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| Why Do Women Do Stupid Things During Breakups???
Posted: 1/26/2007 11:43:20 PM | I had to break up with a girl a few years ago unfortunetly and I got a story for this thread.
So the day after we split I went out to my truck to go to work and I noticed little white spots on the hood, drivers door and fender. I thought, huh, that's wierd. Turns out she shot spit-wads on my truck late that night. They were little crusties the next day when I found em. I was a little mad at the time. I just totally let it go because I knew it could've been worse. Looking back on it now it's hillarious to me that she did that. Of anything she could've picked to do, it was that. Gotta say it was creative. | |
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| Why Do Women Do Stupid Things During Breakups???
Posted: 1/29/2007 8:11:34 AM | I had an ex- that was so suave, romantic, and charming, and sweet, until he turned into a complete weiner. We had met on a blog site.
I aired his dirty laundry, including his sexual quirks, on that blog site, because I was so angry at the miserable way he wound up treating me.Let's just say I got kicked off the blog site, but all I did was tell the Truth. But the Truth was some Private, very personal Truth, that in hindsight I would have kept private had I not been so hurt. I twisted the knife pretty severely.
I got kicked off, and he stopped posting there.
He shouldn't have lied and deceived, and none of that would have happened, and we would probably still be good friends. I guess I take honesty and trust personally.
I will not indulge you with the lewd and lascivious details, except to say that in hindsight, I think that he was a closet Gay Man. I am softening in my opinion of him, because he doesn't want to accept the fact that he is Gay, and I do not think he has ever acted upon it.
But for me to air that information, on a site where he was known, it was pretty wicked.
Instead of feeling vindication or revenge, I really feel just emptiness and betrayal, and none of my vindictiveness changed those feelings.
One of my mantras is: The Truth Works for Me! | |
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| Why Do Women Do Stupid Things During Breakups???
Posted: 1/29/2007 6:18:04 PM | If you are going to put a post up here at least honor the copyright. Instead of making you look smart and sharp, you now look like a fool.
By Frank Kaiser
One of the perks of dufferdom is an increased capacity to appreciate people. Friends. Spouses. And, for me, women. All women.
When I was 20, I had eyes only for girls my age. Any woman over 30 was ancient, over 40 invisible.
Today, at 70, I still appreciate the 20-year-old for her youthful looks, vigor, and (occasional) sweet innocence.
But I equally enjoy women of my own age and beyond, and every age in between. I've learned that each has its own special wonders, attractions, magic and beauty.
As I grow in age, I value mature ladies most of all. Here are just a few of the reasons senior men sing the praises of older women:
An older woman knows how to smile with such brightness and truth, old men stagger.
An older woman will never ask out of the blue, "What are you thinking?" An older woman doesn't care what you think.
An older woman's been around long enough to know who she is, what she wants, and from whom. By the age of 50, few women are wishy-washy. About anything. Thank God!
And yes, once you get past a wrinkle or two, an older woman is far sexier than her younger counterpart!
Her libido's stronger.
Her fear of pregnancy's gone.
Her appreciation of experienced lovemaking is honed and reciprocal.
And she's lived long enough to know how to please a man in ways her daughter could never dream of. (Young men, you have something to look forward to!)
Older women are forthright and honest. They'll tell you right off that you are a jerk if you're acting like one. A young woman will say nothing, fearing that you might think worse of her. An older woman doesn't give a damn.
“If the Lord made anything better than a woman, He kept it for Himself.” — Jerry Lee Lewis
An older, single woman usually has had her fill of "meaningful relationships" and "long-term commitments." Can't relate? Can't commit? She could care less. The last thing she needs in her life is another whiny, dependent lover!
Older women are sublime. They seldom contemplate having a shouting match with you at the opera or in the middle of an expensive dinner. Of course, if you deserve it, they won't hesitate to shoot you if they think they can get away with it.
Most older women cook well. They care about cleanliness. They're generous with praise, often undeserved.
An older woman has the self-assurance to introduce you to her women friends. A young woman often snarls with distrust when "her guy" is with other women. Older women couldn't care less.
Women get psychic as they age. You never have to confess your sins to an older woman. Like your mother, they always know.
Yes, we geezers praise older women for a multitude of reasons. These are but a few.
Unfortunately, it's not reciprocal.
