| Is Anyone Seriously Looking 2 Meet & Date On Here...?
Posted: 4/24/2009 11:14:59 AM | hmmm, they say you can never have enough friends so with the route i've been taking i lost count. i would like to come out of hiding and start dating again.....but............i haven't met anyone that would like to see me more than once. i don't know what it is but after someone meets me it seems that they run for even higher elevation....higher than the elevation is here at pocono summit.
now, if there's someone out there that would accept me for me....the bad and the good and not the barbie doll type then let me know. i'm not looking for someone that drinks 3 beers but in reality drinks more than that and tells me only 3 beers. i'm not looking for someone to use me as a punching bag or to scream at me. and i'm not looking for someone that lies, cheats, is disrespectful, and doesn't know what the use of soap and water are for. geez, i lived in the sticks up until about 6 months ago and i even know what they're for.....and it's not to wash the bugs off the windshield...lol. | |
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| Is Anyone Seriously Looking 2 Meet & Date On Here...?
Posted: 5/2/2009 10:38:56 AM | | I TOTALLY AGREE WITH YOU IT DOESNT MATTER PAYING SITE OR NOT GUYS ON HERE ESP ARE CRUEL, ALL THEY CARE ABOUT IS HOW MUCH U WEIGHT UR LOOKS WHAT WE LOOK LIKE FROM THE WASTE DOWN OR THEY JUST THROW THEIR NUMBER OUT I MEAN I KNOW ITS ESASIER TO TALK AND TRUST US WE WILL TALK BUT I MEAN WE WANT TO GET TO KNOW U IF U SENT UR NUMBER THAT FAST TO US HOW DO WE KNOW U HAVENT DONE THAT TO THE REST OF THE WOMEN? ITS JUST DUMB IM NOT EVEN LOOKING TO FIND LOVE ANYMORE I BELIVE GOD HAS A PLAN WHEN HE COMES TO ME HE WILL BE THE ONE HOPEFULLY HAHA | |
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| Is Anyone Seriously Looking 2 Meet & Date On Here...?
Posted: 5/3/2009 6:56:56 PM | Hi,
In response to itztime4achange's last post. I totally agree with your statement about cruel guys, but I believe it goes both ways. I sometimes think that when some people try this online thing, that either:
A: They are not really serious, and are just wanting to get some attention to help their egos.
B: They are just looking to "hook up".
C: They are deliberately looking for the unattainable for a myriad of reasons.
or worst of all:
D: Looking to put down others just so they can feel better about themselves.
I'm sure that this is not the majority of people on here (at least I hope so!  ), but definitely there are some.
Also in response to some of the other messages in this thread, sometimes getting up the guts to send that first email, and taking the risk of getting no reply or worse yet, a nasty reply, can be overwhelming.
And I know for at least myself, trying to get the exchange off the ground in even the best of circumstances can be difficult! It's almost like I'm trying to sell something, and I don't think it should have to be that way, but I guess in reality it is.
I'll keep plugging along here and hope for the best
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| Is Anyone Seriously Looking 2 Meet & Date On Here...?
Posted: 5/7/2009 8:50:42 PM | Been on here since 06 and the answer to question is NO & NO
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| Is Anyone Seriously Looking 2 Meet & Date On Here...?
Posted: 5/7/2009 10:33:58 PM | Wow I must be blessed! I have had no problem finding someone to date, the problem is that I have found that the dating has to take a serious turn , quickly. I do not want to say asnything bad about the ladies that I have met on here. They are wonderful people. The problem is the push for commitment. Or maybe the problem is me...I can't call dating for 2 weeks a relationship or after the same time frame call someone my g/f or s/o let alone be a b/f. When the time comes I am not afraid to commit I just don't like it pushed. Is my thinking skewed or is friends frist just a catch phrase. My answer is yes and yes.....we are out here......
Dave.... I'm out | |
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| Is Anyone Seriously Looking 2 Meet & Date On Here...?
Posted: 5/8/2009 12:53:49 PM | | Dave..its not you..i think if after a week or two and someones pushing for a committment for life there should be some kind of red flag going off..i mean come on how well can you know someone after a week or two?..Just my 2 cents.. (hugs) ~Kel... | |
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| Is Anyone Seriously Looking 2 Meet & Date On Here...?
