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 K.I.S.Silly

Joined: 11/25/2006
Msg: 76
Why Do Women Do Stupid Things During Breakups???
Posted: 1/1/2007 10:00:34 PM
An eye for an eye makes the whole world blind
 Shangrilah

Joined: 5/27/2006
Msg: 77
Why Do Women Do Stupid Things During Breakups???
Posted: 1/1/2007 11:03:11 PM
I heard a story about a woman getting back at a cheating man, who went out of town, by using his phone to call the time in Japan and left it off the hook
 summerskies3

Joined: 6/25/2006
Msg: 78
Why Do Women Do Stupid Things During Breakups???
Posted: 1/2/2007 3:15:34 AM
Oh I dont know OP, maybe it has something to do with ANGER, HURT, BETRAYAL.. ???
Obviously generalizing this little incident on tape is silly,and from what I understand of this video clip he was caught IN BED with her friend..

She is obviously REACTING..
 NocturnalPrincess

Joined: 8/26/2006
Msg: 79
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Posted: 1/2/2007 7:50:36 PM
Did anyone else see the joke, where the woman let her cheating spouse and his new woman keep the house, so long as she had the weekend by herself to move out?

She ate shrimp coctail and disposed of the tails in the hollow drapery rods. After a year, ex-hubby and girlfriend, having exhausted every other option, finally sold the reaking house dirt cheap because of the smell. Ex-wifey got the last laugh.

She gets an award for her creativity!
 Magickman

Joined: 1/29/2005
Msg: 80
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Posted: 1/2/2007 9:25:14 PM
Both men and women do stupid things. What else is new?

Reading these "clever" stories of revenge makes me glad that I never married or had a long relationship.

Relationships are such fragile things. Most of them fall apart. All of mine have.

I just don't have time in my life for soap opera bullcrap like some people endure. With stuff like that to look forward to, I would rather be perpetually single, ad infinitum.

I do not let any women who I date, ever visit my home. No keys, either. That makes me feel a little safer.

At least I know all of my relationships will be short, and with minimal drama. Plenty of fish.
 justme1975

Joined: 11/13/2006
Msg: 81
Why Do Women Do Stupid Things During Breakups???
Posted: 1/2/2007 9:35:42 PM
LOL..ummm well lets see if the man is cheating..it's an offense to slap him upside the head so hit him where it hurts..is materialistic possessions.

NO NO..but sometimes..anger and emotion overcome common sense..and then you regret.

Why do men do stupid ass things when they are jealous, or angry...cuts both ways my dear.

and trust me, as a spectator living next door to a woman who threw everything out the top window..it was kinda dramatic yet humourous..sorry..but it was.
 P.A.T.C.H.

Joined: 2/8/2006
Msg: 82
Why Do Women Do Stupid Things During Breakups???
Posted: 1/3/2007 1:38:36 AM

I like to think I have a little more class and respect for my self as well.
I wouldn't give a man the satisfaction to know I would be that crazy,


EXACTLY!!! I have been cheated on before and it hurts like hell.... I may have had evil thoughts running through my mind of stuff i'd like to do to him and his stuff but would I ever do it?!?!?! HELL NO!! I personally think the women AND men who go on their little rampages like that are showing psychotic tendencies. YES it hurts, YES it's frustrating, YES they are scum for cheating on you but how about being the better person, flip them the bird and walk away. It's them who will be lonely in the long run. Karma's a b*tch

I can't say don't give them the satisfaction of knowing they hurt you because they know damn well they've hurt you... and i'm sure in the long run some are very much so sorry for their actions but it's about loving yourself enough to just walk away and keep a clean criminal record!!

Carrie Underwood sings all about it in her song "Before He Cheats" i'm thinking majority of us women have gotten a pretty good giggle from that song and thought or yelled "AMEN SISTA!!!!" but in reality... how much better of a person would it make you to smash someones truck or other possessions? Get angry, scream, cry... but keep your class and walk away with your head held high because you KNOW you are the better person for NOT lowering to their level.
 JADENSTAR

Joined: 3/20/2006
Msg: 83
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Posted: 1/3/2007 4:39:18 AM
BEING IN LOVE CAN MAKE A PERSON DO IRRATIONAL THINGS, THINGS THEY WOULD NEVER THINK THEY WOULD DO, ITS THE HURT THAT TAKES A PERSON TO THIS LEVEL,, MAYBE YOU HAVE NEVER FELT THIS KIND OF LOVE OR HURT...........
 allunil

