| Does This Seem More Of A Friend Site, Then A Dating Site 2 U...?
Posted: 10/22/2006 5:23:28 PM | These sites let you see who is a paying member??? I guess I totally missed that indicator. Must be my severe nearsightedness. I can't say that my success rate with Matchdoctor or with another free site, POF, has been any better, but at least I'm not paying for it!
I think no matter what avenue you use for finding that "special someone", it's pretty much a craps shoot. I've had my ups and downs too. I have had days when I felt like ponygrl, but then I also think about several marriages where the couples were far from happy about their union. Being single has its compensations too. I usually get myself back to normal by singing that Monty Python song to myself, "Always look on the Bright Side of Life".... | |
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| Does This Seem More Of A Friend Site, Then A Dating Site 2 U...?
Posted: 10/22/2006 6:39:26 PM | Hello Crzyengr,
I agree with CC their be no bashing when all you want to do is add your
two cents.
I joined Singlesnet met two wonderful men,dated awhile,
sad to say they did not work out cause of being long distance.
Both found someone else closer, we still stay in touch to say hello.
At lease I met someone.On this dating site I'm getting a few
e-mails,still waiting to see if any of them want to continue
writing me or meet someone else.
Its an adventure I look forward to sharing if only one sincere
gentleman would let me know.
Good luck to anyone who are looking for their Mr. or Miss Right.
They are out there just have to be patient and wait it out.
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Jacka
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Joined: 7/13/2006
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| Does This Seem More Of A Friend Site, Then A Dating Site 2 U...?
Posted: 10/22/2006 8:06:54 PM | Yea for sure, Im ready
to meet n greet lol...
As for the dating issue,
well I have a fear of
comitment, but I'd
change that if I met
the right person, but
I just use this site
as a booty call lmao jk.
I'll prove it, I even have a
booty call agreement that
the women have to sign first lol.
THE BOOTY CALL AGREEMENT
This Booty Call Agreement (here in after referred to as the agreement)
is entered into on the _______________ day of ___________ 2006,
by _________________________, between __________________
and ________________________. THIS AGREEMENT SHALL COVER
THE FOLLOWING RULES AND PRINCIPLES.
1. No sleeping over--- unless it is very good and we need to repeat it in the morning.
2. No meeting in public except for dinner or drinks before the events of the evening.
3. No calls before 9 PM-- we don`t have sh!t to talk about.
4. None of that "lovemaking" sh!t-- only mind blowing sex allowed.
5. No emotional discussions -- Ex: Where are we heading with this? Do you love me? The answer to this is no, so don`t ask.
6. No plans made in advance -- that is why you are called the "backup", unless you are from out of town, then it`s only a one time advance arrangement.
7. All gifts accepted -- money is always good.
8. No baby talk -- however, dirty talk is encouraged.
9. No asking for comparisons with former lovers -- it`s really none of your d*mn business.
10. No calling each other "friends with privileges" -- we are not friends, just sex buddies.
11. Calling out the wrong name during sex is OK -- don`t be offended.
12. No extra clothing -- I don`t want your ass leaving anything behind when you leave.
13. No falling asleep right after sex -- it`s over, so get your ass up and go home.
14. Don`t be offended if I don`t ask if you enjoyed it -- I don`t care.
15. You cannot borrow my car for any reason.
16. If anyone asks who you are, the standard responce will be: "My roommate`s girlfriend/boyfriend."
17. Doggie style preferred --I just wanna hit it hard and right!
18. Reason for doggie style -- the less eye contact the better. I don`t want to look at you, just **** you.
19. We hook up absolutely whenever the mood strikes ME -- so don`t keep calling.
20. The most important one -- Carry your ass home. Don`t call me, I`ll call you!
*** EXTRA TIP FOR SUCCESSFUL BOOTY CALLS*** the aforementioned rules may only be altered by the holder of the agreement. If the other party attempts to change or alter any terms of this agreement, it will automatically become null and void and you will then be removed from the BOOTY CALL LIST and deleted from phone memory and email list BLOCKED from all communications until your silly ass understands the rules.
Participating partner:
Signature: _____________________________________.
Date: __________________________________________ | |
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Jacka
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Joined: 7/13/2006
Msg: 33 | |
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Jacka
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Joined: 7/13/2006
Msg: 37 | |
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| Does This Seem More Of A Friend Site, Then A Dating Site 2 U...?
Posted: 10/22/2006 11:35:32 PM | hey jacka, how's this??????
