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 Pisces~65

Joined: 2/11/2008
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Posted: 4/14/2008 5:23:50 PM
awww so sorry Micro..that is a totally shocking story..wow...lol.. ~Kel
 country.girl

Joined: 12/26/2007
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Posted: 4/14/2008 7:17:52 PM
mc, i'm sorry that you had another rough date. i know that when i talk to people on the phone i admit that i gained some weight. i guess i just can't wait until the spring weather or at least warmer weather to start my walks again. why can't some people be honest about themselves with regards to age, weight, and stuff like that so it's not that much of a let down for the member of the opposite sex.

hey, you also may not be quick with the typing but when it came to you playing that game you were quick with the answers and got a lot of them right too.

ok, now i'm running for the door so i don't have to hear anything bad about me
 Microchip

Joined: 11/4/2007
Msg: 303
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Posted: 4/14/2008 8:52:31 PM


i admit that i gained some weight

My point exactly. YOU are honest, and that goes a LONG way. I just wonder what this gal's motivations were: so she'd get a free lunch? Argh! And again... the weight wasn't the issue.



hey, you also may not be quick with the typing but when it came to you playing that game you were quick with the answers and got a lot of them right too.

Thanks! That was Buzztime Trivia. When we played together, that was the 200th different place I've played. I am up to 226 now.
 optimismnlaughter

Joined: 4/3/2006
Msg: 304
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Posted: 4/15/2008 7:16:38 AM
Awww, my Quality Man...... I thought you were holding out for me all this time.. what gives?? Are you playing me for a fool ???
How tall are you??? 226!!! And you talked about this lady..my, my, my!
And now what was all that in the other thread last night when I wasn't around to defend myself, I do get out to enjoy myself sometimes,..hummm, I will listen to you and debate with you..3 pages worth Sweetie..on Pa alone..that's not counting the other states you have covered..then you wonder why some of us Women, don't want to hear about it any more...go figger??? DROP IT!! MUAH !!

As far as this subject goes...Don't you think that happens to us ladies too...

And since I couldn't post due to the 2-and-10 rule,,, I think you knew that in the other thread..please excuse me all, for the cross threading I need to explain to someone pof's rules ...he has done flaming and road tripping..amongst others ...but he won't listen long enough to absorb that!!..so I am out..and let me know if I have bothered any of you..God bless..
Optim alias LD
hugs to all
 healing_heart

Joined: 9/21/2007
Msg: 305
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Posted: 4/15/2008 11:09:39 AM
some ppl road trip more than I take vacations Ld and wow lol u know how many vacations I take... lol at least every other weekend Im gone for a long weekend... wonder if he has a GPS for all the road trips he takes???

as far as meeting on here this site does work, but you have to meet alot of frogs before you find the prince... if it were not for this site, Gary and I would have not met, and hmmm lol guess that means I wouldnt be married eh
 Microchip

Joined: 11/4/2007
Msg: 306
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Posted: 4/15/2008 4:58:19 PM
You're so right, HH. I'm glad you found your #1. Yes, you DO have to kiss a lot of frogs. That doesn't mean we have to enjoy it.

I still believe thatI will find my true love here. If you try even TALKING to a gal at work about anything but work, you risk getting fired. Bars? Not a good place. Nowadays, if a gal is single and in a bar, her integrity is questioned. Singles sites are just about all that's left.
 country.girl

Joined: 12/26/2007
Msg: 307
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Posted: 4/15/2008 6:44:24 PM
hmmm, i haven't been kissing frogs much lately, more like talking to rats... eventually i might find someone in here and maybe i won't. i'm not closing my eyes since there might be someone standing right behind me but too shy to say anything.

ummm, road tripping is crossing state lines or other countries, i don't want anyone to get confused with anything else that they shouldn't do.

mc, with how i was talking to you is the same way i talk to everyone, i have nothing to hide. oh, and that's great that your score went up. don't worry about fast fingers in here, it's that trivia game that you have to keep up with the speed. remember, you told me, you get more points by answering the correct answer faster.

btw, welcome back hh, i hope everything is well with everyone.

 dave1352

Joined: 9/12/2007
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Posted: 4/15/2008 8:51:02 PM
Microchip can I ask how a woman in a bar be it by herself or with a group should her integrity be questioned????? Maybe she just wanted a cold brew. Maybe your thought process, She's in a bar she can be only looking for "one thing" is flawed. I can understand why you can't talk to women at work with out worrying about getting fired.

i'm out
 lincolnmania

Joined: 8/10/2007
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Posted: 4/16/2008 5:36:18 AM
tried to send you a message country girl but i guess 37 is too young.
i'm bout 30 min away, from your profile we have alot in common
btw you have some good advise on these forums, how i found your profile
let me know if you would like to talk
 Pisces~65

Joined: 2/11/2008
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Posted: 4/16/2008 4:18:36 PM
So sorry "Mr. Quality Man" but i gotta agree totally with Dave on this one..all your thinking is kinda flawed when it comes to understanding a woman...UGH... ~Kel...
 optimismnlaughter

Joined: 4/3/2006
Msg: 311
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Posted: 4/17/2008 2:01:11 PM
Huh...what was that..reread you posts babe, you just re worded it ,,,here we go again.
oh my..I am so done,,let me know when it fun to post again..later..

