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| Are there any men out there who isn't just looking for sex?
Posted: 8/31/2005 9:00:52 AM |
^^Then why are you searching for dating and not friends or hanging out?
Not knocking your personal preferences at all, just curious as I thought that sex does eventually come into play at 'some' point in dating...unless you're a no sex b4 marriage kind of person.
If we could check more than one, I'd check hanging out and friends as well as dating, but with just one, I found it hard to choose. I picked dating because I'm thinking of it as platonic dating, the one-on-one structure of dating just without the sex, rather than as hanging out with a friend, which seems less structured and could be more than two people and so on. But I could have tried listing it as friends or hanging out instead of dating. | |
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| Are there any men out there who isn't just looking for sex?
Posted: 8/31/2005 9:31:13 AM | Women need foundations for sex.
Men need sex for foundations.
ABSOLUTELY not true! I'm a hetersexual guy who wants to have a commited relationship with a girl and the best way I have found is to start with a good foundation. The real women know the real deal and I have no qualms about getting to know a girl before I start getting sexual.
It doesnt take a whole lot of rocket science to have great sex but it does take a good foundation to have a truly amazing relationship that has truly amazing sex as part of it.
Yes, we are out there but you need to keep your heart open to whats around you and listen with your intuition.
A guy who settles for short term sex goals does not even realize the potential he has within himself for something better. | |
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| Are there any men out there who isn't just looking for sex?
Posted: 8/31/2005 9:55:10 AM | BUT, on the converse side MOST women are naturally programmed since birth by their family and society to make sure men have ZERO sexual thoughts about them and to not even allow a man to get into that realm of thought or conversation without reprimand by her. What they forget themselves is that THEY are and the men they talk to, sexual creatures.
Its the man that gets past this programmed barrier of natural resistence thats has the best chance of being the type of guy that will trigger feelings and emotions she didnt realze she could allow herself to feel. Now wouldnt that be a nice feeling? Actually experienceing something deep down inside she has longed for all her life but never knew how to express it.
Imagine if you were this type of girl and he was this type of guy? How much would you be begging him for sex with you to experience these emotions? Not even sex just being together would be enough. My how the tables would be turned =) | |
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| Are there any men out there who isn't just looking for sex?
Posted: 8/31/2005 10:11:28 AM |
^^^^^^^if a guy doesn't want sex they think theres something wrong with em and if they do want sex there just perverts can't win for loseing.
I dont think thats it at all because your equating one type of man with another type of man and the woman isnt even a part fo this above equation. It makes it sound like women don't want sex or even initiate sex or like to have sex all the time. This is only true if the guy does not know how to bring out this part of her to alllow her to be this free.
Common untrue facts:
1) Women arent sexual
2) Women dont like sex
3) Women don't initiate sex
4) Women don't think about sex all the time
Now if your a guy that has the ability to naturally bring out these traits with a women then how can this possibly be true? If she is the one initiating the sex and wants it all the time and wants to be sexual then its the man that can say the converse. | |
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| Are there any men out there who isn't just looking for sex?
Posted: 8/31/2005 4:33:03 PM | also said this:Lets get down to brass tacks. Now people both male and female have this over whelming drive to reproduce so sex figures in whether you want to admit or not. Does it have to be end all end NO! So you have sex on the brain just don't want to admit it. Other wise you wouldn't be here  . | |
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| Are there any men out there who isn't just looking for sex?
Posted: 8/31/2005 5:00:36 PM | | Maybe a bigger issue is how men represent themselves on this site. Something to be said for those who disclose their desires forthrightly, VS, those who disguise their agenda with platitudes of looking for long term relationships, etc. | |
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| Are there any men out there who isn't just looking for sex?
Posted: 8/31/2005 5:02:46 PM | how about we hook up the male sex fiends with the female sex fiends
never happens that way.....LOL
the men actually are just more upfront about sex...the women like to be sly about it!!! :)
observations from a chat room standpoint, not a dating site view. | |
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| Are there any men out there who isn't just looking for sex?