For every stunning, smart, well-coifed babe of 75 there's a bald, paunchy relic with his yellow pants belted at his armpits making a fool of himself with some 22-year-old waitress.
Ladies, I apologize for my fellow geezers. That men are genetically inferior is no secret. Count your blessings that we die off at a far younger age, leaving you the best part of your lives to enjoy and appreciate the exquisite woman you've become. Without the distraction of some demanding old fart clinging and whining his way into your serenity.
© Copyright 2000 - 2006—Frank Kaiser | |
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| Why Do Women Do Stupid Things During Breakups???
Posted: 1/29/2007 6:36:05 PM | | That video was funny. I say more power to you girl. He hurt her and she hurt him the only way she knew would affect him. That TV and those golf clubs will be cried over.... All is fair in love and war. | |
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Posted: 2/1/2007 12:18:35 AM | Chipperrr,
Some things you left out of #13 replay:
Of course, if you deserve it, they won't hesitate to shoot you, if they think they can get away with it.
Older women are generous with praise, often undeserved. They know what it's like to be unappreciated.
Unfortunately, for every stunning, smart, beautiful, hot woman over 40, there is a bald, paunchy relic in yellow pants making a fool of himself with some 22 year old waitress.
So..... For all those men who say, "Why buy the cow when you get the milk for free?", here's an up-date for you: Now 80% of women are against marriage, why?
Because women realize it's not worth buying an entire pig, just to get a little sausage. | |
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| Why Do Women Do Stupid Things During Breakups???
Posted: 2/1/2007 8:01:58 PM | | Women can get very attached to a man. They get so used to having you to go to that they think that's what they should do during the break up also. She cried on your shoulder when she needed to all those years, you rip her heart out by breaking up with her all of the sudden - she's gonna be embarrassed, confused, hurt and what not and especially if your going to call it stupid that's a very mean thing to say. Unless she's being violent about it or something. The point is that women have hearts too. | |
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| Why Do Women Do Stupid Things During Breakups???
Posted: 2/1/2007 11:44:29 PM | Have you ever heard that saying, "HELL HATH NO FURY LIKE THAT OF A WOMAN SCORNED"! If you hurt most women emotionally, they will hurt you financially. It doesn't matter if it's your t.v. or cutting the crotch out of all your pants. It will cost ya something!  | |
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| Why Do Women Do Stupid Things During Breakups???
Posted: 2/2/2007 12:38:14 AM | I havent had issues with my x . we are still friends after all thease years. we just felt inportant to act like adults . life is to short who has time and engery fighting over nothink
years from now do you think peaple that keep turning each other's lifes upside will look back and feel how stupid and inmature i was or will they think another chapter in my life and i have grown living my life to the fullest each day!!!! | |
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| Why Do Women Do Stupid Things During Breakups???
Posted: 2/2/2007 6:01:11 AM | when it comes time for the divorce... does he deduct the damaged goods from her 50%?
What I am curious about cause I have known women who have done this (actually dated one) and what I am bewildered by is after they get caught and arrested and have a criminal record afterwards... does the revenge really happen?
I mean if they have kids together... well you think with that video she should have unsupervised access to the kids?
People do stupid things and although if we are going to weigh property damage vs. physcial damage obviously the property damage is the lesser of two evils... but by how much? I think it would be less cowerdly for this women in this case to walk up behind him and hit him with a baseball bat... instead of driving out somewhere with his stuff and giving it away...
oh well at least his bad karma should be gone! | |
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| Why Do Women Do Stupid Things During Breakups???
Posted: 2/2/2007 6:36:34 AM | | I never damage people's things or try to hurt them in any way, I just call it a day, pack, leave, count my losses and move on. Well maybe I throw out the occassionaly F U on the way out the door, that's as bad as I get. | |
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| Why Do Women Do Stupid Things During Breakups???
Posted: 2/2/2007 6:48:44 AM | I just watched that video. I thought it was great. The only thing I saw this woman break was his laptop. What did he break besides her trust and heart? Looks good on him.
I thank you. | |
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| Why Do Women Do Stupid Things During Breakups???
