the one"... Great! Now that's the type of woman I want to find :eyeroll:
So to me, the thought that I might find a woman on an on-line dating site that has the characteristics I'm looking for is, well slim.. Finding a woman that doesn't have the characteristics that I'm avoiding is hard enough :) What I'm looking for is just plain rare... I've waited this long... I've had two very good long term relationships that lasted a total of 15 years of my life that I can be grateful for, at 35 I can't complain. I'll wait longer to find the one that fits correctly.
All that being said, I think women have it way worse! All my friends are good men, they wouldn't be my friends if they weren't and (of course) they are all taken.. I have 10 times more aquaitences than friends, maybe 20 times more, and I know that most are pure jerks.. Let alone what I see and hear from many of my female friends. The grass is not greener... However, I have to say this. It's all women's fault.. Yea I said it... You women have to start demanding that men start acting like men, period. You have to start making these guys live up to a higher standard. You have to demand it... Of course that means living up to a higher standard yourselves but it is worth it.
Here is a good example... My friend is having a party. She has me and one other guy over and the rest are women. Most I know and all those I know are married. I never met three of them. One is cute and she's the only one without a ring. I go over and start asking her about herself. Next thing I know we're having some fun. Then after she's gone my friend informs me that shes married! I don't feel guilty I didn't know, but um... Shouldn't that come up somewhere between hi and slipping the tongue? Silly me.. Three days later I'm at another friends party and I get to meet her husband! :smackshead:
Sigh...
What a crazy world we live in...
Patience... That's what it takes... Patience...
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| Is Anyone Seriously Looking 2 Meet & Date On Here...?
Posted: 1/29/2008 1:40:12 PM | not for nothing but lately i've been feeling like that guy on "must love dogs" with plenty of first dates. since june '06 i met about 7 guys in person, had dinner with 1, lunch with another, and pretty much hung out with the others, oh and stood up by 1. i made and lost a lot of friends in here (friends of both sexes) and i'm trying it again. with my 2nd chance at life it also offers me a 2nd chance at hoping to find love, to love and be loved again. so far since the beginning of the new year (new year's eve) i was invited to a nye party by another member. he and i met at the 1st pig roast last year and continue to talk as friends only. the other guy that i met in person, he and i met here in my home and just hung out talking. no kissing, no making out, no sex....only met as friends first with hopes that maybe something would be there. he hasn't talked to me as of yet but who knows?
all i can say is that i would love to meet my mr. not-so-right and hope things would work out, atleast dating.....hopefully there's someone out there that would go out on a 2nd date with me, even if it's dinner in my own home. | |
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| Is Anyone Seriously Looking 2 Meet & Date On Here...?
Posted: 1/29/2008 4:31:33 PM | I'm sure there is, hang in there. Sometimes sparks just don't flow... Good luck and here's a tip for you women.
Run your hand on a guys back while standing beside him facing the same direction. If he doesn't touch you forgetaboutit. If he does, he's interested. I gave that advice to a friend of mine, she tried it on a friend of mine, they dated for a while afterwards..
Test it out... | |
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| Is Anyone Seriously Looking 2 Meet & Date On Here...?
Posted: 2/8/2008 8:53:25 PM | | I am seriously looking "to" (not the number two, but the preposition "to") meet on here. I don't want to date a lot of gals. I don't want to spend all of that time and energy on many. Isn't there someone out here who HASN'T let themselves go to pot, and actually WANTS a truly nice guy??? | |
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| Is Anyone Seriously Looking 2 Meet & Date On Here...?
Posted: 2/9/2008 12:47:56 PM | | Okay Micro, maybe instead of waiting to meet, let's make the women come to you! Can you find a trivia place and plan a POF party there? (BTW, when did you move to Nebraska? LOL) I love trivia games, but I don't think I would go to Nebraska for one! | |
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| Is Anyone Seriously Looking To Meet & Date On Here...?
Posted: 4/14/2008 5:09:47 PM |
Is Anyone Seriously Looking To Meet & Date On Here...?
Well, folks... the dating world has been handed another setback.
I browsed through the personals, and one picture in particular caught my eye. I e-mailed her, and we chatted briefly. Being a poor and slow typist, I felt I was at a handicap, so I invited her to lunch. We met at a restautant.
When she came in, she looked at the table where I was sitting, and asked, "Are you Dave?" I was FLOORED. My first impression was to get up and RUN. My next impression was to leave $10 on the table, and THEN run. But I decided that since I didn't do a good job of screening, I should take my punishment.
This gal looked NOTHING like her picture. She was EASILY 40 pounds heavier than her picture, and probably about 10-15 years older. I was FURIOUS. Yes, once again, I was DUPED. (She claimed her body type was "average" She couldn't even admit to a "few extra pounds!")
The conversation, to say the least, was very strained. I tried to be polite. After she ordered a BIG salad, WITH meat, she went on to tell me that she was doing a good job on her diet, and had only 20 more pounds to go. The denial in this gal was unbelievable.
Watching her chew was a sight that made me extremely uncomfortable.
And to make it worse, she had a TERRIBLE speech affliction. She could not put together a sentence without saying "It's like" or "I'm like" first. It was as if she was ringing a bell every time she opened her mouth. That, my friends, was BRUTAL.
I won't mention any names, but guys... WATCH OUT for this one. That was the longest half hour I spent in my life!
Afterward, I thought about it. She lied to me, so I owed her no courtesy. That settles it. NEXT TIME someone does this to me, I am WALKING. | |
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