| Do men ever fall for BBW?
Posted: 7/1/2007 4:05:59 PM | | the one thing I have figured out.. and yes, it's cynical but who gives a dayum... is a lot ( not all)of men will have sex with you no matter what size you are as long as no one knows they did it. | |
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| Do men ever fall for BBW?
Posted: 7/1/2007 4:45:45 PM |
is a lot ( not all)of men will have sex with you no matter what size you are as long as no one knows they did it.
Maybe they would, but Tootsie isn't going to give them the opportunity for a sex only relationship. I don't play that game. Call me old fashioned, but sex is for people who truly care for one another and plan on being together longterm. | |
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| Do men ever fall for BBW?
Posted: 7/1/2007 7:02:15 PM | | *smiles* I guess ya'll couldnt hear the anger in my voice when I said that. I agree tootsie.. Im just sick of ah hell, who cares, im just tired of a lot of crap lately | |
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| Do men ever fall for BBW?
Posted: 7/2/2007 1:49:22 AM | Right up my alley. Making little tries at humor. Some fail.
Better to fall for a BBW than to have her fall on you.
(that's just plain wrong)
Seriously though, I've noticed along the way there are some men looking for just your type. I'm thinking it's a "turn on" deal. Big world. Lots of options. Again the tricky part. Finding them. GL. | |
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| Do men ever fall for BBW?
Posted: 7/11/2007 1:46:57 PM | IT IS NOT HARD AT ALL TO ATTRACT A MAN AS A BBW. I HAVE DATED VERY, VERY GOOD LOOKING MEN THAT DOES NOT LIKE A BARBIE GIRL. I THINK I AM ATTRACTIVE AND I HAVE A GREAT SEX APPEAL WICH IS ATTRACTIVE TO A MAN. THERE ARE ALOT OF MEN OUT THERE THAT ARE SECRETIVLY ATTRACTED TO A BBW BUT DONT WANT THEIR FRIENDS TO KNOW, IF U CANT BE URSELF THAN DONT BE ANYBODY...... | |
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| Do men ever fall for BBW?
Posted: 7/11/2007 2:59:41 PM | Okay, so personally I can answer this as a girl who has been both super tiny and a BBW. I have found that regardless of your weight, if you have confidence and view yourself as sexy, men will as well. I got hit on when I was a size 2. Now that I am a BBW, I get hit on even more because I realize who I am and that I am just fine this way. I'm striving to become thin again to be more healthy, but honestly, being a BBW has been a blast!
My only advice to you is to realize that you are an incredible and beautiful woman. When you realize that, men will too! ;) | |
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| Do men ever fall for BBW?
Posted: 7/12/2007 12:28:30 AM | i myself have never had a problem attracting men. regardless whether you are big or small, its your heart that counts. men love women that love them. i have had men stalk me, chase me, not want to let go of me. its what is on the inside.... | |
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| Do men ever fall for BBW?
Posted: 7/19/2007 8:32:00 AM | OP the answer is a resounding YESSSSS...have had my guy for 25 years and some before him and (not proud of it but...) some during and they all LOVED me for who i am not how i looked...i have seen on some sites where guys specifically want BBWS but not allowed to name such sites here ...Chin up OP...there is someone for you  | |
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RobbiM
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| Do men ever fall for BBW?
Posted: 7/25/2007 6:20:42 PM | | to answer the question....YES there are men out there that do like big girls! I used to think that " Oh my gawd, I'm gaining weight and getting bigger, nobody will ever look twice at me!" Then I grew up and learned it's not always about your looks. You have to keep a level head and have a great personality to go with all the extra weight! lol.. Yes, there are shallow guys out there that are looking for the itsy bitsy bean poles, but you have to stop and think about it for a minute, are they even worth your time and effort to make them take a glance at you? They're totally not even worth a second thought! and boo to them...honey, they just dont know how good bbw's loving is! and that's all i got to say to that! | |
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| Do men ever fall for BBW?
