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Posted: 8/10/2007 7:13:59 PM | Dear sir/Madam
I have been using this site for at least 5 monthes maybe and have met some rearly fantastic people,I have also met some scammers asking me for money but since being a net user for some time i have got use to this,i only feel for the vulnerable people as this can be a wrotton thing to do to others,any how the reason on paticuler on why i write this e-mail is because tonight i am so stunned that in coversation from who i thought was a lovely lady seemed to be a man!!!!!!!!!! i couid tell because of the discusting way he chatted what gave him away firstly was that he asked me for money and spoke or typed words that were beyond imagination,i actually felt sorry for this person wich is why i chatted.Never have i come across a mind so twisted i dearly feel for the next victim of his,he has a womens profile but is a man i am 100% confident the profile name is ..Username removed.. many thanks for your time and inventing this place its saved me much beer money and i have met some angels,your wonderfull people find a place for thesexx
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Posted: 8/11/2007 2:28:01 AM | HI I am orvpopcorn. I can not upload a pic here, because I only have a webtv. Can I send you a pic and you put it on my profile?
Thank you,
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Posted: 8/11/2007 6:34:21 AM | This is not regarding instant message, but how do I post in the Forum section. Just new to this site and have tried to find a section that tells you how to do this, would appreciate any help.
how 2 post a new thread?
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Posted: 8/13/2007 10:31:46 AM | hep me, my i.m use to work fine , but now i cant send or receive no i.m's atall. Why is this?
Please refer questions regarding the functionality of the IM to Userplane as per Msg 1 of this thread ~ YaYa ~ | |
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Posted: 8/13/2007 11:57:15 AM | hiya sorry to bother anyone, but i cant see my pic on profile and i go into images but there is no browse button??? can anyone help?? thanx
Your image uploading priviledges were removed by Admin for violations of the image rules.
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Posted: 8/14/2007 5:10:06 AM | Sorry....this is the only way I knew how to contact Administration. I also sent you an email, but thought the following should be brought to your attention. Hope I am not causing any trouble with anyone. My concern is:
Dear Administration:
I wrote you at my regular email address because that seemed the only way to do this privately.
I have a real concern about one of your members.
It is NOT my intention to cause trouble here, so that is why I am not filing a “Report” per se, but rather would ask that you investigate one of your members. If this guy is legitimate, I do not want to cause the man any problems or hurt him in any way, as he is a sweet person, but he makes me wonder about his activities, so thought for the safety of the women on your site, he should be checked out somehow.
Tell me if I am wrong, but doesn’t it seem odd to you that a person would have 94 members that have placed that person on their favorites list??? That just seems excessive to me, so I checked it out a bit. This is what I found. One of your members (Admin. can email me for name) seems to have an agenda for accumulating and charming women. That seems kind of scary to me. I get the feeling something is going on with this guy, more than wanting to charm women. He seems to have a psychological problem, in my view, but then maybe I am just being too suspicious, I don’t know, but I do think it is worth looking into. Something just seems wrong here. Let me explain. Just for the heck of it, look at his emails to other women. I checked out only three of them (they were women at the bottom of his page who wrote a testimony) by clicking on their PHOTO, just to see if he was telling them the same thing he wrote me, and sure enough….he is bragging these women up (and NO….I am not writing because I am a jealous person, so that is not my motive here….I do not have a motive except to protect the women he is writing) and telling them all the same thing. Doesn’t that seem odd to you????
Notice how his profile reads. It reads as if he would jump on the first woman who takes a liking to him and seems to be inviting every woman in his message, to come visit him and seems like he is saying STAY with him.
Another thing to consider: He talks about how other men should grab these women up before he does as they “would make a great wife”. Now doesn’t that seem odd to you??? It seems to me, if these women were such a good catch, why doesn't HE go after them? Instead, he tells other men to go after them, yet testifies to each woman that he thinks they are the greatest. I get the heebie-jeebies about this guy, I tell you. I get the feeling he is victimizing women or using them in a sick way to make himself feel good. His affections do NOT seem normal to me, and you know what they say….sometimes a gut feeling should not go uninvestigated. Something is just not right here. He seems emotionally messed up somehow. If I am wrong, I sure apologize….maybe it is just ME, I don’t know, but thought I would bring it to your attention. Better safe than sorry, right? And if he IS some type of psycho, the women he has written needs to be warned, as do all the other women on your site. I am not trying to be nosey or start trouble. I am just concerned.
He has written me a couple times. At first, I thought he was just a little odd, in that after I read his profile, I thought “this guy is in love with being in love, not with women”, then I noticed how many times he is listed on people’s favorite list. That just seemed odd to me, so that is when I investigated a little bit.
If you choose to investigate and find something out that the women on your site should know or beware of, I hope you will let me know your findings.
Thank you for your time and consideration. I ask that my correspondence with you is kept private (amongst office staff only, please), as I would not want this guy stalking me. I am just trying to get to the bottom of his odd behavior. Forgive me if I am just being paranoid. I wish NO harm to anyone. I just want the women on this site to beware and watch out for themselves. You can never be too careful.
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Posted: 8/14/2007 12:33:24 PM | I was wanting to know if you have an address where i can send my photos into plentyoffish.com. I cannot upload them on the computer.
As images posted are the sole responsibility of the poster we cannot post them for you. Perhaps take some new pictures and have them put on a CD when processed
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Posted: 8/15/2007 1:28:06 PM | find out who is the mod in this section he/she is in charge to fix this problems they are the ones who receive the administrator e-mails .but think about how many they get or may be they aren't doing their work ,
they are just collecting the bonus if I'm not wrong .
