| Is Anyone Seriously Looking To Meet & Date On Here...?
Posted: 5/23/2008 8:00:58 AM |
Microchip can I ask how a woman in a bar be it by herself or with a group should her integrity be questioned?????
If a man sees a woman in a bar alone nowadays, he forms negative opinions about her, and he will usually try to pick her up. Whether she deserves that or not, that's the way life is now. I am not saying that she shouldn't, but I don't see ANY gals going out alone anymore, for that reason, and for safety's sake.
This is what year and what century already. Let's see: I'm in 2008 and this is the 21st, right? And a woman who goes to a bar by herself is a automatically a pickup? That must have been my problem at the Hermitage / Waet Middlesex Fish party. Dayum, I violated all the societal norms and cruised the bar by myself. NO WONDER I got propositioned 4 times in 2 hours. ROTFL!
The only thing I've heard that is even more off the national norms: I know educated professional women in this town who've never had a date in 5 years. Nobody ever asks them out. So, I asked a male accquaintance "Do men in this town ever date?" Answer: "Oh yes, but there are so few people, that everyone knows everyone else. For a guy to ask you out, that means he's like really serious and thinks you might be someone to marry."
Okie dokey. Whattevah, y'all, youose guys, I mean y'uns.  | |
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| Is Anyone Seriously Looking 2 Meet & Date On Here...?
Posted: 5/27/2008 1:45:40 AM | | I am with you on that I have sent emails to alot of women here on POF and never get even a I am not interested I get nothing It is really starting to bother me I am on paysites too aand I have met some really nice people there I cant say the same for this site other then its free but I am not finding anything so what is free ? | |
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| Is Anyone Seriously Looking 2 Meet & Date On Here...?
Posted: 5/27/2008 9:51:14 AM | @hyner....don't be bothered with unanswered emails, just keep posting in the forums (even the open forums) to give people a chance to get to know you more. just sit back, relax, and enjoy the ride.
oh, and btw, i'm still waiting for a special someone to come into my life. seems that after 3 yrs and my ex boyfriend breaking up with his girlfriend he still has an interest in me. ummm, only problem is it's been entirely too long to think about getting back with him. besides, i was abused twice by him (strangled & broken nose) and i sure as hell am not going to be going back in time. | |
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| Is Anyone Seriously Looking To Meet & Date On Here...?
Posted: 6/5/2008 3:23:43 AM | Posted: 5/23/2008 6 24 PM
But aren't all educated professional women "ballbusters"? (To feed this stereotype)
Yeppers, da millboys all think so. They should have aimed in little higher in life themselves instead of resenting self-reliant women who've put in the time, money, and effort to get ahead. "Ballbuster" woman, or desirable life partner: It's all a matter of perspective. For a relationship to work, you need intellectual, emotional, and spiritual, as well as physical intimacy. If both parties click, we're hittin' on all 8. Otherwise, it's cr*p. | |
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| Is Anyone Seriously Looking 2 Meet & Date On Here...?
Posted: 6/13/2008 7:00:39 AM | | mlynn, there are some decent guys on this site. you look like a beautiful woman and i don't see why guys aren't just jumping in to talk to you. i have a problem that not many men are interested in taking on with me so i tend to just sit back and read in the forums. oh well, life goes on. | |
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| Is Anyone Seriously Looking 2 Meet & Date On Here...?
Posted: 6/14/2008 11:58:54 AM | that's true kel.........
wow, would you believe that i actually got emails from a few new guys that i never talked to before and one guy that i talked to briefly last year? now i know the world's going to come to an end! | |
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Posted: 7/4/2008 3:25:41 PM | well, apparently there's someone that's been emailing me then blocking me but yet she calls herself a friend as well as me a friend to her. geez, go figure.
ummm, kel, my best friends (heather and richard from london, ontario) and i have been talking in another site. one of heather's friends (mike) started sending flirts with me in there...he and i have been flirting back and forth and talking on the phone as well. mike is a former member of here, he left a few years ago because of a private issue...heather and richard left a few months ago and they're getting married tomorrow. damn it! i wished i still had a car so i can make it to their wedding.
oh, and thank you...i think you're a friend as well.