Posted: 5/21/2009 8:01:41 PM | brian, i hope the emails you're sending are more than 6 words. women also don't go for sexual inuendos or anything of the sort.....not right away anyway.
just give it time, you're new to the site...keep posting and allow others to read your thoughts. | |
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| Is Anyone Seriously Looking 2 Meet & Date On Here...?
Posted: 5/22/2009 9:32:10 PM | bri...read the entire profile, think of things to talk about in the email that you have in common with her. don't ask "where you from", if you're not sure of exactly where she's at...ask her...."i'm not sure of where you're exactly at, would you mind telling me?"
@dave....when you're dating, it's not always being pushy with someone calling the other boyfriend or girlfriend and the same in return....it's pretty much a figure of speech. i know that if i introduce someone that i'm dating as my "friend" then that's going to leave things open with other women having the chance to move in on the guy that i'm dating. been there, done that, and the dang girl not only stole my boyfriend (the guy i was dating) but she stole my t-shirt too! | |
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| Is Anyone Seriously Looking 2 Meet & Date On Here...?
Posted: 5/23/2009 7:46:07 PM | no, that doesn't make a boyfriend but some people, men or women tend to feel more comfortable calling their s.o. a boyfriend or girlfriend when introducing them to another person or people. you just have to be able to pick up on whether or not the other person is being pushy with the situation. i used to introduce my ex boyfriend to people at work as my boyfriend. some people tend to be old fashioned about couples living together not married.....he introduced me as his fiance to one of the guys at the auto parts house...and that was a month after he and i started dating.
now, back to topic.........i'm looking to meet people and if dating comes out of it then that's fine...if not, we both still found a friend and i like to think that i'm a friend for life. | |
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| Is Anyone Seriously Looking 2 Meet & Date On Here...?
Posted: 5/29/2009 6:49:08 AM | | No people are not serious about meeting and dating on here. If you are not a skinnie minnie, barbie doll...they wont look twice..a matter of fact they dont even reply to emails...I wonder why I have been staying off these sites.......Its the real world out there,,,men and women are like this...on a dating site and out there in the real world...hmmmm doesnt anyone want to know the person from the inside out????????? | |
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| Is Anyone Seriously Looking 2 Meet & Date On Here...?
Posted: 5/29/2009 8:21:53 AM | i have to agree to a point with shorty...there are quite a few guys out there and god only knows i've had my fair share to talk to some of them that are only interested in a woman if she's the barbie doll type to wear that little black dress or the woman that looks like a trophy hanging on their arm. there are also a lot of women that want that g.q. looking guy or the guy that's built like a brick sh*t house. there are also men and women out there that demand that their mate has a job and not depending on disability or social security unless their check is the equivalent to a weekly paycheck times 4.5 (around $2,000 a month). doesn't anyone know that some people on disability or social security might also be working part time?
beauty is only skin deep but the beautiful person lies within! think of the song "make an ugly woman your wife". think of it....it's not the outer beauty, the drop dead gorgeous barbie doll type that has all of the outer looks, it's the beautiful woman within. now, i'm not saying that the men and women in here are ugly...it's just that (speaking for myself) we're not all that perfect "10". sure we have to be attracted to our mate but it's not always looks that attract some of us....it's the person's personality, the way they speak and hold conversations, the way they listen and pay attention to things being talked about.
start looking at the inner beauty and forget about the outer beauty...imo. | |
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| Is Anyone Seriously Looking 2 Meet & Date On Here...?
Posted: 6/8/2009 7:54:40 AM | All I know is that the average Central PA woman seems to have 2.35 kids, an ex-trucker husband who probably slapped them around, and a GRE if you're lucky. It's so depressing I've deleted my profile twice.
Once I looked at the guys around here. Even more frightening.
And people on here really write NOTHING in their profiles for some reason. I find it to be pretty much a joke site. | |
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| Is Anyone Seriously Looking 2 Meet & Date On Here...?
Posted: 6/9/2009 12:54:20 PM | Same here I can't believe this, I have made some good friends, but I agree with you on the paying sites. I am a motorcycle rider and female and there are no guy on here near me.
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| Is Anyone Seriously Looking 2 Meet & Date On Here...?
Posted: 6/10/2009 5:52:57 AM | Hi: I beleive you are limiting yourself by having your age bracket too narrow and as someone who is 58 I cannot respond to your profile to even see if we would have a connection. So look me up and see what you think and let me know
craig | |
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