Joined: 4/2/2006
Msg: 84
Why Do Women Do Stupid Things During Breakups???
Posted: 1/3/2007 5:00:26 AM
people don't need to be stupid to be stupid.............
some people just think they need an excuse................
 louloublue

Joined: 12/31/2006
Msg: 85
Why Do Women Do Stupid Things During Breakups???
Posted: 1/3/2007 6:05:03 AM
WHY WHY WHY?ITS EASY BECAUSE WE KNOW IT PISSES U OFF AN MAKES US FEEL BETTER
 brandiw

Joined: 4/6/2006
Msg: 86
Why Do Women Do Stupid Things During Breakups???
Posted: 1/3/2007 6:38:25 AM
You think that's stupid? I broke it off with an ex and he destroyed all of HIS OWN STUFF.....
 Babe2003

Joined: 10/23/2006
Msg: 87
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Posted: 1/6/2007 2:26:52 PM
This is to Pink Wine Cats---You go girl!!!!!!!!!
 browneyedstallion

Joined: 12/29/2006
Msg: 88
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Posted: 1/6/2007 3:47:12 PM
You're asking why women do stupid things during breakups? It's usually a result of them being an emotional wreck at the time. They're decision to break up could be because they're angry, which causes most people to make irrational decisions. Most times cooler heads will prevail after a cooling off period. Even men do stupid things during breakups.
 NocturnalPrincess

Joined: 8/26/2006
Msg: 89
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Posted: 1/22/2007 8:19:06 AM
Okay, I will confess!
I was involved with a man that was married, and had at least one other girlfriend, but had me convinced he was True. I met this winner on a Blog-site.
I came to discover from his by-then ex-wife that he liked having a 10-incher up his butt, and he took offense to my questioning whether or not he had Gay tendencies. Once it got stuck and had to be surgically removed.
On that Blog-site, I aired his sexual preferences, which ultimately got me booted off, for tarnishing the reputation of another blogger (by telling the TRUTH!).
Should I have done what I did? Perhaps not. Would I do it again, knowing the consequences? Probably.

Was telling "persona"l truths stupid? For the record, I never did have the distinct pleasure of plodding this man in the butt, so my information was hearsay.
 JavaQueen

Joined: 4/17/2006
Msg: 90
Why Do Women Do Stupid Things During Breakups???
Posted: 1/22/2007 8:50:52 AM
It's because we're all CRAZY!!! You can't tell me you didn't know that already????
 cwazychickie

Joined: 12/29/2006
Msg: 91
Why Do Women Do Stupid Things During Breakups???
Posted: 1/22/2007 3:21:52 PM
Well some people are just immature and don't know how to act when it comes to breaking up.

I've seen it all. I've seen people get abusive, throw fits, throw themselves onto the floor and cry their beady little eyes out (girls mostly, and mostly when my brother had CLINGY girlfriends and he lived at home with me). And i've seen girls go as far as stalking guys, assuming they are still together when they aren't. Dated a couple guys in that situation...not a pretty sight.

Some girls just don't know how to chill out and get the hint. They want to feel that they belong to you....I know i have never been in that situation to go as far as breaking things (Luckily have seen enough in my day not to do anything like that), never saw the point in it.

THEN AGAIN, it goes both ways too. Guys can be the same way.
 juzlookin35

Joined: 2/7/2006
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Posted: 1/22/2007 7:00:32 PM
Carrie Underwood rocks


And he don't know...

That I dug my key into the side of his pretty little suped up 4 wheel drive,
carved my name into his leather seat...
I took a Louisville slugger to both head lights,
slashed a hole in all 4 tires...

And maybe next time he'll think before he cheats.


immature to do, maybe, but honestly, haven't we all had that moment where logic and reason leaves you, and you act on pure emotion, doesn't have to be an infidelity issue, for all those women who posted on the "sperm donor" thread, you know what I mean....hell hath no fury like a mother bear protecting her cub
 juzlookin35

Joined: 2/7/2006
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Posted: 1/22/2007 7:02:52 PM
Carrie Underwood rocks


And he don't know...

That I dug my key into the side of his pretty little suped up 4 wheel drive,
carved my name into his leather seat...
I took a Louisville slugger to both head lights,
slashed a hole in all 4 tires...

