libbyv
| | Joined: 8/17/2005
Msg: 76 | |
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| Okay - what do you call the guys who hunt the cougars?
Posted: 11/18/2006 2:15:56 PM |
I'm happy and proud to say that I haven't been living with different people or having children out of wedlock with every Tom ,****and Harry.
If it wasn't for some of you good ol' girls, I don't know what would ever become of us good 'ol boys.
Regards,
Mac | |
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goldn
| | Joined: 10/5/2006
Msg: 78 | |
| Okay - what do you call the guys who hunt the cougars?
Posted: 11/18/2006 2:42:31 PM | | and i still say its a load of crap.....ive seen (and been) in plenty of actual real younger men older women relationships....and the fact that you dont seem to even SEE how insulting it is to say that younger men could only want an older woman for sex......shows your maturity level | |
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| Okay - what do you call the guys who hunt the cougars?
Posted: 11/18/2006 3:44:24 PM | And you're barely even of cougar age...i highly doubt u have been in a relationship with a guy 20 years younger...which is kind of what I am talking about...
You're not with these guys now though i assume...so how real was it...and what ended it? The fact you wanted different things? | |
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libbyv
| | Joined: 8/17/2005
Msg: 80 | |
| Okay - what do you call the guys who hunt the cougars?
Posted: 11/18/2006 3:56:37 PM | There are alot of younger men older women relationships. The people that think that these types of relationships don't work are clueless and jealous as far as I'm concerned! I've dated younger men myself and I choose them over someone my age or older in a minute..
Some of the older women can blow the younger gals out of the water with their sex appeal...!
Some of the younger men want to date an older woman not just for the sex but because she can carry a conversation and she is not out running around and partying ..
The guys are tired of the immature women their age and they want someone they are more compatible with. | |
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goldn
| | Joined: 10/5/2006
Msg: 81 | |
| Okay - what do you call the guys who hunt the cougars?
Posted: 11/18/2006 4:14:52 PM | | whats the difference between 15 and 20 years? just 5 years.....still a big gap.....and no im not about to sit here and explain why ANY of my relationships ended.....but they had same reasons as any ive had with men my own age.....in fact i have found a lot more maturity in SOME young men than i have in some older ones.....i just dont like the generalizations......and dont like anyone stating the only reason ANY man might want me....regardless of age.....is for sex....and if you think they are any different with young women.... youre naive....dogs are dogs.....they will hump any female leg....regardless of age | |
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| Okay - what do you call the guys who hunt the cougars?
Posted: 11/19/2006 1:51:02 AM | hmmm beth.. who said these women werent educated???? I didnt cause they were. I know they were and made a crap load of money and blah blah ... knew what they wanted BUT killed what they (the guys i dated) dreamed of........ healthy kids ( the one that did have a kid by one of them was downs) the other one of a good job.. stood back so she could work while he did the mother work!!! Not sayin all older women are like that (ive dated guys 10 yrs younger)
educted and knowing what u want has nothing to do with it.
Plus they both said to me....... one day i woke up and noticed i was with grandma not a sexy women ( when they hit 50) and they were still in their 30s. Either one was a grandma but thats how they saw them. unless ur demi moore or worth a few millions. You are goin to end up like a grandma so I was told. | |
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libbyv
| | Joined: 8/17/2005
Msg: 85 | |
| Okay - what do you call the guys who hunt the cougars?
Posted: 11/19/2006 6:50:05 AM | Not all younger men are like the two losers you dated..! Some guys are better than others.
Some people make the mistake of dating someone right off the bat just because they think they are attracted. Big mistake!! It's wiser to start out as friends first. Get to know the person and find out if they are compatible enough for you. How well they treat you. What bad traits are you noticing when you are with them?.. You'll be glad you took the time to find out instead of getting romantically involved with them and then regretting it...!
Why be in a rush to start dating someone you don't even know...! | |
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| Okay - what do you call the guys who hunt the cougars?
