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 Author Thread: IM: Instant Messenger FAQ
 maryclare

Joined: 5/1/2006
Msg: 676
Instant Messenger Help.
Posted: 5/11/2006 1:29:40 AM
Flash installed - false

Please let me know what I should do if I get this response,

Thanks for a great site

m
 Tpower31

Joined: 2/16/2006
Msg: 677
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You still have not told anyone why they receive or send IM's.
Posted: 5/11/2006 6:48:03 AM
I was just reading the postings here by members oft his site. You still have clearly explained why anyone who is having a problem is having this problem. I was able to send and receive messages up until a few days ago now I keep getting a message saying that I Need to update my flash player. I do that and still not working. Please explain to everyone including myself why this is happening and what you are doing to fix it?
 littleangel1974

Joined: 2/26/2006
Msg: 678
You still have not told anyone why they receive or send IM's.
Posted: 5/11/2006 12:55:22 PM
T Power, this is exactly what has happened to me.

Excellent site, but this is a downer :(
 epsilonbj

Joined: 5/29/2005
Msg: 679
You still have not told anyone why they receive or send IM's.
Posted: 5/11/2006 1:14:53 PM
try this:
1-before installing any program, un-install the old version of the same program from the control panel add/remove
2-reboot the pc and before installing the new version, make sure not a single program is running and stop your virus checker before starting an install.
3-download flash and java from the official sites to avoid getting all the spyware with it.
 sexy indeed

Joined: 4/22/2006
Msg: 680
Instant Messenger Help.
Posted: 5/12/2006 5:46:37 AM
i used to be able to send and receive IM but the last week i have not..PLEASE HELP!
 callmealifetime

Joined: 4/7/2006
Msg: 681
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Instant Messenger Help.
Posted: 5/12/2006 5:37:10 PM
hello,this is callmealifetime,iwas wondering how i can instant message someone?if you can help me thank you...
 HR CK2009

Joined: 5/12/2006
Msg: 682
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Instant Messenger Help.
Posted: 5/12/2006 5:47:04 PM
I'm totally new to this and followed the instructions to test for Javascript and all looks okay but in this screen it doesn't come up that is working...it did on the inital test page I was just at. What am I doing wrong...any ideas??
 MAN FOR ALL SEASONS

Joined: 5/2/2006
Msg: 683
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Instant Messenger Help.
Posted: 5/13/2006 7:33:40 AM
ISTEPKCK 2, CAN YOU PLEASE HELP ME.THIS HAS BEEN GOING ON FOR EVER.I HAVE THREE SITES .AND ONLY WANT ONE SITE.FIRST SITE OH PATRICK AGE 42 KIZ7V2 OTTAWA ONT,OH YES IM A MALE.I TRYED TO CHANGE MY PASSWOD.AND THAT WAS THE END OF THAT SITE. SO I OPENED ANOTHER SITE 104104 AGE 43 K1Z7V2 OTTAWA ONT.AND THE SAME THING HAPPENED. AND LOST MY PASSWORD AGAIN.SO I 0PENED ANOTHER SITE SO I COULD SEEK HELP FROM SOMEONE AND I HOPE THAT SOMEONE IS YOU.CAN YOU HELP ME GET BACK MY SECOND SITE 104104 BACK.AND I WOULD LIKE TO CLOSE THE OTHER TWO.I HOPE YOU CAN HELP ME WITH THIS PROBLEM .HOPE TOO HERE FROM YOU.PATRICK.
 MAN FOR ALL SEASONS

Joined: 5/2/2006
Msg: 684
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Instant Messenger Help.
Posted: 5/13/2006 7:37:39 AM
HELP, CAN YOU PLEASE HELP ME.THIS HAS BEEN GOING ON FOR EVER.I HAVE THREE SITES .AND ONLY WANT ONE SITE.FIRST SITE OH PATRICK AGE 42 KIZ7V2 OTTAWA ONT,OH YES IM A MALE.I TRYED TO CHANGE MY PASSWOD.AND THAT WAS THE END OF THAT SITE. SO I OPENED ANOTHER SITE 104104 AGE 43 K1Z7V2 OTTAWA ONT.AND THE SAME THING HAPPENED. AND LOST MY PASSWORD AGAIN.SO I 0PENED ANOTHER SITE SO I COULD SEEK HELP FROM SOMEONE AND I HOPE THAT SOMEONE IS YOU.CAN YOU HELP ME GET BACK MY SECOND SITE 104104 BACK.AND I WOULD LIKE TO CLOSE THE OTHER TWO.I HOPE YOU CAN HELP ME WITH THIS PROBLEM .HOPE TOO HERE FROM YOU.PATRICK.
 supermangreg

Joined: 5/10/2006
Msg: 685
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Instant Messenger Help.
Posted: 5/13/2006 1:10:27 PM
how do i see the message? i get the flash but i dont c the message
 lillie220

