| Do men ever fall for BBW?
Posted: 3/27/2007 12:27:25 PM | | at 6'3'' 245 lbs im no small man. but remember every one has there own tastes in what they want. myself i only date the smaller type ladys...never have or never will date a stocky lady. but have alot of friends who are stocky...dont worry ladys your mans out there some where. | |
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| Do men ever fall for BBW?
Posted: 3/29/2007 1:57:39 PM | Absolutely men can fall for BBW's... As for me, if a lady feels good about herself and lets it show, then her weight becomes irrelevant. "Attractive" has nothing to do with weight, and neither does "Sexy". It's your aura that makes you attractive, if that makes sense. Some of the sexiest women I've ever met were BBW's, and I have also met some skinny girls who were real losers. Take heart, he is out there for you  | |
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| Do men ever fall for BBW?
Posted: 3/29/2007 2:37:40 PM | To who it may concern:
I find that it is possible to fall in love with a BBW and to have a open mind and heart too. I love BBW's for several reasons. I feel that BBW's are very sexy, sassy, more mature, they can be very dominant when they have to be, and they make better lovers in bed i think.
I think alot of people may not agree with me but that is how i feel inside.
Thank You,
Eric Carhart Jr. | |
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| Do men ever fall for BBW?
Posted: 4/3/2007 9:09:12 PM | I find that that there are more BBW's than there are men that are attracted to them.
I am of a similar mind as Big Russ that I am not attracted to overweight women.
But I find women are the same way, yet in a different manner, because they discriminate based on height, teeth and facial hair.
So before I get flamed by all you BBW's out there who think I should "look inside" at the real person, think about how you automatically discount men because of certain characteristics. | |
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| Do men ever fall for BBW?
Posted: 4/3/2007 11:29:34 PM | | To be totally honesty and blunt....No they don't. I mean, yeah on some occasions they do but most men will choose the slimmer females. That's just the cold hard truth. No offense to the BBW of course. But I must say this, the BBW that I know are more down to Earth and real that you can ever imagine. They are what most guys want and it's sad to see that they are ignored due to the fact that they weigh more than some women. | |
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| Do men ever fall for BBW?
Posted: 4/4/2007 8:41:35 AM | Nope. It'll never happen.
A big part of relationships between men and women is physical Eros. God made it this way.
Problem = weight.
Solution = 1) Either be a wimp and give up 2) Get mean and lean and live the life you were born to live. | |
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| Do men ever fall for BBW?
Posted: 4/4/2007 12:27:34 PM | | I think that there are many men that could and do love a BBW. The real problem is that most BBW don't love themselves. If you don't love yourself and do not show everyone how wonderful you are...no one will be interested in you. | |
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| Do men ever fall for BBW?
Posted: 4/4/2007 12:39:46 PM | | to be honest I think it all depends on the woman and her attitude because some say they want this and that when actuallity loves has no color age size limit itall depends on two individual who are adult enough and understand one another | |
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| Do men ever fall for BBW?
Posted: 4/4/2007 12:48:18 PM | here is a link you may be able to use darlin, good luck.
http://www.bbwpersonalsplus.com | |
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| Do men ever fall for BBW?
Posted: 5/10/2007 4:43:12 PM | i love your answer buddy....being a BBW has sure held me back at times...but I'm a very attractive lady who carries herself well and get many complements on my looks especially my big brown eyes.....so yes we too can fall in love and its not about the size but only real men know that.....thanks again.....
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Posted: 5/13/2007 3:12:21 AM | | Your wish is my comand!!! lol I live in Fort Worth, TX and yes i'm bbw. Want to find out more about me then ,,,, Reply | |
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| Do men ever fall for BBW?
Posted: 5/13/2007 4:06:35 AM | | I'm a BBW as well, and I guess we all know there are definitely many men who aren't interested when you hit a certain weight (otherwise we wouldn't be talking about!) However, I've actually discovered that it's ok to rule those guys out. I'd rather have someone who is looking for more than just the packaging. I have to tell you that the person who talked about BBW's having their own hang ups probably is right to a certain extent. I had an extremely gorgeous man interested in me once (by all media standards he could have been a model I'd say) Anyway, he flirted with me and did everything but hit me over the head to let me know he was interested. I often thought he was flirting with me BUT I was positive that I must be crazy because why would a gorgeous guy like that be interested in 'someone like me'........After this experience, I realized that there are men out there who do like bigger women and/or men who are attracted to what's on the inside. If they like your personality, then the rest comes with time I guess. Here's the thing...you have to like who you are fat or thin. I'm working on my weight (aren't we all?) but I'll never be thin. I just don't think it's in my genetics. You don't have to lose weight though to get your hair done. Treat yourself. Work with what you've got and make yourself feel good. You do deserve it. We all deserve to be happy. The right man is out there !! | |
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| Do men ever fall for BBW?