Posted: 7/28/2007 10:49:27 AM | | at one time or another iv dated all types. small to large, and must say it is very easy to fall for anyone. if the chemistry is right. after you get past the first impression stage and start to really get to know onenother thats were you see the real beauty. me i look for the face. for me thats were its at. if she has a face that just takes my breath. and wether its the first time or the hundreth. if i never tire of looking in her eyes. then the rest of the body just flows. because all there beauty inside and out will be right there in the eyes and lips . the rest is just a souviere....... wish you all the best...... trey | |
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| Do men ever fall for BBW?
Posted: 8/2/2007 11:07:42 AM | A lot of men can see the beauty of a BBW.I know I can see it because big women show more emotions than a small woman,which is a big attraction. | |
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RobbiM
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| Do men ever fall for BBW?
Posted: 8/3/2007 6:06:16 PM | | You hit the nail right on the head comedian! Not saying we're MORE emotional, as in a basket case, but we do know how to get our feelings out in the open lol! | |
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| Do men ever fall for BBW?
Posted: 8/6/2007 3:39:48 AM | let me get this straight. Small women are less emotional? Big women are more emotional?
I'm flabbergasted!
I thought all women in some degree have their own sensibilities that are, not complicated, but different from their own sisters of the "stonger sex"?!
So bigger women are more aroused? ,,,, exhibit more passion? ,,,, agitation?
,,,excitement? ,,,lay their case of emotionality than others?
I'm a novice. When it comes to the "stronger sex". All I know is that ladies big and small are more determined or actuated more emotionally than men.
But I had no idea that size of a lady makes a difference emotionally??!! I wonder if that applies to men as well (if its true). No wonder Santa Clause is always jolly!
I'm perplexed!! I gotta drink!
NO SANTA! You cannot have my milk and cookies! Thats for Mrs. Claus | |
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RobbiM
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Joined: 5/7/2006
Msg: 139 | |
| Do men ever fall for BBW?
Posted: 8/7/2007 3:08:24 PM | | ok ok..you took that to the EXTREME..completely twisted around everything i said, fortunately for you i'm at work and respond to the full extent that i'd like to. So I'll get on later on tonight at home and explain myself.. | |
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| Do men ever fall for BBW?
Posted: 8/7/2007 6:20:29 PM | ,,,heh,, LOL.
I'm so sorry. It was just an utterance intended to be taken as a humorous perspective.
A frivolous manner in my part. It was a gaiety outlook. I was having fun with "the Comedian 200" post. prior to yours. LOL... Much love.
A thousand apologies most beautiful lady.
No, need to explain yourself. But I would love to hear from you regardless. It'd be an honor.
I share all my Cookies & Milk with all big beautiful ladies.
heh, heh, heh, heh, heh, heh, heh, heh,heh,,,, | |
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RobbiM
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Joined: 5/7/2006
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| Do men ever fall for BBW?
Posted: 8/7/2007 8:46:23 PM | ,,,,Nice pics "Robbim"
,,yes indeed.
,,nice pics.
Definitely cookies & milk for you beautiful lady.
,,definitely.
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| Do men ever fall for BBW?
Posted: 8/7/2007 9:42:39 PM | Darlin' if you weren't so young, I would be so tempted. But to answer the question....do men fall for BBW's? Of course they do!
One thing you need to remember is, one date does not make a bf. You are under no obligation to go out with someone a 2nd time if you don't feel it. BBW's seem to have the attitude, well they like me so I should just stick with them!
Get some self confidence and live it up! Don't wait around for the men to come to you, be aggressive and send out some emails, what's the worse thing that could happen? Omigoodness, they don't respond! Their loss I guess!
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RobbiM
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Joined: 5/7/2006
Msg: 144 | |
| Do men ever fall for BBW?
Posted: 8/7/2007 9:59:17 PM | | nicely put nurse! and thank you Vangogh, you're too kind! oh and i love cookies! haha! | |
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| Do men ever fall for BBW?
Posted: 8/8/2007 10:04:07 AM | | i love BBW but they dont seem to like the older guys with 4 kids lol or maybe its just im getting ugly in my old age just cant seem to find one | |
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| Do men ever fall for BBW?
