| Are there any men out there who isn't just looking for sex? Posted: 8/23/2005 6:18:52 PM | (sigh) Some Days you just have to....
The key to the question is to READ it... it says "JUST looking for sex..."
I think I can honestly state that ANY guy looking for anything is hoping, wanting and expecting there to be sex invovled... at some point some time... However... I am sure that there are quite a few of us that are wanting MORE than JUST sex...
Sex is easy... (usually, generally, unless you have the hygeine of a rat... ) it is the rest of it that is hard (sorry, bad pun... )... Unfortunately there are a ton of men (and more than a few women) that figure if they are good enough in bed that the gals will ignore them picking their noses and leaving dangling participles...
Sex is like the dessert after a good meal... sure, you can enjoy it anytime.... but it seems much more satisfying, more filling and much more special after a good meal...
Just my two cents worth... (for the record, I think there is much more to making love than merely the grunt and slide too... but I have admitted that I am different... )
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| Are there any men out there who isn't just looking for sex? Posted: 8/23/2005 6:36:24 PM | There are some guys out here who are not strictly looking for sex. I know, I know that’s what they all say but seriously. Anyone can go out and just screw someone that gets pretty old after a while, if you’ve done it once you’ve done it a million times, not to sound gross but the end result of just screwing can be accomplished all by myself. Funny thing is that women are not used to be being rejected for sex, they just do not know how to handle it. I have only two really funny yet awkward situations where the women I was with really kinda freaked when I just wanted to play….. I mean I was fair in my playing we BOTH had our moment in the sunshine if you know what I mean.
But anyhow to answer you question yes guys like this do exist. | |
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| Are there any men out there who isn't just looking for sex? Posted: 8/25/2005 3:27:58 PM | | Some of us want a long term relationship with one special woman in addition to sex. A relationship takes time, effort and some self sacrifice. Maybe the guys you're running into aren't mature enough for what you want. Keep looking. There are plenty of us willing to start a relationship first. | |
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| Are there any men out there who isn't just looking for sex? Posted: 8/28/2005 9:01:30 PM | | Obviously sex is a factor in a succesful relationship, but I like to get to know a woman first, take things slow, let it progress naturally see where it goes. One may not know full well enough about the other if they go at it right away. If there is time taken to develope it, it might turn out to be a great, and wonderful thing. But sure, sex is still an important issue that will happen when the time is right. | |
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| Are there any men out there who isn't just looking for sex? Posted: 8/28/2005 9:08:09 PM | makeing love and haveing sex is two seperate things to men,knowing the difference can change a womans mind on answering this thread.A man wanting to make love ,puts forth the romance and respect a woman is looking for,but a man wanting sex is a person looking to satisfye an erdge that wont go away.just my point of view.but to get back to just wanting sex,a warm wash clothe afterwords would be nice,hahaahaha  | |
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| Are there any men out there who isn't just looking for sex? Posted: 8/28/2005 9:28:42 PM | Realistically we are all looking for sex. But that may not necessarily be all we want. Some men only want that, but then again, some women only want that too. So it is a case by case basis.
Personally, I will not have sex with someone I just met. Sex can kill you if you aren't careful. I don't know about other POF's but, I like to live to procreate on another day. Don't know, maybe that is just me? | |
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| Are there any men out there who isn't just looking for sex? Posted: 8/28/2005 11:52:58 PM | I can't believe there are only three pages on this thread. The way guys carry on in most other threads I figured they be tripping over each other to be first in line to denounce their libidos. "No, no, I"m a eunich - I don't want sex, I just want to watch Oprah with you all day long" LOL Hmmm, let's see? If I didn't want sex, I'd go hang out with my friends. Of course I want sex, that is why I am on a dating site in the first place. This thread is a fantastic way to weed out the undesireables - any guy who tells you he isn't interested in sex is either lying or actually NOT interested in sex? Do you really want either of these kind of men? Whatever? | |
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| Are there any men out there who isn't just looking for sex? Posted: 8/29/2005 12:13:56 AM | Of course I want sex, that is why I am on a dating site You are a trip. No pic. What do you expect women to do, have sex with you, because of your stunning wit? Who are you hiding from? You don't impress me, with your brash, rapid fire postings. Why would you assume, that any woman would be impressed? You made five postings, on five different threads, in the last fifteen minutes. I am not looking for sex. I go with women that want me. And that's the truth!
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| Are there any men out there who isn't just looking for sex? Posted: 8/29/2005 12:44:29 AM | Aww ExciteableBoy you're making me blush. I've never had anyone follow me around the forum timing my "brash, rapid-fire postings"...that's pretty cool - do you think the mods will give me a trophy? As for the comments about my "stunning wit"....duh, that is exactly correct! Many women do respond to intelligence and wit, you nailed it right on the head. My pic is my concern and this isn't the first time you've assaulted me with your impotent barbs, in fact any time I call you on your bullshit, you froth at the mouth and stamp your feet calling me all sorts of insults for not posting a pic....and you don't have one yourself? I swear I nearly wet myself laughing at your audacity! Surely you are not Beealzeebub? The Lord of the Flies himself? LOL You are precious, don't ever change!  | |
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| Are there any men out there who isn't just looking for sex? Posted: 8/29/2005 1:19:42 AM | Lets get down to brass tacks. Now people both male and female have this over whelming drive to reproduce so sex figures in whether you want to admit or not. Does it have to be end all end no! So you have sex on the brain just don't want to admit it. Other wise you wouldn't be here . | |
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