Posted: 5/13/2007 4:10:28 AM | | Yes,Yes and yes we do and after viewing your pic , I am surprised that you have had no luck.Please contact me if you want to feel real | |
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Posted: 5/13/2007 7:01:39 AM | In my early 20s I was most definately a BBW and here lately I've lost a lot of weight and I guess don't fit into that category anymore. I have to say - I got hit on A LOT more before. My friends say it's because I'm too "intimidating" now but I think it's a load of crap. I don't know what it is, but I do know that YES, men do fall for BBWs and yes, a lot of them are jerks, but there are a lot of great guys out there who like BBWs. If you can't find one here, try some of the great BBW communities out there - you'll find supportive friends and some smokin' hot guys who can't get enough of the chubbiness.
Good Luck and God Bless!
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Posted: 6/6/2007 12:45:09 PM | | YES,I KNOW I HAVE,I DONT THINK IT MATTERS,I DO PERFER CURVES,BUT ITS HOW A WOMAN CARRYS HERSELF,I HAVE DATED SKINNY TO HEAVY SET,REGARDLESS OF SIZE,HAVIN FUN WITH WHAT YA GOT IS IT,SEXY IS SEXY IN ANY SIZE. | |
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Posted: 6/6/2007 5:52:53 PM | | i used to date miduim size women or thing! all of the sudden i strated dating bigger women and i mostly date thick women all sizes! im atracted to bog booty womem with all do respect! some women use that term of BBW but some women are big only in the tummy and noe butt and no boobs most man are not atracted to that type of women . im one of them. sorry for the coment did not meant to offend anybody in any form or shape, that is just i've dated some very beautiful big women and when i say big i mean it. just remember that there are people with all kind of prefernces and yes there are a lot of men out there who fall for BBW. | |
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Posted: 6/6/2007 5:57:54 PM | | and my typing skills are not that great! now the problem is that now some BBW only want to date fit man. what about us the average joe's | |
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Posted: 6/7/2007 7:42:21 AM | To kokopellij ....
I understand, I'm 6' tall, not a real BBW but sometimes labeled as one. I get alot of emails from 'young', foreign or short men but....I prefer someone as tall or taller.
I was told I shouldn't have a preference since I was...'over-weight'....can you believe?!
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Posted: 6/12/2007 5:18:34 PM | After reading several BBW threads I felt like I had to comment on one of them! First of all, I'm a BBW! I'm a fiery redhead with ivory skin and green/hazel eyes ... and I think I'm the hottest woman on the planet! I'm educated, can outsing most female recording artists today and have a heart of gold. I'm a decent writer and have been told I should go into comedy! I can laugh at myself, inspite of myself! I guess the best way to describe me physically is I'm an "oversized hourglass" ... in other words, I'm heavy but my measurements are proportionate. I'm not a BBW because I sit on my butt all day, watching soap operas, fantasizing about some buff guy, eating bon-bons and whining about how life has given me the shaft! I'm a BBW because, since I was a small child, I've had some health issues that require medication ... one of those being Prednisone, which is a steriod ... that make it impossible to ever be thin and live a pain free life. It's one or the other so I choose pain free! I eat healthy foods, chicken/turkey, fish (when I can force it down because I'm not a big fan of seafood), fresh fruits and veggies, and when I feel the need to have something sweet, it's usually a single scoop of lite or fat free ice cream or sugar free pudding. I have a 70 pound dog that takes me for a mile walk twice a day ... and when I get him outside I better be ready to run!
That being said ..... YES! Men can fall in love/be attracted to heavier women. It's all about preferences! Some men are born to love thin women and that's OK! Other men are born to love heavy women and that's OK, too! Just as we women have certain criteria we use to "screen" men, they have criteria they look for in us. Most of my girlfriends have a certain "type" they look for in a mate: My BBW friend simply loves the big, teddy bear cowboys and would not hear of dating a short, thin man. My sister, who is about a size 5, is attracted to short, preppy, cleancut guys who wear glasses and is turned off by muscled up gym boys. While I would like to think I don't have a "type" I've always leaned towards the bad boys ... bikers, musicians, rogue cowboys ... you know! The kind of guy your mother would cringe at if you brought home!  Still, if a guy is kind, considerate, generous, honest, has a good heart and can MAKE ME LAUGH, I'll go out with him! If he's not my "type" and I don't accept the date, I may be missing out on the guy that is my perfect match! I don't want to take that risk ...