 Contact me or any of the Forum Moderators
~ Note: Moderators are volunteers ~ YaYa ~
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Posted: 8/15/2007 6:12:09 PM | my age is wrong.. can't change it. Says "if it was here for 2 weeks from registration ... it stays". I changed it to speak w/someone.. been here for a lot longer than 2 wks!! and now I can't change it back. BTW.. great site!
You can change your birthday and gender within 2 weeks of signing up. After that it is assumed to be correct and can't be changed.
The whole point of this is to stop users from circumventing the filters of others as you did. Your only recourse is to delete your profile and start again.
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Posted: 8/17/2007 7:51:26 PM | to plentyof fish.com . please ban Username removed
i had reshipship her she use people
please up me her email email address removed
this wom use guy just tell peenty of fish . to band her it could happed again to some one else.
i thought i tell truth to you
steve brown
~ Do not post personal information in the forums ~ YaYa ~ | |
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Posted: 8/17/2007 10:42:47 PM | Hi....I have been trying to figure out why this darn thing is giving me "My Matches" in different far away cities when I am In London Ontario Canada. I have tried to alter it so it will give me within 25miles of me....but all it does is give me long distance people....please help. When I 1st signed up....everything was fine....now not working.
Rick
Perhaps reset your search criteria: Reset Search Criteria Instructions
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Posted: 8/18/2007 7:04:56 AM | I accidentally deleted a message without reading it. How can I retrieve the message?
M
~ There is no way to retrieve a deleted message, but if you have other messages from this user you can use "View all Correspondence" to view it or if they are on your favorites list you can use "View Messages" ~ YaYa ~ | |
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Posted: 8/19/2007 11:21:18 AM | please let me know the # for the daily hooscopes as I cnnot find it and I want it off my cell,thank you ~ Email address removed~
~ There are no daily horoscopes associated with POF. You will have to contact the website that offered it to you and ask them for assistance. ~ YaYa ~
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Posted: 8/20/2007 12:58:08 PM | Hi,
I have been wondering why certain women could not be emailed and after exploring my profile and registration information, it occured to me that I had clicked on the wrong date as I was born in 1957, not 1954 as it had said and now I know why I could not contact some women as I was out of the age range. I am actually, honestly 50, not 53, and this makes me older than I am and at a great disatvanage. However, after I changed it, it said after you register you guys only give us two weeks to make corrections! That is not fair because I never go and look at my profile or registration information so please correct this error and confirm that with me at your earliest convenience.
Best regards,
RobIrishAmerican
You can change your birthday and gender within 2 weeks of signing up. After that it is assumed to be correct and can't be changed.
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Posted: 8/21/2007 6:09:01 AM | Hi i'd like to know if I am cut off from Plenty of fish since i cant im on line now what does that mean if i can't get in touch with anyone "on line now" arura
If a user closes the page without logging out they will appear "online now" for approximately 15 minutes and then automatically logged out. | |
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Posted: 8/21/2007 12:43:08 PM | | when im at mycity and a pic has i m user under it does that mean they r already iming with someone and if it says online now does that mean they r on pof or could they be at another site this is real important to me for it could mean the difference in a relationship please return asap thanks.....................................bo | |
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Posted: 8/22/2007 10:33:27 AM | My photos are not showing up and I uploaded them several days ago.
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Posted: 8/23/2007 10:22:32 AM | Ok so I ask a question about a NON functioning aspect of this site and I get redirected (my thread closed) to a thread with 63 freaking pages which I am to sort through for my "answer"? Puhlease!!!
Copying from my original thread:
I recall, someone asking this before, and the admin replied that it was originally supposed to work that way, when the userplane IM was 1st added to this site. But he never bothered to program it.
"It's odd that is even indicated because people can expect the person knows you've tried to IM them and haven't replied
perhaps that's why the adminnever bothered to program it?
If you knowingly chose to ignore an IMfrom someone, you don't need a message informing you that they tried to IM you.
Why is this even on this site if it's non functional?
I believe that userplane is owned seperately from this site, and is programmed seperately.
This site is just linked to theirs.
Their programing is likely responsible for providing the message"If _______ doesn't receive this message, they will be emailed when you close this window"
But pof's programming doesn't send those IM notification emails, which userplane suggests will be sent."
So this site allows a feature to indicate that an email will be sent to someone to show them that someone has tried to IM them but that never happens. As in NEVER. I'm aware that sometimes I sign off and yet it appears I am still on (lag time) so someone is attempting to IM me, appears that I'm not responding and they are told I will be sent an email indicating they tried to IM me which, again NEVER HAPPENS. I would think a site with this many bells and whistles would just take that message off of there as it is 100% false! I don't get it!
It's not a matter of ignoring someone (I'm cool with that). It's a matter of someone you might WANT to communicate with thinking you are ignoring them because they receive this false message.
Why leave that feature like that if it never works?
Please refer questions regarding the functionality of the IM to Userplane as per Msg 1 of this thread ~ YaYa ~ | |
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Posted: 8/24/2007 4:38:48 PM | | I am getting a popup in the type field of my Im program, so I can't chat it will just click on the popup. how do I stop this? | |
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Posted: 8/24/2007 5:22:53 PM | | I'll run thru the checklist but I didn't have this problem the last two weeks and have not changed any settings, I allow the chat program thru my popup blocker, but today the popup is directly in the box and stays there. | |
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Posted: 8/25/2007 6:09:21 AM | I can no longer access the forums I've contributed to with the 'my forums' button.
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