And maybe next time he'll think before he cheats.


immature to do, maybe, but honestly, haven't we all had that moment where logic and reason leaves you, and you act on pure emotion, doesn't have to be an infidelity issue, for all those women who posted on the "sperm donor" thread, you know what I mean....
 stangsnthangs

Joined: 1/7/2007
Msg: 94
Why Do Women Do Stupid Things During Breakups???
Posted: 1/23/2007 4:21:57 AM
My first husband used me for a punching bag frequently. I'm 5'2", he was 6'4". Anyways, I made plans to leave him. Every year, I did his taxes. He would sign the tax forms and I would fill them out. Well, two days before I left,(he didn't know I was leaving) he left the forms on the kitchen table. I filled out the name, info and ssn, and in big red letters, wrote " F*** The IRS" across the form and mailed it in.

That was 20 years ago. He's gotten audited every year since.
 cazparkin

Joined: 9/24/2006
Msg: 95
Why Do Women Do Stupid Things During Breakups???
Posted: 1/23/2007 4:33:49 AM
the reason is because u men hurt us so much
i throw all my ex stuff out after he cheat after 17 years of marriage
 Sekhet

Joined: 1/15/2007
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Posted: 1/23/2007 11:20:52 AM
To PinkWineCats Msg.13
I totally agree with you, even though I'm only 33. I think it should read over 30 I think I'll send this to all my mature 30ish friends We can so relate. Thanks.
 sweet5red

Joined: 4/23/2006
Msg: 97
Why Do Women Do Stupid Things During Breakups???
Posted: 1/23/2007 6:11:07 PM
dont know but these are the lyrics to the carrie underwood, song the video is very wicked looks like a hurricane hit the truck.. ( louisville slugger hurricane)

Right now he's probably slow dancing with a bleached-blond tramp,
and she's probably getting frisky... right now,
he's probably buying her some fruity little drink cause she can't shoot whiskey...

Right now, he's probably up behind her with a pool-stick,
showing her how to shoot a combo...

And he don't know...

That I dug my key into the side of his pretty little suped up 4 wheel drive,
carved my name into his leather seat...
I took a Louisville slugger to both head lights,
slashed a hole in all 4 tires...

And maybe next time he'll think before he cheats.

Right now, she's probably up singing some
white-trash version of Shania karoke..
Right now, she's probably saying "I'm drunk"
and he's a thinking that he's gonna lucky,
Right now, he's probably dabbing 3 dollars worth of that bathroom Polo...
And he don't know...
 Charm1ngMuse

Joined: 12/18/2006
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Posted: 1/26/2007 12:53:07 PM
I love the thought of planting grass in the guy's house. Now THAT's funny! The shrimp in the curtain rods is hysterical too!

Ya never know when that's going to come in handy...

I used to talk to a guy who turned out to be a stalking freak from West Palm Beach area. He was a con man trying to get whatever he could from women. He used to pose as a woman to get guys pictures so he could use those as a front!

This kind of guy deserves a brand new lawn................. in his living room!

:)
 misticmaiden

Joined: 3/4/2006
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Posted: 1/26/2007 12:59:28 PM
During a Break up who ever does the dumping is labled the bad guy. I for one have never broken anything during a break up cause there not worth it. So please dont Generalise at all if you want to ask a none bias question ask it like this Why do some People do stupid things during Breakups? There

Mistic
 Mortavius

Joined: 1/17/2007
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Posted: 1/26/2007 6:50:37 PM
If she was going to go ape, and nothing were to prevent it (lets say she had issues with you sticking it in the neighbor).... would you rather she trash your house, or "Bobbit-ize" you?

The man in the video, and all other men that have had their houses trashed should count their blessings, and accept the price paid for being a complete heel and double dipping.... because, the price can always... ALWAYS be worse.

Your house and the shit in it can be replaced, at least.

What some men ,that do this, fail to understand is that there are changes in brain chemistry. There are behaviors wired in.... and if they get triggered, you are shit up a creek... and all of your "suck it up and leave" isn't going to save you.

Men AND women have been KILLED by this.

So, perhaps, you should be a little more understanding..... educate yourself a little more... and be a little more HONEST, instead of saying things like "there's the door".... because, if you're one of the guys that likes to screw other women, and you go through them as often as you go through condoms.... there's always gonna be one that will have that circuitry just a little faulty, and if that day comes, you'll be THANKFUL it was only your house.

Justified or not, shit happens when you screw with people's hearts.
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