| Does This Seem More Of A Friend Site, Then A Dating Site 2 U...?
Posted: 2/18/2007 11:49:29 AM | I didn't know this thread still existed...! lol
Anyway 52rlb and HH that's to point I'am now w/ this site,
have made few nice friends!
My best friend just Joined today and I can't beleive she is on 6 ppls favorites already! lol
Heck it took me months just to get 14...??? | |
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| Does This Seem More Of A Friend Site, Then A Dating Site 2 U...?
Posted: 2/18/2007 12:25:13 PM | THey say that love happens when you least expect it, so in the meantime, I am making tons of friends, and planning on attending some great get togethers. We are all in the same boat, so why not be each others best support system?
Since my belated Valentine celebration last night, I may be on the right path!!!??? | |
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| Does This Seem More Of A Friend Site, Then A Dating Site 2 U...?
Posted: 2/18/2007 1:00:48 PM | Hey ARTSY how's it going?
HH this just way 2 funny just noticed she's on 9 favorites and she only just signed up like an hr. ago!! 
O and ladies I been wanting to add u to my favorites list?? i couldn't get in2 urs ARTSY awhile back but i will try again!! ok added u both hope u add me??  GF'S | |
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| Does This Seem More Of A Friend Site, Then A Dating Site 2 U...?
Posted: 2/18/2007 2:05:10 PM | Hi there, how are you today? i would like to get to know you better and i am looking for longterm, someone that is willing to do thing's that i like and i will do the same. Please get ahold of me soon would love to hear from you, you can just call me BARB i would like that alot other people call me by my full name , i'm sorry i don't like it.
BARB
PS. I'M WAITING FOR YOU!!!!!!!!!!!! | |
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| Does This Seem More Of A Friend Site, Then A Dating Site 2 U...?
Posted: 2/18/2007 4:45:01 PM | Was on a paid site, went out with a handful of women and learned the following: DON'T go out with women who say I don't want going out with me just for my looks so I don't put up my picture. No matter how acurately one decribes themselves,and puts up current pictures, it is perception and that changes upon a tangible meeting. And Stalkers aren't fun for guys either. ....Anyway didn't get past one date on the paid site.
And this site is WAYYYYYYY Better and the people are more serious as a whole.
Hears what I see as a problem:
"I want to find a man for long term or marriage"
Ok let's go out and see if we click, or Whats the worst that will happen ....we become friends
"No you want dating" Or "no I don't want to make friends, I want a husband"
Dating is a natural beginning to a long term relationship, friendship is ESSENTIAL to a marriage worthy relationship. Just because we have been to the carnival before doesn't mean you skip the rides and go straight to the picnic. People pigeonhole themselves, and have totally unrealistic expectations for dating period.
I will not tell somebody my intentions are I am writing you or going to go out with you because I think we are a "LONG TERM" match. I'm going out with you because I find you attractive in some way and interesting and I want to EXPLORE that interest, see where it goes, was I right, is there more to her than I ever imagined. And If she isn't what I expected, it doesn't click, well we had some fun, we spent quality time with another human being.
EMBRACE THE ADVENTURE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!Stop going to the vending machine for a mate, stuff from the vending machine usually looks good but isn't very fresh | |
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| Is Anyone Seriously Looking 2 Meet & Date On Here...?
Posted: 2/19/2007 2:44:21 AM | | I have been on this site for almost 6 months now, is there really a Mr Right on this site. All I have found are liars or guys that just say they are looking and want a one nite stand. | |
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Posted: 2/19/2007 3:13:20 AM | hey oldfarmboy you won't need your shovel were going to get a big heat wave lol RIGHT.LOL Jenny you need to give it time your never know when mr right might show up. I know alot of woman on here already found some mr wrongs. | |
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| Is Anyone Seriously Looking 2 Meet & Date On Here...?
Posted: 2/19/2007 6:24:29 AM | ^^^^ HEALING HEART ^^^
I think MR. Rights legs are broken and he cant stand at the moment!!!LOL!!
Or like it usually is for me here - He lives so far away -
I need a few days to get to him just to meet him for a
cup of coffee -LOL!! | |
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| Is Anyone Seriously Looking 2 Meet & Date On Here...?
Posted: 2/19/2007 7:42:19 AM | | actually, i find this type of dating ok. It beats the bar scene etc. But, I do show favortism towards the traditional ways to meet...whether it be at work or some other eye contact or smile or whatever. Yes, I do prefer the traditional attempts to relationships. I do not think that computer dating will ever add up to "love at first sight'. of course we all think in different ways and that was only my opinion. Sometimes dating is hard because u really don't know what each other is thinking all the time. We are not mind readers and some relationships fall apart because communication sometimes jsut fades away because of the lack of what people really think about what each other is thinking. That's where a relationship can be saved when each understand each other. I can only suggest whether any kind of dating the need to know what each one wants is very important but what is really important is to communicate and let each other know how u feel.....I don't know if that makes sense to anybody but I'm sure some of us try to read each others mind...that dosen't dosen't work....Pursue your questions and let each other know how u feel... | |
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| Does This Seem More Of A Friend Site, Then A Dating Site 2 U...?
Posted: 2/19/2007 8:41:06 AM | | that's the way i like it to. Yes, be themselves and let the true feelings out. that is the only way for sure. It's a **** wondering what people think....I gave up on the mind reading thing. Communication steers the way. No doubt about it. Yes, communicate, listen and try not to read each others minds. let your feelings be known in nice suttle ways too. That helps.... | |
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| Does This Seem More Of A Friend Site, Then A Dating Site 2 U...?
Posted: 2/19/2007 12:38:37 PM | As usual I am a day late and a dollar short.. hah!! but I can't say how much the friends mean to me in here..I remember when I was afraid to come in certain local threads because I was afraid my head would be sliced off..
There are certain People, one in particular, that starting writing in here when I did...that was very distant.. and has become very lovable in the meantime.. it's amazing how a little love goes around in these forums..my therapist finds it very healing..
and I have actually canceled the the last two sessions with her.. the money to be had in here..
Yes I do date...nothing serious though...
^^^HH..your day is due, babygirl...you have the patience to do it.. | |
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| Does This Seem More Of A Friend Site, Then A Dating Site 2 U...?
Posted: 2/19/2007 1:51:51 PM | Hi Ponygrl. I read your profile and it reminded me of a song by Dougie MacLean call, of course, "Broken Wings". The song is on my list of ones to learn to play on the guitar. Anyway, if you have a chance to get the song, I think you will like it.
I'm sorry you're having a hard time getting a date.
Jeff | |
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| Is Anyone Seriously Looking 2 Meet & Date On Here...?
Posted: 2/19/2007 1:53:23 PM | I'm beginning to feel the same as you with this subject. I have yet to meet anyone that just asks a few questions and then "poof" dont hear from them again. It seems more like people are looking for hang out, friends, or just dating. what the hell aren't there other sites for that? Some of us are really looking to meet someone other than in a bar or at a grocery store line. LOL I'm thinking im wasting my time on this site! | |
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