| Are there any men out there who isn't just looking for sex?
Posted: 9/17/2005 3:12:25 PM | | sorry to say legend, but all men have sex on the brain, if they tell you anything different...they're lying. the best guy is the honest guy who will tell you upfront that he wants to have sex with you. i'm always honest, i never mislead them into sex. the typical line guys say is "lets hang out and be just friends" then while your out with him, he try rubbing on your ass, then you ask "what are you doing?" he'd say...."oh i thought it was cool" | |
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| Are there any men out there who isn't just looking for sex?
Posted: 9/17/2005 8:11:36 PM | Lets get down to brass tacks. Now people both male and female have this over whelming drive to reproduce so sex figures in whether you want to admit or not. Does it have to be end all end no! So you have sex on the brain just don't want to admit it.  Other wise you wouldn't be here | |
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| Are there any men out there who isn't just looking for sex?
Posted: 9/18/2005 6:28:46 AM | | all men have sex on the brain? that's not true....there are some gentlemen out there like myself. not everyone i have met, i had sex with. i have not had sex in two years now and it's very normal. i'm looking for the right guy or gal to spend the rest of my life with..... not some cheap sex fling. if i wanted just sex, i certainly wouldnt be here....due to the simple fact that most here say, they can't find sex at this site. people who are constantly looking for sex or have sex on their minds all the time, are just plain sex addicts. | |
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sal999
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Joined: 9/9/2005
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| Are there any men out there who isn't just looking for sex?
Posted: 9/18/2005 10:04:11 AM | I think the younger "boys" are just looking to get their rocks off. Some of us are actually looking for a real relationship and do not think sex is going to bring it to us. Trust, communication and a strong sense of REALITY are things needed for a relationship. I can go get laid anytime I want, but is she the one to spend my life with? NO
Sex is a very personal thing, when looking for your partner, the sex can wait! How about some time to learn about each others likes and dislikes. Sex does not make the world go around, It greases the hell outta the axle, but not the main requirment for a relationship. | |
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pepy
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Joined: 9/7/2005
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| Are there any men out there who isn't just looking for sex?
Posted: 9/20/2005 12:37:36 PM | | I'd much rather find someone I could spend time with and get on with, sex usually comes later but I've met people I could've been with and sex not play a part... until they had to return back to their home country because they failed their exams *sob* | |
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| Are there any men out there who isn't just looking for sex?
Posted: 2/21/2006 10:11:35 AM | | I think that is totally unfair to assume that most of the men here are just looking for sex. Sex is a very emotionally and powerful thing. I don't approach it lightly, nor do I go about having sex with just anyone. I've never gone out and picked someone up at a bar or even tried to. It is an ultimate expression of love between two people and I don't think that everyone goes about having sex just for the sake of having it. Of course there are some that are like that on here, that's just par for the course. To assume that every guy on here is like that though is just wrong. That would be like assuming every woman on here is a prude, or a golddigger looking for a guy with money. I have noticed there are some really great people on here, some that I would enjoy just talking to or hanging out with, but I don't want to have sex with all of them. | |
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| Are there any men out there who isn't just looking for sex?
Posted: 2/21/2006 11:02:00 AM | Of course there are. I know, because I'm one of them. However.... while sex certainly isn't the only thing I'm looking for, it is one of the things I'm looking for - and as soon as sex is mentioned, the result is a sneering "That's the only thing you men think about."
Reading through this thread, it becomes clear that this is a common problem. The trouble isn't only with guys who just want sex, it's with women who refuse to believe that any man doesn't just want sex. If a man wants sex any time, they claim that he wants it all the time.
If some women would drop the self-righteous arrogance, and treat us with the same respect you want to be shown, and many men will surprise you. | |
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| Are there any men out there who isn't just looking for sex?
Posted: 2/22/2006 7:57:27 PM | | hey im not here just to get some sex though it would be nice to finally get some, but i would much rather be with someone for a month or 2 just so you can build up some sort of a relationship plus then i wouldn't feel so nervous. I dont want to turn out like most of my friends who just go out to get laid and end up having kids with someone they don't really even know. | |
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| Are there any men out there who isn't just looking for sex?
Posted: 2/22/2006 10:43:12 PM | OK ledgend326
You asked for someone to come forward on this post.I believe that there does have to be a foundation first. As you can read from my other threads that this is what i believe.It is the way i was brought up with good morals values. We are not all animals or pigs.Everyone person is their own individual. No one is the same even if you are a twin.No person is the same as the other.I save myself for the one that i want to spend the rest of my life with.
I would expect the same from my soul mate. Why would i want to give that person STD.
Don't you think i would deserve the same from my soul mate ? Ask anyone here how many sexual relationships they have been in. I think the answers would already be pretty much the same as the answers you have already received.If you would like to write me, to see what makes me "tic" that is up to you, but there are many factors involved, in who i would want to spend the rest of my life with,and i am very, very picky.I hope too, if you do write me it is not with the assumption that i am asking you for a date, because i am not.It is only that i came forward,and that i am here to answer any questions you may have.  | |
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