I am just really grateful, for all the friends I have made .. my adopted Sistahsss..my Brother Larry..Gosh what I would do without him..I don't know..if I ever meet my perfect match, maybe not..but I have my Daughter to worry about right now..and there's no time for a full time committment..Good luck to all of you that want and really deserve this though..
 loving heart 50

Joined: 9/3/2006
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Posted: 4/25/2008 6:53:19 PM
Am I serious about looking to meet someone on here and date them,
Yes sir I am did not come here to waste my time or anyone elses.
I'm happy to have met the ones that I have and made some pretty cool
friendships.

There is an old saying that my late grandmother always told
me that when I stop looking love will find me when I least expect it. I'm a
firm believer in that nothing comes easy that there is alittle weight all good
things come and happen in due time.

I've enjoyed meeting the ones I've met and value the new friendships but
what I detest the most is the fishy games being played of ones hearts on here
or better yet in the real world.

POF I have to say for it being a free site is far the best , I love the fact of
the events that are schedualed and have just attended my first POF party
last week-end it was so much fun. I had a blast and am going to the one in
May that is schedualed.

But yes I am seriously looking to meet the one for me and the last love of my
life be it here or in my local area I'm seeking real love. How honest is that of an
answer cause I'm very much real and quite sincere.

Now if along the way I meet some wonderful people and form friendships with
them I'm even more blessed ... It's been a joy meeting everyone and reading there
post on forums .

Great topic once again peace & love everyone
for love is what makes the world go round
and lets face it the world
needs a lot more love in it and less hate.

All the best in your quest here on POF
go round ~Brenny

PS: Country.Girl you and LD are the best you two rock
 country.girl

Joined: 12/26/2007
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Posted: 4/27/2008 2:11:03 PM
If a man sees a woman in a bar alone nowadays, he forms negative opinions about her, and he will usually try to pick her up.

that's only 1 person's opinion and not all men think negative about a woman nor do they always try to pick them up.

I am not saying that she shouldn't, but I don't see ANY gals going out alone anymore, for that reason, and for safety's sake.

some women would rather not go out alone and be in the company of a friend or 2, some women might go alone feeling as if they just might want to be left alone.

with regards to the sexual harassment thing getting thinner and thinner, some places it's true. there are too many people, men and women that tend to say "he or she touched me the wrong way" or "he or she propositioned me" or something to that fact. i know when i worked at lowes a few years ago you couldn't even tell a guy or girl that he or she had a nice butt without being fired. i think things have gotten a bit out of hand with that along with other laws as well.

now, getting back on the topic....i would love to meet someone and date him if only given the chance but like i tell everyone it has to be friends first, without that then you're not able to build up on trust, honesty, and respect.
 NiceGuy907

Joined: 1/21/2008
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Posted: 4/30/2008 4:42:20 AM
I agree with country girl it has to be friends first, without that then you're not able to build up on trust, honesty, and respect. The only proble i have found so far is finding that a woman wants to be friends first. I just don't understand it personally. I mean you don't know who is on the other side of the computer. Society has become so consumer based that most people male or female look at the picture and not the profile or message you sent and that is it. If they do answer back they ask the basic questions and never really take a chance to get to know you as a friend.
I signed up for this sight to get away from the bar scene and that idea where when a guy walks up to a woman that he is just trying to get in her pants and she tells him to get lost. I have met more people in bars that would hang out each weekend and talk as friends, and if something happened it happened if not we just stayed friends, than i did since joining this site. Can anyone tell me where the real women looking to seriously meet and possibly date on here are hiding?
 Pisces~65

Joined: 2/11/2008
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Posted: 4/30/2008 12:06:45 PM
Yup...Daves got em all locked up...he wants a bigger harem and i dont think he is willing to share...lol.. ~Kel..
 country.girl

Joined: 12/26/2007
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Posted: 4/30/2008 3:59:27 PM
hplss romantic, some people do want to meet in person but some are hesitant with not actually knowing who it is that they're meeting. that's pretty much why a lot of women would rather prefer meeting in the public or at a public place.

with me....the person and i would talk in emails then talk in instant messenger...next would be talking on the phone. i've said this numerous times and i'll say it again. some people get nervous about meeting in person since they don't know them, i tend to trust everyone i meet unless they give me a reason not to trust them. i would get a sense of who they are, what they're about by reading their words written. when we talk on the phone it's to get to hear the voice behind the words written to give me a better sense of who they are. if i don't like what they're saying (talk too much about sex) or make me do all of the talking (i might hear heavy breathing on the phone) then we would never meet in person. when i'm talking to a person on the phone i visualize that i'm talking to them in person since i already seen a pic or pics of them. when meeting in person it's trust.

with regards to what you said...
signed up for this sight to get away from the bar scene and that idea where when a guy walks up to a woman that he is just trying to get in her pants and she tells him to get lost.
geez, i wonder what some guys think about me when i check out their a$$ or even better yet....tell them they have a sweet a$$. to them, they might think that i'm trying to get into their pants....to me, that's a compliment.

