| Are there any men out there who isn't just looking for sex?
Posted: 9/1/2005 12:31:43 PM | @letssizzle...thanks. Glad you noticed the glaring the truth. "Try Honesty" indeed...not only a wicked song but a great philosophy too.
@fashionable....perhaps you should actually read a thread before condemning everyone? There are more than a couple of us who don't have a problem being totally straightforward and honest in here. Some people "can't handle the truth" but others recognize it and value it. Sort of an "it takes one to know one" type of thing. Open your eyes and you might be amazed?
@Pellaken....you contradict yourself and then insult others....it's like you hate yourself for what you are yet you are trying to be honest about it? You've already admitted to wanting sex, you are here in a dating site, you aren't out their seeking friendships from men are you? Sex is a part of what you are about, you've already told us so. "Just sex"? Is there such a thing? Would it even be "Just sex" with prostitute? I'm not sure but I seriously doubt there are many people looking for "just sex" in here.
"Come on over to my house and stick your penis through the mail slot.....thanks that was good, come again please" I don't think so.
The vast majority of us are here for the same thing and sex is a part of that - it's ridiculous to deny it. | |
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| Are there any men out there who isn't just looking for sex?
Posted: 9/1/2005 9:51:41 PM | the first post:
If such a man exists please come forward, I would like to talk to you. I firmly believe that in order to have sex with someone, there must be a foundation to it first. I don't believe in trivial sex and so far most of the men I have run into seem to have sex on the brain.
no such man exists. and I'll tell you why. because the men who truly do not want just sex are made fun of, callied liars, and not beleived. Women dont look for men who truly dont want just sex, they want guys who do want sex. any man who does not just want sex, gets tired and frusrtated and either turns gay, or turns bitter and gives up till they are 40. | |
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| Are there any men out there who isn't just looking for sex?
Posted: 9/2/2005 12:03:54 AM | | ALL PEOPLE HAVE A DESIRE TO HAVE SEX WEATHER YOU WANT TO ADMIT OR NOT SEX WILL COME INTO IT SOME WHERE AND THATS FOR BOTH SEX'S OR SHOULD I SAY ALL SEX'S IF YOUR HERE TO MEET THE OPPOSITE SEX THEN SEX HAS TO COME IN IT AT SOME POINT. | |
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| Are there any men out there who isn't just looking for sex?
Posted: 9/2/2005 12:30:38 AM | | I GO OUT WITH A LADY WHO ON OUR SECOND DATE SHE GOT SCARED I WAS TRYING TO GET INTO HER PANTS ALL BECAUSE I PUT MY HAND ON HER KNEE AS WE WATCHED A MOVIE THE DATE ENDED FAST BUT AFTER A FEW DAYS WE TALKED ABOUT WHAT WAS WRONG ON THE DATE AT THAT TIME SHE ADMITTED THAT SHE HAD BOUGHT CONDOMS THAT DAY JUST IN CASE NOW I STILL GO OUT SOMETIMES WITH THIS LADY THERE HASN'T BEEN ANY SEX. BUT WOULD I HAVE SEX WITH HELL YES I WOULD IS IT THE MOST IMPORTANT THING NO. by THE WAY SHE HAS BEEN SEXLESS FOR THE LAST 10 YEARS because SHE WAS GROSSLY OVER WEIGHT AND NOW SHE IS SLIM DUE TO GASTRIC BY PASS SURGERY.DO I HAVE SEX ON THE BRAIN YES BUT ITS NOT THE END ALL NO .DO I HAVE TO HAVE IT NO WHEN I'M IN A RELATIONSHIP DO I LOOK OUT SIDE THAT RELATIONSHIP FOR SEX NO .DO THE WORDS CONSENTING ADULTS MEAN ANYTHING. | |
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| Are there any men out there who isn't just looking for sex?
Posted: 9/2/2005 4:32:01 AM | i think i am a guy who is not looking for sex, cos i need to know u very well b4 we indulge in that. that does not mean that to save our relationship we wont have sex, becos 90 percent of the girls out there will want to pick a handsome guy like me for sex and if the one i trust cant give it to me, for how long will i endure the pressures, do think about that then post me. | |
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| Are there any men out there who isn't just looking for sex?
Posted: 9/5/2005 6:31:53 AM | I think some of you clowns lost focus on the question at hand. The answer is YES, there are men out here looking for more than just sex! 