Posted: 8/31/2005 5:41:44 PM |
also said this:Lets get down to brass tacks. Now people both male and female have this over whelming drive to reproduce so sex figures in whether you want to admit or not. Does it have to be end all end NO! So you have sex on the brain just don't want to admit it. Other wise you wouldn't be here .
its not a matter of "wanting" sex, I "want" sex with 80% of the women I see. the question is are you LOOKING for it. just because I "want" sex does not mean I'll presue it. I have a brain, and it's more powerful then my crotch, I'm not going to go out there and find a woman just to have sex with her. I'm here looking for friends and maybe more, NOT for sex. you guys who ARE here just looking for sex and lie about it, should not be here. you only cause heartbreak and pain. | |
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| Are there any men out there who isn't just looking for sex?
Posted: 8/31/2005 5:49:28 PM | to add...
you people just looking for sex are discusting. casual sex is disgusting. not only are you using the other person for enjoyment, they are using you. not only that, but you are using the other person's most private parts to seek your jollies. just because your both using eachother does NOT make it right. All you guys who claim that ALL guys think this way are weak minded, because obviously your penis controls you, not the other way around. you guys dont deserve a woman, because you dont respect them. you make me sick. just sick. I hope all the women on this site read this thread and know who you are, so they know who to avoid. its people like you on sites like this that ruin it for everyone else. | |
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| Are there any men out there who isn't just looking for sex?
Posted: 8/31/2005 7:28:51 PM | well yea i would have to agree all u guys out there just looking for sex its so wrong i think there is alot more to a relationship then just sex i mean get control of yourself and i bet your relationships will go alot farther thats my answer and yes im single | |
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| Are there any men out there who isn't just looking for sex?
Posted: 8/31/2005 7:52:08 PM | Back to page 1: And I know I'm coming in late here! Forgive me for not being online all the time but... I believe if bunny were a man, you would have said yes you are a whore...
And I don't always look for sex first. Sometimes foreplay by itself is a bigger turn-on. | |
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| Are there any men out there who isn't just looking for sex?
Posted: 8/31/2005 9:24:45 PM | | There aren't dear. Not one. This may be difficult to adjust to and I understand the impact it must have on you. I'd like to tell you however that I have all manner of sedatives from mild to coma inducing and along with massive quantities of alcohol you just might get past my horrid looks and find that sex with trolls can be a most pleasant experience. I find that trivial foundations with sex on the brain types can be quite satisfying. | |
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| Are there any men out there who isn't just looking for sex?
Posted: 8/31/2005 9:53:11 PM | It is so amusing to see all the men claim they are looking for long term commited relationships. Not a soul will cop to wanting a one nighter.
And then the ladies post about meeting guys from POF who had sex and dumped them... or men who post about how they had sex on the first date (another thread).
Why don't you guys have the balls to just admit that you're hornedogs.
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| Are there any men out there who isn't just looking for sex?
Posted: 8/31/2005 10:59:00 PM | Amen to that, vwoman. Send some my way.
Hey, what's wrong with wanting a "friend with benefits". What's wrong with wanting sex? I don't want a husband or a father for my child, I want to go out and enjoy some adult company and maybe get it on without the pressure of a label. I don't want to meet another set of parents/friends/ex's/kids, I want someone for me.
So guess what I get? I get yet MORE labels for wanting what a lot of men (not all) have wanted for a long time. You would think that it would be easy to find men willing to engage in a relationship like this. Newsflash, uuuh uuuh.
I think POF should have a "friends with benefits" dating preference.
So bring on the tramp comments. I'm just saying what I want out in the open, unlike so many people on here. | |
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| Are there any men out there who isn't just looking for sex?
Posted: 9/1/2005 12:49:24 AM | are you calling me a liar?
I dont care about the rest of you a**holes, I dont just want sex. you guys can keep going around only wanting sex, but I dont. if I run into a girl who only wants sex, I'll show her where the door is. | |
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