Posted: 11/19/2006 8:45:31 AM | | A lot of these is generalizing...and I said I was generalizing...I am aware there are exceptions, maybe several of them, but Beth aren't you quite the generalizer yourself? Your profile spews all these rules of what you want and don't want and that you refuse to make exceptions....so try not to be offended if someone makes a generalization about you or your age range | |
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yan612
| | Joined: 2/18/2005
Msg: 88 | |
| cougar is as cougar does
Posted: 11/19/2006 8:57:43 AM |
maybe it is for the same reason I wanted to date someone older than me when I was 20 - he probably had money and his own car.
boo on that..I hope you had your own money and car and not talking about using someone | |
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libbyv
| | Joined: 8/17/2005
Msg: 89 | |
| Okay - what do you call the guys who hunt the cougars?
Posted: 11/19/2006 9:19:13 AM | I'm not looking to date anyone. No more than friendship.That's enough for me. Been there, done that...
I mentioned that if anyone wants to start dating anyone, they should start a friendship slowly to see if it's worth it long term! You understand that part so far!?.
If you dimples, want to start dating some guy right off the bat and you get hurt, that's your poor judgement...! So try not to get offended either if you're given wise advice and don't take it. | |
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| Okay - what do you call the guys who hunt the cougars?
Posted: 11/19/2006 10:00:08 AM | | I don't think "age" as in a number has much to do with many relationships in today's society. The world keeps turning and times have definitely changed, maturity levels come quicker for many, and yes there are a few that seem to regress. Let's face the reality of the fact that individuals on this site are here to either be the hunter (dominating personality) or the hunted (submissive personality), and age is only an important factor if you PLACE importance upon it!! | |
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| Okay - what do you call the guys who hunt the cougars?
Posted: 11/19/2006 10:53:41 AM | | I'm not offended at all by anything that's been said here, despite all the comments towards 'young girls" and how needy and stupid we are. I know there are tons of smart, independent young women, myself included so a generalization is nothing but that | |
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tadger
| | Joined: 7/11/2006
Msg: 93 | |
| Okay - what do you call the guys who hunt the cougars?
Posted: 11/19/2006 1:06:11 PM | rply msg 88.
yep, at 20 I had my own money - but I did not drive and got really tired of riding my bike around Wpg in the snow!
I was 20!!!!! yes - it was all about what I could get for myself.
Of course, now that I am 40 and have seen how badly that bit me in the ass, I am looking for very different things... | |
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yan612
| | Joined: 2/18/2005
Msg: 94 | |
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tadger
| | Joined: 7/11/2006
Msg: 96 | |
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mmm43
| | Joined: 11/13/2006
Msg: 97 | |
| Okay - what do you call the guys who hunt the cougars?
Posted: 11/19/2006 9:20:37 PM | YIKES.. what a topic to add onto for my first...First I do take some offense to some of what has been said here. Not all older women are 'Cougars' - Deffinition.. and older woman that goes looking for younger men (boys). And yeah I would call them 'Cougar snacks' good name.
The young guys that actually go out looking for older women, I would call MILF hunters . I have been called both. All thou I partake in neither.
I am 43 yrs old and have been told I look no where near my age. And I have been approached by many younger men. I have dated some younger and some older and have found that in either age catagory... You get a whole blend of situations as far as maturity is concerned.
And as far as older women going out to clubs or bars... Why would anyone say they are there on the hunt or looking to get picked up... by either young or old ?
When I go out.. its to have fun , dance , see my friends , have some sort of fun with adults around for a short period of time and enjoy myself.
And on that note..I hope everyone had a Great weekend  | |
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| Okay - what do you call the guys who hunt the cougars?
Posted: 11/20/2006 12:46:08 AM | aaaaaaaaaah now i understand! thankyou mmm43, i was getting very confused...... yes we call them milf hunters in the uk to.
i was reading all posts on this thread and wondering why so many young men were chasing mountain lions. i thought it was quite cruel  | |
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| Okay - what do you call the guys who hunt the cougars?
Posted: 12/4/2006 8:39:19 PM | | Could call either side outta line or lucky-Although my personal thought is if the Really smart ladies really want a relationship.They would spend a 1/4 of the time they spend on getting ?Smarter and work out getting their bodies in shape that it should be for any appreciation!!! | |
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| Okay - what do you call the guys who hunt the cougars?
Posted: 12/5/2006 4:20:31 AM | ^^^^^ are you saying you want a stupid but totally in shape woman? Now that would make life so much more interesting. But I guess you could lay the Globe and Mail and the sandwich she made for you on her flat tummy. hehe
But then maybe I totally misread your post as I sometimes(ok alot of the time)seem to do!  | |
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