THE BOOTY CALL AGREEMENT
This Booty Call Agreement (here in after referred to as the agreement)
is entered into on the _____29th________ day of __feb______ 2006,
by _________________________, between __________________
and ________________________. THIS AGREEMENT SHALL COVER
THE FOLLOWING RULES AND PRINCIPLES.
1. No sleeping over--- unless it is very good and we need to repeat it in the morning. always in the morning baby....
2. No meeting in public except for dinner or drinks before the events of the evening. don't forget the coffee or my tea in the morning.
3. No calls before 9 PM-- we don`t have sh!t to talk about. but in that case...then don't call me before 9pm. i'll also just have to call ya at 9pm and keep ur ass on the phone all nite.
4. None of that "lovemaking" sh!t-- only mind blowing sex allowed. bend over baby and assume the position.............something u might be familiar with jacka...lol
5. No emotional discussions -- Ex: Where are we heading with this? Do you love me? The answer to this is no, so don`t ask. you can ask me if i love you, just don't ask me if i'm in love with ya....
6. No plans made in advance -- that is why you are called the "backup", unless you are from out of town, then it`s only a one time advance arrangement. who really makes plans every time i make them the never go through anyway.
7. All gifts accepted -- money is always good. cash, flowers, and jewelery for me plz.
8. No baby talk -- however, dirty talk is encouraged. you blew it there, i love guys talking to me sweet and dirty.
9. No asking for comparisons with former lovers -- it`s really none of your d*mn business. i'd be the best one u ever had babe.
10. No calling each other "friends with privileges" -- we are not friends, just sex buddies. ur just my fb
11. Calling out the wrong name during sex is OK -- don`t be offended. that's something i never did.
12. No extra clothing -- I don`t want your ass leaving anything behind when you leave. well the i better just have my fishnet thigh highs, my heals, my thongs, and my rabbit fur on then huh?
13. No falling asleep right after sex -- it`s over, so get your ass up and go home. you're the one that's gonna be falling asleep on me.
14. Don`t be offended if I don`t ask if you enjoyed it -- I don`t care. oh, now that is something that you would ask me.
15. You cannot borrow my car for any reason. and no one drives my car.
16. If anyone asks who you are, the standard responce will be: "My roommate`s girlfriend/boyfriend." with a wink in your eye too right?
17. Doggie style preferred --I just wanna hit it hard and right! you think?
18. Reason for doggie style -- the less eye contact the better. I don`t want to look at you, just **** you. you would just love to look in my green eyes.
19. We hook up absolutely whenever the mood strikes ME -- so don`t keep calling. lol, i don't even call my ex b/f what makes you think that i'm going to be doing the calling....he calls me all the time, i just don't go and you would be the same way.
20. The most important one -- Carry your ass home. Don`t call me, I`ll call you! like i said in 19, you're going to do all of the calling everyday.....
*** EXTRA TIP FOR SUCCESSFUL BOOTY CALLS*** the aforementioned rules may only be altered by the holder of the agreement. If the other party attempts to change or alter any terms of this agreement, it will automatically become null and void and you will then be removed from the BOOTY CALL LIST and deleted from phone memory and email list BLOCKED from all communications until your silly ass understands the rules.
Participating partner:
Signature: ______________ponygrl________________.
Date: __________________________________________
now you can read that and weep, oh and bite me babe.  | |
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| Does This Seem More Of A Friend Site, Then A Dating Site 2 U...?
Posted: 10/23/2006 5:11:34 AM | i'm really getting tired of this. no flowers, no nothing...........not even a walk in the park, let alone a phone call.
  It's not much, but's it's the thought that counts. Hang in there Pony, you're a great person and I'm sure you will find the one you're looking for. | |
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| Does This Seem More Of A Friend Site, Then A Dating Site 2 U...?
Posted: 10/23/2006 7:59:40 AM | Had 2 Fill This One Out...! JACKA...Lantern... LMDFAO..!!
THE BOOTY CALL AGREEMENT
This Booty Call Agreement (here in after referred to as the agreement)
is entered into on the _______________ day of ___________ 2006,
by _________________________, between __________________
and ________________________. THIS AGREEMENT SHALL COVER
THE FOLLOWING RULES AND PRINCIPLES.
1. No sleeping over--- unless it is very good and we need to repeat it in the morning.
(here comes my Head ache...! lol)
2. No meeting in public except for dinner or drinks before the events of the evening.
Red Lobster Only...!
3. No calls before 9 PM-- we don`t have sh!t to talk about.
We will have lot's of sh!t after we eat..!
4. None of that "lovemaking" sh!t-- only mind blowing sex allowed.
I'll bring my Blow Up...!