Joined: 4/8/2006
Msg: 686
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Instant Messenger Help.
Posted: 5/13/2006 3:23:38 PM
tis is the hardest site I have getting on . It is very confussing to me also. I usually stay with webdate.com because i can under stand that one.
lil
 Meadowgreen

Joined: 9/23/2005
Msg: 687
Instant Messenger Help.
Posted: 5/13/2006 11:01:48 PM
it say flash is true. whatever that means. Help!
 MAN FOR ALL SEASONS

Joined: 5/2/2006
Msg: 688
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Instant Messenger Help.
Posted: 5/14/2006 5:10:39 PM
I WOULD LIKE TOO KNOW IS THEIR SOMEONE THAT COULD HELP ME .I SEE YOU DONT HAVE TIME. ALL I WANT IS TO REOPEN MY 104104 SITE .I CANT BELIEVE THAT YOU CANT SAY THIS IS WHAT TO DO, AND GO ON WITH OTHER PEOPLE TOO HELP .I MEAN I DONT HAVE A PASS WORD TO READ MY MALE.
 zppy2000

Joined: 2/14/2006
Msg: 689
Instant Messenger Help.
Posted: 5/14/2006 5:40:35 PM
i can not im any one why
 RealToProfile

Joined: 8/29/2005
Msg: 690
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Instant Messenger Help.
Posted: 5/15/2006 11:44:38 AM
Admin,
I've done everything you posted. Java script is fine, flash is true, pop ups enabled correctly to allow plentyoffish
My problem is that I don't receive the option of 'accept/decline'. Windows just automatically pop open. I'm getting a lot of back lash from people thinking I accepted an invite to chat then ignored them. What can I do to enable that option to see an IM request? Is there something I'm missing here? I've read endless pages on Instant Messenger in the forums and haven't found my answer yet. I'd appreciate some feedback. Thanks !!! :)
I don't like inadvertantly doing people wrong..lol
 floridian407

Joined: 4/12/2006
Msg: 691
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Instant Messenger Help.
Posted: 5/15/2006 12:25:50 PM
I have all those, but for some reason the IM freezes at times when I try to send a message..I am getting frustrated by this, have no idea why it happens. Only thing i can figure is 1-WindowsXP issue, 2-it is because I have a laptop Pc, not a desktop, less capabilities?, OR 3-some bug, virus, or adware/spyware is messing things up somewhere...Any other ideas or suggestions would be appreciated, this is *so* annoying....
 LongHair Hippie

Joined: 11/27/2004
Msg: 692
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Instant Messenger Help.
Posted: 5/15/2006 3:43:34 PM
instructions followed-all check ok-an individual is having troubel IMing me. Do not want to break any conditions set by plenty-o-fish
 753

Joined: 5/7/2006
Msg: 693
Instant Messenger Help.
Posted: 5/15/2006 5:29:46 PM
I receive instant messages from other people, but mine doesn't seem to work. I've read each post, tested each item as suggested, still unable to instant message. I get the connected window, I type in the message, only to receive a suggestion to email this person if they don't get the instant message. Though, sometimes I have instant message, but very very few times, maybe two... I've been on POF 2 months now... this is very annoyning.... but glad email works... At any rate, I'm glad POF is Completely free.....
 marey

Joined: 5/12/2006
Msg: 694
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Instant Messenger Help.
Posted: 5/15/2006 6:30:10 PM
hello im me back
 blazer639

Joined: 9/24/2004
Msg: 695
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Instant Messenger Help.
Posted: 5/15/2006 7:56:56 PM
I need to get the flash player downloaded onto my computer but it won't let me why???
 blazer639

Joined: 9/24/2004
Msg: 696
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Instant Messenger Help.
Posted: 5/15/2006 7:57:44 PM
I got that message to and can't get a responce either??? John
 singer4u2meet

Joined: 1/14/2006
Msg: 697
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Instant Messenger Help.
Posted: 5/16/2006 7:41:44 AM
I am getting the same message as everyone else about having to update the flash player yet when I try it doesn't do it, I have uninstalled the one that I had and tried to download the new one to no avail. What am I doing wrong? I was able to chat with ppl that day and later on in the same day, I started getting that message.
 littleangel1974

Joined: 2/26/2006
Msg: 698
Instant Messenger Help.
Posted: 5/16/2006 2:55:01 PM
I know POF is great and that its free so that is much appreciated, but no one seems to want to solve the IM problems, i have done everything recommended and it still doesnt work
 epsilonbj

Joined: 5/29/2005
Msg: 699
Instant Messenger Help.
Posted: 5/16/2006 3:19:43 PM
littleangel, start your own thread. you may get help. also provide more info like what windows version you use, what if any error message do you get, do you have java and flash installed etc...in fact provide as much info as you can.
 tgiassave

Joined: 5/17/2006
Msg: 700
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Instant Messenger Help.
Posted: 5/17/2006 7:54:14 PM
how to send a message to someone
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