| Are there any men out there who isn't just looking for sex?
Posted: 3/2/2006 7:14:25 AM | So I don't think all men are just looking for "just" sex everyone wants the fairytale, but MEN will settle for "just sex".
FEMALE POEM
I want a man who's handsome, smart and strong
One who loves to listen long.
One who thinks before he speaks
One who'll call, not wait for weeks.
I want him to be gainfully employed,
When I spend his cash, be not annoyed.
Pulls out my chair and opens my door,
massages my back and begs to do more.
Oh! For a man who makes love to my mind
And knows what to answer to "how big is my behind?"
I want this man to love me to no end,
And always be my very best friend.
MALE POEM
I want a deaf-mute nymphomaniac
with huge boobs who owns a liquor store and a bass boat.
I know this doesn't rhyme and I don't give a sh!t. | |
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Mertz
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jeene
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| Are there any men out there who isn't just looking for sex?
Posted: 3/18/2006 9:17:43 AM | | Well, I can't deny my desire for sex, but yes I want more than that. I've been in the "F*ck Buddies" relationship and I ended up falling for the woman only to have her deny me. She and I split after I gave her the choice to either give me the relationship I wanted or to leave. She left and I haven't seen her since. She assured me that she'd be with me, but when push came to shove, it was all about sex with her. So, yes I want sex, very badly, but I want it to be with a woman I can love and I want it to mean more to both of us than just a roll in the hay. It's not f*cking, it's making love. That's the difference and if you can't get along other than while having sex, what's the point. I've got my hand for that if all I want is a quick sexual release. | |
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| Are there any men out there who isn't just looking for sex?
Posted: 3/19/2006 12:12:52 PM | | Hey Legend, sure you can be friends and not have sex, I have been divorced for 5 years and I have women friends to just hang out with. Some women have different interests, so I have friends that I can go to the museums with, or the theater or shows, and then there are the friends that you can go out and party with and just get stupid, and there are the women who you get together with when you need to take care of your needs. I know a few women, single moms who dont have time for a relationship and have issues with introducing a new man to her kids, but they still have needs. So it all depends on the circumstance. | |
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| Are there any men out there who isn't just looking for sex?
Posted: 3/19/2006 12:57:29 PM | | Wow I don't believe the posts here. I am a healthy male and I don't even concider sex until I get to know a ladie. Sex without love is like opening a bottle of fine wine and finding it empty. Once a relationship is established then is the time for the intamate shareing of ones soul. i have slept with many prospective soul mates , doing nothing more than cuddling and being close to another human being without having "sex". Am I that diferant? | |
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| Are there any men out there who isn't just looking for sex?
Posted: 4/26/2006 7:46:53 PM | do any of these men live near ME?!?     i "just" would like a Man in my life who will Grow to accept & love me as i am... flaws & all, because i will do the same for him...... (plus there will be oodles of s*x! )   Hugs to all,.... | |
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| Are there any men out there who isn't just looking for sex?
Posted: 4/28/2006 10:33:29 PM | as a bloke i prefer to get to know a woman b4 I jump into bed with them, this usually involves bein friends and gettin to know them slowly ova period of time, and eventually if we both feel the same then yes we may have sex  | |
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| Are there any men out there who isn't just looking for sex?
Posted: 4/28/2006 10:54:38 PM | Personally I think you have it all wrong...I think that sex is an integral part of a relationship... you get so much closer to someone when you are intimate with them. There's nothing wrong with being intimate with a man. It's not about sex, it's about being intimate. Sex is supposed to be an extention of your affection for someone and a way of showing how you feel about them. (Unless you're out for a one night-stand i guess).
It's pleasurable, and a way to join mind and body as one. I think that your problem is not so much getting intimate with a man, as choosing the wrong men to be intimate with. If all a man or woman wants is sex, then no need to beat about the bush, many will accomodate you...if you want something altogether deeper, then you need to get a little wiser, in your choices of who you date. Not all guys just want to love you, and leave you. There are times in life when physical is all you are up for, and nothing more, you just have to be honest about it. Some people cant be honest..so you have to become a better judge of character. | |
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| Are there any men out there who isn't just looking for sex?
Posted: 4/29/2006 1:11:59 AM | I'm not looking for sex.
Most girls that I talk to (especially from here) are quite amazed at how little I care about it. They're usually shocked.
Guess what ladies, some of us guys are sophisticated and mature enough not to be complete hornballs all the time.
We're not hard to find | |
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| Are there any men out there who isn't just looking for sex?
Posted: 4/29/2006 6:02:35 AM | | hi all, in my life right now i'm looking for someone who i can grow old with. you have to get to no each other before sex comes into the pic. . why would someone want to go out and ahve sex with just anyone? maybe thats why i'm still d/d free. i don't believe in that. i want a friend then a lover. | |
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| Are there any men out there who isn't just looking for sex?
Posted: 4/29/2006 12:47:12 PM | I've said this before in this thread already but YES there are men who aren't just looking for sex and there's some like me who don't want sex at all. I've yet to find a woman who would accept a relationship without sex.
Thats why I'm sticking to being single and not bothered about women! | |
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| Are there any men out there who isn't just looking for sex?
Posted: 4/29/2006 1:26:52 PM | | Intelligence, honesty, friendliness, being revealing, not being a gossip, handling finances well, being emotionally stability, getting along well with others, maturity, cleanliness. I look for these things first. If not found there can be no relationship and no sex. | |
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| Are there any men out there who isn't just looking for sex?
Posted: 4/29/2006 1:30:40 PM | Y'know, sometimes we all lose perspective about what's real important. Sex is all fine, or I've heard it can be, but you need to think about those things that really bring a gal and her man together. Things like Cannonball Run movies, the Hamster Dance, and a real sweet pimped out Dodge Spirit.
In my experience sex doesn't bring men and women closer together. Generally there's quite a bit of awkwardness afterwards. Then the inevitable questions about my unusual skin condition.
Nope, it's best to stick to the good things in life, like Walker Texas Ranger reruns and boat shows. | |
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