5. No emotional discussions -- Ex: Where are we heading with this? Do you love me? The answer to this is no, so don`t ask.(u would be the one asking...?)
6. No plans made in advance -- that is why you are called the "backup", unless you are from out of town, then it`s only a one time advance arrangement.
(Sorry babe I would be ur 1stup never a backup and ur onlyup)
7. All gifts accepted -- money is always good. (Yes and make sure u give me lot's I'am well worth it)
8. No baby talk -- however, dirty talk is encouraged. (No Problem let's get down & dirty!)
9. No asking for comparisons with former lovers -- it`s really none of your d*mn business.
(I wouldn't have 2 after we were done)
10. No calling each other "friends with privileges" -- we are not friends, just sex buddies.
(I'am to SEXY 4 YA)
11. Calling out the wrong name during sex is OK -- don`t be offended.
(u drive a hard bargin but I always call 4 MORE...?)
12. No extra clothing -- I don`t want your ass leaving anything behind when you leave.
I only wear EDIABLE)
13. No falling asleep right after sex -- it`s over, so get your ass up and go home.
(Not b4 I have my cigarette)
14. Don`t be offended if I don`t ask if you enjoyed it -- I don`t care.
(U will cry MORE.... MORE...)
15. You cannot borrow my car for any reason. ( Baby u will wanna Cristsen ur CAR w/ me)
16. If anyone asks who you are, the standard responce will be: "My roommate`s girlfriend/boyfriend." ( No I will be the BEST U EVER HAD) HAHA
17. Doggie style preferred --I just wanna hit it hard and right! (Like A Baseball)
18. Reason for doggie style -- the less eye contact the better. I don`t want to look at you, just **** you. (Yes u will cause I'am ur BROWN EYE GIRL)
19. We hook up absolutely whenever the mood strikes ME -- so don`t keep calling. ( I won't be the one calling my dear)
20. The most important one -- Carry your ass home. Don`t call me, I`ll call you!
( I won't have 2 because u can't get enough of a good thing)
*** EXTRA TIP FOR SUCCESSFUL BOOTY CALLS*** the aforementioned rules may only be altered by the holder of the agreement. If the other party attempts to change or alter any terms of this agreement, it will automatically become null and void and you will then be removed from the BOOTY CALL LIST and deleted from phone memory and email list BLOCKED from all communications until your silly ass understands the rules.
Participating partner:
Signature: _Play_Mysti_4 Me?_HAHAHA________________________________._
Date: _10/23/06_________________________________________
Does this mean I'am NULL DEVOID...?  | |
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| Does This Seem More Of A Friend Site, Then A Dating Site 2 U...?
Posted: 10/23/2006 1:43:14 PM | It's all supply & demand. If you have what they want, and there aren't many others "out there" that do, then you will be at the top of the food chain, so to speak. If there are too many people "out there" that have what the seekers want, then you may never be noticed. Don't take that personally.
A lot of this has to do with where you live, too.
And if you're not getting many dates, don't despair. You just MAY be saving yourself a lot of time, money, and grief. To wit:
I moved to Pennsylvania six months ago. Since then, I have been out with nine different gals. Just to share:
#1 moved shortly after we met, so we had only one date.
#2 didn't seem like she was too impressed with me. That's okay; everyone isn't for everyone.
#3- On the second date, she told me flat out that she wasn't attracted to me. Okay again, so be it.
#4- We had a three-month relationship. She could never go anywhere because she had a dog at home. I got bored, so I moved on.
#5- This one had LOTS of anger toward her husband, with whom she was separated. I bolted; she wan't ready for dating.
#6- She lied on her profile. She wasn't really a "few" extra pounds. She was "quite a few". Didn't she think I would notice when we met? I just wasn't physically attracted to her.
#7- She still wanted to play. I told her go ahead, but without me.
#8 moved here from Chicago. A few short weeks later, she reconciled with her husband and moved back. It was very nice while it lasted.
#9- She told me she was 46. When I met her, she had WHITE hair! (In her picture, her hair was black). She reminded me of someone's grandmother!
The pay sites attract more people simply because they have a much larger base of people. The bottom line is that whether you go to a pay site or a free one, don't expect too much; then you will never be disappointed. Then, when it finally happens, you will be pleasantly surprised. I am not giving up, nor will I settle for less than I want.
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| Does This Seem More Of A Friend Site, Then A Dating Site 2 U...?
Posted: 10/23/2006 2:32:06 PM |
It's not much, but's it's the thought that counts. Hang in there Pony, you're a great person and I'm sure you will find the one you're looking for.
thank you kinky but it's not just what i'm looking for, it's more the less is he actually out there looking for me? | |
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