When the right man comes along ... and believe me, he will come along ... he will love you FOR EVERY PART OF YOU, INSIDE AND OUT, and will tell all his friends that you are the most beautiful woman on the planet. Yes, there has to be a physical attraction between two people but, reality is, we don't all agree on what is attractive. My idea of an extremely handsome man may be someone that you find repulsive. It's all a matter of individual preference. That's what makes us all great ... and different!
My former boyfriend (a LTR) was a GORGEOUS man! 6' tall, a VERY muscular 200 lbs, half Caucasian/quarter Hispanic/quarter Cherokee, long thick black hair, 1000 watt smile, tats (I love 'em .. can't help it), looked like he stepped right out of a "pretty boy hairband video" kinda guy! When we went out (we lived together, btw) he always held my hand or had his arm around me and strutted around like a peacock showing off his feathers! He told everyone I was the most beautiful woman he'd ever met and he was so lucky to have me! He treated me like a queen and I, in return, treated him like the king he was! It worked ... and it was amazing! Unfortunately, he passed away in February and I find myself just now starting to look again. After being treated the way he treated me, it's hard getting used to being told I'm a fat a$$ and no one will ever want me ... so I'm right there with you in the quest for a great man! I know I will find him and so will you! And to those who say all those ugly things, I just laugh it off and remember in my heart that karma will take care of them. Who knows? There may come a day when they decide they WANT to go out with me ... and what do you think I'm going to say then? LOL!! In the words of one of my favorite guys on this site, "Don't make someone a priority who only makes you an option!"
I guess I just took the long way of saying that YES ... there are men who fall for BBWs. They are REAL men who understand that if you judge someone by what's on the outside you're missing the real deal to begin with ... and it's your loss! Keep your chin up, keep being yourself and don't settle for less than what you deserve simply because some smart mouth tells you you're overweight so you should "take what you can get"! You're great!!! Good luck in your search and if you want a new BBW friend, email away!!
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Posted: 6/18/2007 11:38:11 PM | Hi my name is shayryn
yes i fall in this BBW stage..and you know i use to be upset and angry cause time and a bad marriage and just life in general let me get this way..and now it is hard to loose it..but i have come to realize that is we keep ourselves up in appearence and dress right with what our BBB can hold and wear we'll be ok..and just because we are not tiny hard body barbies as most men want..well all i can say is try us you might like us if given a chance.. we are softer.. sweetie.. and more loveable than anyone you could want are find.. and we can "keep you warm in the winter".."shaded in the summer"!!!!
6/19/07 shayryn smith
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| Do men ever fall for BBW?
Posted: 6/19/2007 12:07:02 AM | OH MY !#!**^!#* GOD!
Women,,,,women, women are beautifu,,,,, ahhhhh! Please allow me to regain my composure.
,,there , much better.
Big, beautiful women, have been worshipped since the begining of time! Hello! these ladies were worshipped thru art, poems and sculpture! Venus of Willendorph, anyone? Anyone? Beuller? Classic Greek Paintings. Songs! Hello! Fat bottom Girls, by Queen?? (fraction of samples, okay dont start with me)
To this day BBW are still worshipped, pleeeeeease! I respect your opinions about whether men do or dont. I do (dammit I do!) But for all to say,,,,
"sorry the real honest to goodness truth is that men like only thin women and its all about appearances". YOU ARE SO ABSOLUTELY WRONG!
Of course it is about appearances! Men love skinny and Large! My god, I love them both. God forgive me I love them both!
Just as there are beautiful ladies that love large men and tiny skinny men.
Forgive me. Much love to all!
Yes, even the ones that are SOOOOOOOOO WRONG ABOUT BBW.
No, you shut up have a drink with me! Yessssssss. | |
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| Do men ever fall for BBW?
Posted: 6/19/2007 7:25:00 PM | | i don't like skinny girls, i don't girls that are really big, but i will always pick a girl who has a meat on her bones to an anorexic little bimbo | |
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Posted: 6/20/2007 4:14:46 AM |
I'm a BBW! I'm a fiery redhead with ivory skin and green hazel eyes,,,
Hey! Dear beautiful lady.
"ONE-FIERY-RED-HEAD" ,,,Dear lady. You so have my full attention, adoration, respect and Oh my word,,,, my appreciation.
You are a lady..
A BBW...mmmmmmm. Ooops. forgive me! Lost my composure. | |
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| Do men ever fall for BBW?
Posted: 6/20/2007 6:01:42 AM | | Not to hijack this thread but can I say - Vangogh - you are delicious and I want to eat you with a spoon. | |
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