Posted: 2/2/2007 7:39:28 AM | woman go "crazy"..because they are hurt..and usually they are not thinking rationally..all they want to do is get back at the guy.I never went psycho on a ex..but I did help a friend get back at her ex..he hurt her so much..and he was such a Pig!.I offered my help!.we never broke into his house..and break or steal anything...I never do that..but we did get him back!.reveled certain things about him...and it felt good for him to be hurt...and see how it feels!.and I was happy to see my friend..feeling happy again!.I am alot older and wiser now...but that is not a regreat. | |
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| Why Do Women Do Stupid Things During Breakups???
Posted: 2/2/2007 7:41:56 AM |
hey were very expensive items that she probably didn't pay for
Now that's a very presumptuous remark. Many of us have spoiled men with expensive gifts, made homes for them and in some instances, took care of them. Or is that too easy to not think about?
I agree with many that women are not the only ones who can get "psycho" during a break up. The newspapers are filled with the fatal attraction misadventures of both men AND women.
Cheerio! | |
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| Why Do Women Do Stupid Things During Breakups???
Posted: 2/2/2007 9:18:15 AM | My ex slashed my tires and keyed my car after I broke up with him. He called me 20 times in an hour and would sit outside my house in his car so I couldn't leave. This lasted for months until I finally called the police. He was actually pretty normal when we were together, but love can make a person crazy.
I had him arrested, we went to court and and he now has a record. Was it worth it...i doubt it. All I felt was pity for him. Physco behaviour will get you no where!!! | |
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| Why Do Women Do Stupid Things During Breakups???
Posted: 2/2/2007 10:35:50 AM |
however yes she was doing it because of her husband cheating on her it still doesn't give her the right to go and destroy his items that by the look of it, they were very expensive items that she probably didn't pay for. I also heard stories about my friend's ex's throwing there tv's and stuff out the window just because of a break up....jeez grow up, act your age, and move on...don't throw a hissy fit or get ur panties all in a twist because of it...he doesn't like you, there's the door now move.
Her actions were not as stupid as her husband's action of using another woman's vagina, that is for sure!
Michael | |
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| Why Do Women Do Stupid Things During Breakups???
Posted: 2/2/2007 3:52:09 PM | well lets see....glad you didnt mean all woman that is.... my male friends say this over an over ...most men are pigs...an my daddy always said...most guys cant keep it in their pants an they think with the small head.  is this true..lol.
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Posted: 2/2/2007 5:03:02 PM | My ex & I were arguing one night, so I went over to my friend's house and was still ****ing about it when I popped-off and said, "Ewwww.....I'd just like to flatten his tires!!"....joking, of course. What does my friend do, but hand me a valve stem remover....quicker than shit, too! Just whipped it right out! Told me if I did more than 2 tires, I would need someone to go with me cause it makes A LOT of noise! Told me if I was gonna do something stupid, to do it right....most I could get would be criminal mischief....Ha! I've NEVER used it, but to this day, I carry that in my purse like a good luck charm. Everytime I need a good laugh I just pull it out & remember him. Damm....Can't wait to see him again! He was my advisor & I miss him a lot!  | |
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Posted: 2/3/2007 10:22:56 AM | So you asked for a woman's opinion and here it is! LOL
What do I think of this stuff?
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however yes she was doing it because of her husband cheating on her it still doesn't give her the right to go and destroy his items that by the look of it, they were very expensive items that she probably didn't pay for.
First of all...I don't agree with trashing someone's property...but then again I think it's even more horrible when a man (or woman for that matter) go and trashes someone's heart, trust, etc. These have lasting effects...material items can be bought again. When you marry someone you become partners. There is no more my stuff, her stuff, his stuff...it's OUR stuff. This jackass of a husband took HER TRUST, SECURITY, AND LOVE and destroyed it, so she did the same to items that were obviously of value to him. It just baffles me when men think they can cheat and there will be no reprecussions! You are taking a woman's most valuable item (her heart) and stomping all over it! What do you really expect? Her to just be like..."okay, thanks for cheating on me. Bye!". Come on!
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jeez grow up, act your age, and move on...don't throw a hissy fit or get ur panties all in a twist because of it...he doesn't like you, there's the door now move.
How about the man who cheated grows up and acts his age! Mature, stable, caring men don't do this to women. It's thouroughly disgusting behavior showing lack of respect and compassion for the woman you have agreed to share your life with.
Anyways...that is just my two cents. | |
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