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| Are there any men out there who aren't just looking for Chex?
Posted: 10/16/2006 2:42:54 PM | Man I wish I would have had that problem in my last relationship...he tried to convence me that men can't just get it up if they are stressed or have a lot on their mind. Well I must admit, he was the first man I came across who didn't want it when ever you were willing. Especially in a relationship. I chalk it up to too much beer and being too embarressed to deal with not being able to perform.....
On the other hand, if your just meeting and thats all they want...you have the option to tell them to take a hike and move on. When the time is right, you will meet one of those nice guys (and I know you guys are out there) who would also like to get to know you before the sex. Just a matter of understanding what each person is looking for. And if he/she doesn't agree.....move on. Don't sweat the small stuff.....There are many fishes in the sea.......
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| Are there any men out there who isn't just looking for sex?
Posted: 10/22/2006 9:37:11 AM | | I don't know about all this. Honestly, some women on here come across as a tease. I mean Bunnyfuksalot? Can be a bit misleading!! We as a society are very nuerotic, yet we make such a big deal over something like sex. When you go overseas, you will find adult mags out in the open uncovered, were a 15 year old boy can pick them up and flip through them...it's not such a big deal. That is why, in my opinion, sex crimes happen far less in other countries. It isn't a "taboo" as it is in our society. Personally, alot of people are reppressed sexually at a young age, through religious dogma, and mores and norms imposed by their family or friends, they are told they are bad for thinking a certain way. I think that is why so many young girls go crazy once they are away from home and this societies pressures ( I have seen it), I think that is why so many young people shack up and get married so young, it is exceptable to have sex once married, so they get married for the wrong reasons. And face, who here doesn't like sex? For me, sex IS NOT everything, but I'll say this, I wouldn't drive a car with out test driving it. Why would I want to commit to a women, spend my money, time, and energy, only to find out she is terrible in bed, frigid, with a bunch of emotional hang ups? | |
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| Are there any men out there who isn't just looking for sex?
Posted: 10/24/2006 2:57:55 AM |
And face, who here doesn't like sex?
Err, that would be ME then!
Ok so thats not STRICTLY true. I've not had sex so I can't say that I don't like it, only that I don't like the thought of it. If that makes sense. | |
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| just looking for frosted lucky charms; magically delicious
Posted: 11/1/2006 7:24:42 AM | THERE IS NOTHING WRONG WITH CONSENSUAL ADULT SEX.
The only problem is when guys pressure women when women are not interested. Men who pressure women with unwanted sexual advancements are annoying to women. I can undestand that. Most men do not do that.
However, the complaint which really consists in the implicit idea that men who are sexually interested in women are lascivious is just dumb. Yes, they want sex. And they are hoping you want it too. However, the men that additionally are looking for a relationship of mutual respect and affection are the ones women consider boring and weak. The smooth-talkers who screw everything that moves are the ones women complain about. Yet most women select them.
If you are a woman who is one of the less than one percent of the population that is asexual in orientation then why on Earth are you on a dating site? Because you want to manipulate some poor sap into paying your credit card bills?
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| Are there any men out there who isn't just looking for sex?
Posted: 11/29/2006 9:26:25 AM | | There are guys out there who will wait. But seriously, don't men always think about sex. If they are really perverse, and annoying you, just block them. And make it clear that you are not here for a one night stand in your profile. This may help weed through the hornballs. | |
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| Are there any men out there who isn't just looking for sex?
Posted: 12/2/2006 11:48:07 PM | | Yes there are men out there who are not just looking for sex. (Me) I am sorry to say that there are more men just looking for sex than a meaningful relationship. I personally think that most men who are just looking for sex do not have children and if they do then they don't have custody. I am looking for someone who will acept me for who I am and for the fact that I have sole phiscal and leagel custody of my youngest child and that my other two children live with their mother. | |
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| Are there any men out there who isn't just looking for sex?
Posted: 5/25/2007 10:39:46 PM | | There are plenty of men who aren't *just* looking for sex. But there'd better be sex in addition to everything else. No sex at all is probably one of the ultimate deal breakers, unless you find someone who is fighting nature because they fear the wrath of god. | |
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| Are there any men out there who isn't just looking for sex?
Posted: 9/6/2007 3:06:42 AM | | well im a bloke 40 years of age had lots of sex and loved it,but now maturity has come forward and true meaning in a relationship is what its all about,if you are just a player .are you wanting love or a fling that is the question,flings are easy to discribe so im not wasting my time,just think how good it would be to come home from work and find a partner thats eager to see you,vice/versa to love spending time together playing together,talking,and hitting it off like a good mate,then into the bedroom where you let your self go and actully make love and feel the connection its better than any drug or mind bending substance ,do you think animals have got the same issues ....no they find a mate and worship each other. | |
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| Are there any men out there who isn't just looking for sex?
Posted: 12/4/2007 9:17:53 AM | Yup. Me. I'm not looking for sex. I need a relationship[/] that will last longer than the initial physical attraction. My guess is most men are like me, too, but it's not a popular cultural thing to admit.
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| Are there any men out there who isn't just looking for sex?
Posted: 9/29/2008 5:13:01 PM | It would be nice for men to think with the head above their shoulders.
They need to realize, that if they would love someone for who they are first, that
when the time came for sex, it makes it so much better.
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