I've seen some of you have mentioned it already. We are all inclinded to look for sex in a relationship, eventually. If not, then why are we even here? I think the point of the question was that are there men out here willing to build a relationship first. That goes for you ladies out there as well.
Those seeking sex first have no respect or regard for themselves or any other person and that is not conducive to a long lasting relationship. | |
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| Are there any men out there who isn't just looking for sex?
Posted: 9/5/2005 7:05:57 AM | | OK. Maybe I'm old fashioned but I am not looking only for sex. I really want a meaningful relationship. Sure, sex is important in a relationship but it's only one thing. And it's a great thing among all the other qualities that make for a great relationship. | |
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| Are there any men out there who isn't just looking for sex?
Posted: 9/5/2005 7:07:36 AM |
BUT, on the converse side MOST women are naturally programmed since birth by their family and society to make sure men have ZERO sexual thoughts about them and to not even allow a man to get into that realm of thought or conversation without reprimand by her. What they forget themselves is that THEY are and the men they talk to, sexual creatures. Its the man that gets past this programmed barrier of natural resistence thats has the best chance of being the type of guy that will trigger feelings and emotions she didnt realze she could allow herself to feel. Now wouldnt that be a nice feeling? Actually experienceing something deep down inside she has longed for all her life but never knew how to express it.
I don't think women are as sexually repressed as you seem to think so. And I certainly don't think it takes "the right guy" to trigger certain feelings and emotions in her that she "didn't realize she could allow herself to feel." This isn't the 50s you know. Women are well in tune with their sexuality these days. I know I am.
What I take issue with is and I think what the OP is trying to get at is that it seems most men want ONLY sex and nothing else. They are so incredibly shallow and superficial and seems their only priority is getting their****stroked, and it's wham, bam, thank you, ma'am, and getting on with their own sets of priorities. It's all about "me, me, me" and to hell with how a woman feels or what her priorities may be. Men just want a cheap and easy POA and don't want to be held accountable for anything. They don't want to get off their lazy asses and tear themselves away from the football game or the Playboy Channel long enough to do what it takes to make the effort to have a good woman in his life. All he is focused on is sex, sex, sex. It's pathetic and really kind of humorous, too. Fortunately, there are, I think, SOME men who are "real men" who are willing to work and struggle for what real priorities in life should be, which is having someone to share your life with and love and respect and grow old with, not someone to use just as a sperm depository.
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| Are there any men out there who isn't just looking for sex?
Posted: 9/5/2005 7:15:51 AM | | Where on Earth are people finding all of these selfish, sperm-bloated, sex-crazed, fiendish men? Either they're some really good actors or women just don't see it when they date them, because I see couples all around me. And I'm talking _couples_, like people with plans and stuff. Maybe some of the other posts on here are right and I should change my outlook. Is "looking for sex" the criterion for finding a woman to spend time with to try and build a relationship? Or, is it that only the poor lost, disenfranchised single men are the ones looking for more? | |
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| Are there any men out there who isn't just looking for sex?
Posted: 9/5/2005 9:08:57 AM | Feral, are you kidding? They're everywhere. The vast majority of men I've encountered in "real life" have made it quite clear that all they want is a POA and on the Internet? HA! Some 95% of the emails/IMs I get start out by saying "Nice tits" or something along those lines. Well, some of them do say "hi" first. A lot of those men who are a part of a "couple" are the very men who are out looking to get some on the side. (Disclaimer: no, I'm not saying all are). But I've sure been approached a LOT by married or otherwise "committed" men.
I see the posts by men who claim this isn't true of them, but I've yet to find any whom I would share like interests with, who are looking for something besides a quick and easy lay. Don't get me wrong; it's nice to be desired, but without the commitment that should go along with that, it gets really old after a while. | |
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| Are there any men out there who isn't just looking for sex?
Posted: 9/5/2005 3:29:42 PM | | Are they any men who arnt looking for sex? actrualy there are a few not many because most are to immature and think with the wrong part of the body,they havent learned that there is more to a relationship then just sex.As most guys get older we find that sex isnt the basis for everything,does that mean we will say NO if the oppertunity presents itself, probaly not, beleive it or not right now im not looking for sex im looking for compaionship, and romance, sex would just be the bonus if it happens if it doesnt no big deal that jsut my opinion and no im not lieing | |
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