i'm looking to meet someone but yet in a way i'm not since apparently no one is willing to accept me with my honesty, being outspoken, and what ever else might be their reasons.
 optimismnlaughter

Joined: 4/3/2006
Msg: 317
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Posted: 5/3/2008 8:09:48 AM
~Kel ,,,can you take over this weekend as the head of the harum.. I have a party to attend to..Dave has me quite busy..hoping you can help me out.. ...watch him and that JD consumption baby girl..he does pretty good about not getting on the bike ..(joking, Dave)

Ld
 dave1352

Joined: 9/12/2007
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Posted: 5/3/2008 1:58:34 PM
The one reason I take it easy on the bike is it's quite embarissing to throw you leg over to saddle up and just keep going over.... Not as busy as you could be, I'm sure ~kel will make a fine #1...To the op what was it, oh ya.....Yes:: #1 ...
I'm out
 optimismnlaughter

Joined: 4/3/2006
Msg: 319
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Posted: 5/4/2008 7:13:13 AM
Not everyday...your Dad celebrates his 81st birthday...esp..after having a brush with health issues.. please be kind sweetie,..when it comes to my Dad.. I will see you guys later..hugs to all , and thanks ~Kel for the notes..I trust Dave, he is one awesome person..
Have a great Weekend all..Muah..
I think everyone has the wrong idea about us.. but in here..it's rumor central anyway..lol..
 country.girl

Joined: 12/26/2007
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Posted: 5/5/2008 12:59:04 PM
ld, i hope dad had a very happy birthday and sorry to hear about your car problems...welcome back.

now..... let's see...
1.......
2...........
3..............

the numbers can go higher but i'm not even going there....i've been talking to quite a few guys. they mention to me about meeting in person but once i mention to them about talking on the phone first so i can put a voice to their names and pics they tend to shy away and forget all about me. oh well....back to kissing them toads.
 HondaPat

Joined: 6/21/2007
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Posted: 5/5/2008 9:18:02 PM
Feeling kinda sad May 4th was my birthday,
spend the whole afternoon waiting for a ride.
Got stood up, to bad you dont live close by Dave,
I would had asked you for a birthday ride.
Awwwww well maybe next year.
Hugs,
Pat
 country.girl

Joined: 12/26/2007
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Posted: 5/6/2008 5:54:17 AM
pat, i'm sorry to hear that you got stood up for your birthday, it happens to the best of us and even the worst of us as well. i remember i got stood up for my birthday back in '06. the guy was supposed to be here by 1pm and instead he never called or anything worrying me that he got lost or something. i seen him online in yahoo and contacted him, he gave a terribly poor excuse....he had a 6pk of beer at noon (he was supposed to be on the road before noon), had to take care of a rental property that was being over ran by bugs. when i asked him how much did he have to drink (while talking to him in yahoo) he said that he drank a case of beer. i told him well, happy birthday to me and good bye to you.

things happen where we get stood up, cheated on, lied to, and a lot of other things but never, and i mean never let that slow you down. just pick up your rod again and cast away. better yet, try fly fishing....keep swaying the line (posting and emailing) out to attract the fish then keep the line in the water once you get a few fish hanging around (people interested) then reel your line in once you get a bite....don't reel prematurely on a quick and soft nibble, wait until you feel that line have a tug on it. eventually what i said might even work for me....that is if i find someone close enough or willing to drive since i don't have a car.

hmmm, i'm not a bar person but the local bar in town was sold, remodeled and open for business now. they have a nice dance floor and are looking for a cook. i guess once they start serving food i might meet someone there if they like...but not for me to drink, i wouldn't want to drink and have to walk home....i might bump in to yogi and ask him if he would like to dance
 HondaPat

Joined: 6/21/2007
Msg: 323
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Posted: 5/6/2008 12:42:38 PM
If everything works out I'll be going to Oklahoma
in the next few months.
Anything is possible if you have enough faith
and believe.
I have both.
Pat
 shorty561

Joined: 7/17/2005
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Posted: 5/6/2008 8:37:37 PM
WTG Pat..........Dont know whats going on in Oklahoma but good luck to you. I hope you met your knight in shining armour ......You deserve it woman........Asof being stood up....hey his lost not yours.......I am seriously looking to date someone from here...but still when I email someone . they dont email me back.......So for me too.......Their lost not mine......Life goes on
 country.girl

Joined: 12/26/2007
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Posted: 5/6/2008 9:29:47 PM
pat...wtg sis...you've come a long way baby...we all wish you happiness and a safe trip when you go but until then you're still ours

shorty, i'm still hoping that eventually i'll meet someone....i'm also still waiting for my phone to ring from a special guy that i met in here and been talking in email ever since before i died and after my resurrection...if ya know what i mean. i'm sure that eventually some one is going to reach out and just grab you out of our pond in here, it just takes time. i'm just enjoying my time talking to people in here (forums) and emails...even the ones that don't reply, at least i check out their profiles and email them....reply or not if they don't step up to bat they're not going to find out if they strike out or end up winning the game.

batter up guys, there are some great ladies in here that are well worth getting to know more about them
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