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| Why is it so hard to find a relationship when one is middle aged?
Posted: 11/2/2006 10:37:40 PM | I have another chiche to throw out here. Jack Nicholson said it to Tom Cruise...
"You can't handle the truth".
Whenever I hear some broad complain that men only want them for sex, I think, "Oh JeeezISSS. Not another one of these!" They are the first to get flirty. They are the first to get smutty. They constantly try to call attention to parts that should remain covered. And when a guy manages to ignore all of that, they get royally P/O.
I've seen my share of them. If she has a problem with men only wanting sex from her, it is because that is all SHE ever thinks about. I see her a week later and she has already been with two tweekers, three felons and a sneak theif. Still the same old squawk.
I am not the only one. All of us guys know them, we just didn't want to say so. | |
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| Why is it so hard to find a relationship when one is middle aged?
Posted: 11/3/2006 11:29:09 AM | Hey big fella! Flirty, flirty here
This is a decent, respectable broad......... errr... I mean lady replying to your post...painting women with quite a broad brush, aren't ya?
I've been celibate for 6 yrs. since my husband passed away....and just started dating 2 months ago.
However, during the course of the past 6 yrs. I've been propositioned by more men to
" service the widow" or " do the dirty" than I have fingers.
The sleezes are either married, in another relationship or just single wanting sex.
I am not the only one. All of us guys know them, we just didn't want to say
I call them like I see them too.....and I don't include all other women in my opinion.
SOME men only want sex. Period. And not all women who have this opinion are squawking as you call it....merely stating an opinion from their own personal experience, as I am.
It's also amazing how you can tell the quality of a person, by what they write!
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| Why is it so hard to find a relationship when one is middle aged?
Posted: 11/3/2006 12:59:13 PM | You are not who I am talking about unless you start a date with the "men always try to use me" thing and keep it going all evening. The ones I am talking about are hard core. They can't help themselves.
I have no doubt that practically all women get unexpected and unwelcome advances. The evidence speaks for itself. Again, not what I am getting at. So my point is this:
You were the one that took out the brush with your "sounds like a duck" post. It is a two way street. Sorry "Lady", you are not immune to having some troll look at your words, pick out some nasty example and pinning that tail on you too. | |
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| Why is it so hard to find a relationship when one is middle aged?
Posted: 11/3/2006 3:18:40 PM | | First of all we learn from our past relationships and our hardships,second of all we are cautious,but it truly shouldnt be this way but it is,I believe personally we are only attacking another like bringing our cautious ways with us into something new,its called comparing in a way even though we dont mean too but this happens,we get to a point where we almost give up them someone real and normal does come along maybe we should give others a CHANCE,its called chance,we need to open our minds and our ways and make people belong,as this is not fair to someone new coming into our lives,we need to reassure others everything is good and ok,leave your past behind you and start all anew,this is what this site is all about new beginnings new lives new relationships, | |
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| Why is it so hard to find a relationship when one is middle aged?
Posted: 11/3/2006 6:09:15 PM |
Sorry "Lady" you are not immune to having some troll look at you words, pick out some nasty example and pinning that tail on you too.
I responded with it " sounds like a duck" based on msg. 71 a poster who is looking for an intimate encounter and msg 72 who will take out his contacts and drop his clothes for anybody.
I needn't paint anyone with a brush. They have done it all on their own.
In the meantime, according to your words....I DO NOT FEED THE TROLLS since you have confessed you are a troll. And, in regards to pinning a tail on me, I haven't played that game since Grade one.
I must stick with my original opinion. SOME men talk out of the side of their mouth.....or lie and say they want a relationship when all they want is a romp. From my personal observation, SOME men only want sex and MOST women are looking for a relationship and I believe that is why it is so hard to find a relationship when one is middle aged. Men and women have different agendas.
Just my opinion and I've been known to have one!
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| Why is it so hard to find a relationship when one is middle aged?
Posted: 11/3/2006 6:18:19 PM | How dare you have an opinion on this topic, Muskoka Gold! LOL
I have to agree with the GENERALIZATION that most men are looking for something other than what most women are.
How diplomatic was I with the wording of that statement!!!!! LOL
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| Why is it so hard to find a relationship when one is middle aged?
Posted: 11/3/2006 6:31:30 PM |
How diplomatic was I with the wording of that statement!!!!! LOL
Tink,,,,you did great! Do you give lessons? 'Cause like I said......if it looks like a........it must be.........! Goin' now for a diplomacy lesson.....highly unlikely! But, I will admit to being middle-aged and without a relationship YET! It's just a matter of time........
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Posted: 11/3/2006 7:52:18 PM | Really? I didn't know you could tell someone to go to Hell diplomatically? I love it! You're toooo funny! Coug.....!.....and Bobby!
SOME people's trip or life's journey is feeding their own egos/agendas and perhaps we'll see a future with 70+ people (men and women) who still can't figure out why they're alone and feel lonely. And, of course, at some point they may not be able to perform physically! Perhaps it will be because they didn't get it figured out when they were middle aged. Or, maybe as I've said in a prior post they only want physical relations instead of being coupled in an emotional/ committed relationship that could include sex. Or, maybe they like it this way, having shallow intimate encounters, performing for the masses but......living the rest of their life without a relationship that entails more than just being sexually physical. That will only last sooooo long. Perhaps some are afraid to be vulnerable enough to " LOVE" or " BE LOVED"
To each his own I say. I just hope they have a nice trip.
In the meantime, I'm wanting it all!
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| Why is it so hard to find a relationship when one is middle aged?
Posted: 11/3/2006 7:53:53 PM | Coug, I was just bugging you. I might be blonde but I'm not thaaaaat dumb!
Bobby, apparently I need to use more of my diplomacy on the other site. LOL
No matter what anyone says, it's still hard to find a relationship when you are an old boot like me!
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| Why is it so hard to find a relationship when one is middle aged?
Posted: 11/3/2006 8:24:16 PM | "Bobby, apparently I need to use more of my diplomacy on the other site"
An unfortunate sign of the times, Tink..People are so easily offended..
I have no problem with your diplomacy, love..I never have had a problem..
You are an outstanding lady, in my books: ...Bob.. | |
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| Why is it so hard to find a relationship when one is middle aged?
Posted: 11/3/2006 8:38:11 PM | Wshing you smooth sailing Tink. That's why I'm here on POF.....ponds are better that boats, in my books.
And to stay on topic, it will be great when we middle-aged folks find a relationship that fulfills us. Two people looking in the same directon and want the same things for their lives together? I believe love and a long-lasting relationship is possible. Again!
I think the most important thing to discuss when you first feel that "chemistry" is whether or not the other person has the same agenda. Profiles don't say it all. But, when some people post in the forums.....it can reveal some characteristics that speak volumes about their character, intentions, morals, values and what they want from " good old life" in general.
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| Why is it so hard to find a relationship when one is middle aged?
Posted: 11/3/2006 8:44:43 PM | On topic..
I think that 'middle aged' may have passed me by while I was having a 'power nap'..
But, I am awake, and alert now!!
It, (the elusive "It") is out there, somewhere...Just dont tire of casting your nets..
There is someone for everyone! I'll take that to the bank! Thank you... | |
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