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| Is Anyone Seriously Looking 2 Meet & Date On Here...?
Posted: 7/6/2008 11:34:35 AM | Hi. I always have been looking for my best friend,soulmate and more for life leading to eventual marriage. I have been kinda disappointed by what I did find. Seems like many are here just for a booty call. I have been considering leaving but do hope a real lady will recognize me for the real man I am.johnny | |
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| Is Anyone Seriously Looking 2 Meet & Date On Here...?
Posted: 7/6/2008 10:27:00 PM | johnny, it works both ways hun, there's a lot of guys that are looking out for one thing only in here too, it's not all women. don't leave the site because you can't find love, stay because you want to give love the chance to find you.
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Posted: 7/18/2008 9:42:33 AM | well 2ofcup, it's only the truth. if you give up on the site because you're not able to find anyone, find love, don't leave because you can't find love.....stay to give love a chance to find you. who knows, a special someone might be watching over each of us but not sure how to approach is.
i used to say....."don't love me because you hate me, hate me because you love me". what i mean is never love someone because you hate them, hate what they say or do.....hate the person for making you love them without actually hating them. do you understand? i can be a bit confusing at times. | |
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| Is Anyone Seriously Looking 2 Meet & Date On Here...?
Posted: 1/24/2009 2:01:24 PM | i haven't heard that in a long time the only problem there is no one makes someone do something that they're not ready to do or want to do.
"i hate myself for loving you".......as joan jett says in her song.
i'm still here, still looking but just chilling out. i met a few people in here in person just that nothing became of anything. | |
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| Is Anyone Seriously Looking 2 Meet & Date On Here...?
Posted: 2/9/2009 6:30:29 PM | omg, i haven't been looking completely, just checking out a few profiles and emailing some of the guys that check out my profile and are too shy to contact me. i can't believe today.....3 emails from guys that i never talked to...they made the initial contact. one of the guys is such a character with his joking emails but also seems nice. another guy is also joking around and he also seems nice. i'm hoping to meet someone and see where things go, it gets boring being alone as everyone knows. i dunno. | |
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| Is Anyone Seriously Looking 2 Meet & Date On Here...?
Posted: 3/29/2009 6:12:27 AM | I have tried several payed sites and have experienced similar occurances and now I am hesitant to pay another site. It seems that there are the same people on day after day and have tried leaving and coming back after a few months, that seems to help. It is difficult to know what you are going to find when meeting someone, even after hours of chat or phone.
Its easy to be open online and quite a bit more challenging face to face. Your personality and theirs may not always mesh enough for more than one date. If the man or woman is really serious they will give it more than one to find out about the other. Im afraid that is the only way to tell no matter how painful it can be. | |
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Posted: 3/29/2009 6:15:31 AM | | I can echo notnative's seminent here, I have met some women who were definitely "ballbusters" and guess what? its not always easy to spot them right off, sometimes you have to find out the hard way | |
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| Is Anyone Seriously Looking To Meet & Date On Here...?
Posted: 3/31/2009 2:55:52 PM | just popping in to see if there is anyone out there that's really looking to date anyone in here......i guess i decided to take a vacation since people email me then vanish into thin air.....i'm looking to meet as friends first and hopefully take things from there. | |
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| Is Anyone Seriously Looking 2 Meet & Date On Here...?
Posted: 4/1/2009 11:14:42 PM | | Prehaps a photo might help a man looking for more to find you. Last time i checked my skills, xray vision wasn't in my powers. To further answer your question part of what you say is close to truth. From a guys point of view i find more women on here just looking for attention, a brief cyber connection that helps them get thru the day without actually making a commitment to come and test the waters. No good man can be aquired that way, and frankly, i got enough friends. Big Pirate Hugs, daniel | |
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| Is Anyone Seriously Looking 2 Meet & Date On Here...?
Posted: 4/22/2009 5:19:52 PM | | Pirate...From a WOMANS point of view more MEN on here are just looking for attention, a brief cyber connection that helps get them thru the day without actually making a commitment to come test the waters...No good WOMAN can be acquired that way, and frankly, i got enough friends.. (HUGS) ~Kel.. (thinking this should sound familiar to ya..lol) | |
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