Posted: 8/8/2007 5:32:34 PM | Attitude sir. It is all about attitude. Confidence, determination. Walking with an air of self confidence will catch a lady's eye. Regardless of how many lovely children one has.
BBW ladies have a sensible heart to see that in a man. Ahh yes, they are so intuitive that they see a great attitude not to let it escape.
Much luck and love to you sir. Show your best and they will be impressed. | |
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| Do men ever fall for BBW?
Posted: 8/10/2007 5:40:12 PM | Something I've found is that there's being a fat girl, and then there's having a "fat girl" PERSONALITY.
Meaning: sometimes eating a lot of food is just eating a lot of food. Sometimes it's analogous to being a pig in every other arena of your life as well.
And sometimes a BBW is just a BW.
Now that I've pissed everyone off, let me give you the standard disclaimer: my best friend is what you would call a BBW. And she's awesome! Hell, I went on a roadtrip to Toronto with her a month ago, which meant I spent a week with her in a SCION.
The thing that makes a lot of fat girls unattractive has nothing to do with weight, shape, whatever. It's how many of them cannot sustain conversation without constantly drawing attention to their weight. Seriously, some BBW, it's all they talk about. I have a friend who USED to weigh 230 pounds and now weighs half that, but still seems like "the fat girl" just because she simply will not shut up about her weight neurosis. And I didn't even know her before she lost all the weight.
In sum, a lot of BBW "with a great personality", really don't have great personalities, and if someone doesn't like them, automatically assumes "it's because I'm fat", when really, just like anyone else, it can be because they're annoying, controlling, overbearing. confrontational (that's a big one), or otherwise difficult to get along with.
There really isn't any way to make all that sound nice, but it's true. | |
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RobbiM
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| Do men ever fall for BBW?
Posted: 8/13/2007 5:04:55 PM | ALLLLLRIGHTY THEN!! haha... no you didn't piss ME off, but i'm sure you have offended others by your response.. it sounds to me like you actually put some thought into what you wrote and that's great! I just have one quick thing to say about the part where you said "sometimes a BBW is just a BW" - I don't know whether you mean BW as in Beautiful Woman or BW in Big Woman...I took it as Big woman...and i totally disagree with that. Every woman is beautiful in her own special way..even though you don' t see it, doesn't mean that another guy will looked past it too...just means that she isn't your cup of tea, so to say. and i had this great big long speech to say about it, but lucky for you it's time to pass medication! haha.. soooo i will continue this later!! lol | |
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| Do men ever fall for BBW?
Posted: 8/13/2007 5:16:15 PM | I think lover_of_dark has it right. Seems wise for one so young. It is about attitude. I took what he meant of BW as Big Woman because that is what she portrays if that is all she feels about her self. Now if you feel beautiful regardless of size that feeling surrounds you and emits little lights of emotion to men. They then read you as beautiful. I can prove that on any given day. I can be all business and boring or I can flirt a little...well.. maybe more than a little. I am a shameless flirt .
My point is on the days that I am bubbly and happy and whether I am flirting seriously or not, I get attention. On days that I am all business and not so flirty and bubbly, the responses I get are all business.
You recieve what you put out. Feel beautiful and you are. Feel dowdy and you will be. And that's the truth!
Now on to some serious  | |
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| Do men ever fall for BBW?
Posted: 8/13/2007 10:00:10 PM | Yes Men do fall for BBW's !
I have been full figured all my adult life, and married my weight has never been a problem . Personality, temperament and being good hearted attracts a decent person..
Generally people who have lived life obese have faced unique struggles and rejection based on their appearance that the popular figures never encounter .
Because of this they develop a personality and a sense of humor and inner strength to deal with attacks on self esteem .
They learn about living with the spirit that resides in them and get in touch with themselves. in a sense they have done the inner work in side to become a complete person, in this they tap into the passion they own and express them selves differently .
Indeed every one is different we cannot generally say all one type of body type is one way or another.
A lot of people who embrace another for who they are, and not what they look like have discovered that person is wonderful , has unique gifts to share in ways that cannot compare to any experience they have ever known before.
And truly that's what all people aspire too..to be loved for who they are . | |
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