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| Are there any men out there who isn't just looking for sex?
Posted: 8/17/2005 8:23:02 AM | | well i am more of a hopelss romantic type, but i know what you are saying, many of my peers seem to think with the head between their legs quite often. i am told quite often that i am more mature for thinking romance and friendship going in to a relationship is more important than just a one stand. and if you are wondering, i am not just posting this for the sake of making myself look like a gentleman, tell ya the truth i don't care i'm just posting for the sake of conversation. | |
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| Are there any men out there who isn't just looking for sex?
Posted: 8/17/2005 8:49:42 AM | I think we should also ask if there are any women out here who aren't just looking for financial and emotional security????
to women who aren't just looking for that: My apologies... I wasn't directing this at you. I love women... and respect you as wonderous creatures...
Sheesh!!! | |
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| Are there any men out there who isn't just looking for sex?
Posted: 8/17/2005 8:51:34 AM | | I'm going to be chastisied for this statement but, as a male, I go on record as saying I think sex is overrated. I'm much prefer just laying down, holding someone, talking... I know it sounds strange but sometimes you need other fulfillment than just an orgasm. | |
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| Are there any men out there who isn't just looking for sex?
Posted: 8/17/2005 9:08:20 AM | These men do exsit there all around - if there is any female looking for that tpe on man in MONTREAL you can email me and we can start the chatting .
ANy ways good luck for all the girls out there to find there MAN (MR. RIGHT) | |
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| Are there any men out there who isn't just looking for sex?
Posted: 8/17/2005 9:12:20 AM | There are some men uot there not looking for just sex. Me being one of them. Before I want sex, I want a bit of a relationship, most likely a serious one. I may be old-fashioned but hey, I live in a new-age world. Kinda sucks but yeah, we'll see.... | |
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likmeu
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Joined: 8/15/2005
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| Are there any men out there who isn't just looking for sex?
Posted: 8/23/2005 6:46:25 AM | | ok, so here it goes. I am truly scared. truth be told. I have been hurt way too much to look for anything else. I have given all I can and still pay for it. women have broken promises, and left me pennyless, and broken way to many times to expect them to be honest and be true to me. they all change their minds when they see a guy whos got more $$ or seem to be the greener pasture. I have lost hope. so I live life alone and have sex once in a while and I dont get hurt. cause we both know what we're there for. nothing more. | |
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| Are there any men out there who isn't just looking for sex?
Posted: 8/23/2005 8:12:47 AM | Now dont get me wrong I have had one-nighters, short flings, friends with benefits...but that was a while ago...I am 25 yr old now and am looking for the one...and am willing to wait till the time and the mood is right before I progress that far in a relationship...I wanna know whats upstairs WAY before I wanna know how the sex will be...its actually the last thing on my mind...I wanna know how compatable we are, could this be long-term, become frineds and hang out first...and hang out alot before I even concider a relationship...much less sex...now dont get me wrong...I do believe sex is very healthy for a relationship...but it has to progress that far first...and I can usually tell the first time we hang out if that is a possability...but till then if a girl want sex from me right away, she will basically have to rape me lol it will not be voluntary if you know what im saying. I wanna enjoy the romance first, holding hands, candle dinners, long meaningful talks, cuddles on the couch...and see where it leads from there...so IOW...I am definatly not looking for just sex by any means  | |
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BBdrgn
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Joined: 7/15/2005
Msg: 38 | |
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| Are there any men out there who isn't just looking for sex?
Posted: 8/23/2005 8:44:02 AM | | Guys that are looking for a friend or hangout or something serious are out there, you just have to look, and don't give in off the bat. Because if you do yeah, he'll want it all the time. But there are a few in this area if you want me to talk to them for ya lol. | |
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| Are there any men out there who isn't just looking for sex?
Posted: 8/23/2005 8:55:00 AM | | I think people are mixing a few things up. Yes pretty much all men have sex on the brain, and pretty much all women do to. At least the ones that I've met. I personally can't see sleeping with anyone I don't know or have feelings for. I have never had a one night stand. To put this in a little better perspective I have traveled all over in my life, to many countries known for easy sex. I lived for nine years in the Netherlands. No one night stands. Yes we think about sex all the time, as a matter of fact thanks to this thread I'm thinking about it right now. Do I care if I get some today, next week, next year? Nope, if that was the case I'd bop the woman who ims me 3 times a day offering sexual service with no strings. Some of us do need substance. | |
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kce33
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Joined: 6/2/2005
Msg: 42 | |
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nergal
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Joined: 5/12/2005
Msg: 45 | |
| Are there any men out there who isn't just looking for sex?
Posted: 8/23/2005 9:48:19 AM | | I'm not after sex, lets facw it most people on here are in the US or Canada so it isnt an option. I dont particularly fancy flying 3000 miles plus for something I can get down the road. I am on here to chat, discuss things and have fun, its a social thing not a dating thing. If I got talking to someone and it developed that way then maybe, but otherwise I'm here to chat. | |
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kce33
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Joined: 6/2/2005
Msg: 47 | |
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BBdrgn
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Joined: 7/15/2005
Msg: 49 | |
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