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| Is foreplay as important as you get older ?
Posted: 12/15/2006 6:40:03 PM | "Altered_Ego"
My response was not rude.
It ticks me off when I start a thread and people don't read the WHOLE thing before they comment.
I was talking "physically" needing foreplay, like I did when I was younger.
Never did I say I didn't love it.....or want it...the question was physically needing it before sex.
I can have an orgasm now, from a quickie, when I was younger, never could, actually I couldn't even have an orgasm just from intercourse.
It took alot of foreplay.
I think what it boils down to.....from reading some of the responses, is that as we get older, we know our bodies better, know what we want.....as well as one poster said, if you're into your man enough....his presense if foreplay. You're physically ready for him anytime anywhere.
Like I commented, I prefer foreplay as "after" play. I dont have sex, roll over and go to sleep. I love to linger..explore......tease, keep it going even after the/his orgasms are done.
Just me.....
Sexually abused ? omg... you call my comment rude ? | |
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| Is foreplay as important as you get older ?
Posted: 12/15/2006 8:36:21 PM | >>Correct me if I'm wrong...<<
No correction needed, and you did use that nice little word "generally". Foreplay is not only the physical action, but the mind's anticipation as well. Sure, quickies are great and have their own form of orgasmic pleasure. But 'generally' speaking *grin* if there's extended foreplay......there tends to be extended pleasure as well.
A grab, a rub, a poke......um, yeah. Like that'll do it for getting someone all hot and steamy for you - NOT. Foreplay has become more important as I get older - giving and receiving, because I LIKE to take the time to really, really enjoy the entire experience. Not just "do it". | |
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| Is foreplay as important as you get older ?
Posted: 12/15/2006 9:09:31 PM | Oh yes,it is still very important.Loving foreplay with that special man,then more loving play in the middle and yes heaps more after. The change I have noticed is that,I enjoy oral sex on me even more after my man has been there  I am heaps more aroused by then.....and love to give him more also,just love the taste. | |
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| Is foreplay as important as you get older ?
Posted: 12/17/2006 10:44:58 AM | | When i eat let's say .... chiken wingz . i take my time 2 savor the juices. When i eat ..... Honey , i think ov wow long it took thoze beez 2 make it. When i eat " puzzy " i think bout how many licks duz it take 2 get 2 the center ov it. IF YA DON'T TAKE TIME 4 ~ 4 PLAY ...... YER SELFISH ! | |
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| Is foreplay as important as you get older ?
Posted: 12/17/2006 11:57:28 AM | OMG YES. foreplay is an all day thing. It doesn't always have to end with sex.
whats just as good.. afterplay,  while the bodies are recharging.. than have at er again | |
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| Is foreplay as important as you get older ?
Posted: 12/17/2006 8:11:47 PM | | foreplay is the best....It can be little sexy notes in a pocket...a phone call..whispering in their ear...a little touch here or there....just playfulness.... | |
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| Is foreplay as important as you get older ?
Posted: 12/17/2006 8:12:14 PM | | I don't know, I'm getting older and like it now as much as ever, always did love it, think I always will, makes sex so much better because it gets you so in the mood. | |
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| Is foreplay as important as you get older ?
Posted: 12/18/2006 8:27:25 AM | For sure it's as important as ever...nothing beats playing around for an hour or two before the grand finale'. When I think about it I (let's say 7 times out of 10) seem to be the one that does all the foreplay work ?? It's like most gals I've been with just don't have a clue what to do besides a quick lick and or a couple rough and dry strokes 
A quickie is cool sometimes too, like first thing in the morning, but I have been with a couple girls that said "you don't need to do that" on a regular basis....BORING !! | |
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| Is foreplay as important as you get older ?
Posted: 12/18/2006 8:52:18 AM | The foreplay should be the 23 hours leading up to sex!!!! Life is foreplay and you should always be interested in the arousal of your partner!!  | |
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| Is foreplay as important as you get older ?
Posted: 12/18/2006 9:14:02 AM | Foreplay is important at any age, not just as you get older. Ladies, of any age, tell me you don't enjoy the slow, sensual discovery of your skin by a man's touch and lips...that you don't yearn for a man to find all the areas (not just the obvious ones) that make you sigh and cause that small spark at the base of your spine...that you don't yearn for an orally talented man who takes the time to ministrate and manipulate those areas that deserve more than a lick and suck...that you want a man who will make you come alive with a sensual massage...who will seduce your mind as well as your body...that wants to kiss, slowly, deeply, exploring the texture of your lips...
well--I do know of an available ape that thinks that way | |
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| Is foreplay as important as you get older ?
Posted: 1/7/2007 4:38:08 PM |
Altered Ego says;.
Oh, foreplay, by definition, comes before sex, not after.
I disagree !!! Strongly...
Foreplay and afterplay are both enjoyable. I love continuing even after you both orgasm. | |
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| Is foreplay as important as you get older ?
Posted: 1/7/2007 4:41:30 PM | Not one of you caught the jist of my thread.
I asked a question that was more medical then mental.
I required foreplay when I was younger or else penetration was uncomfortable.
Now, at 42, it's not physically required in that sense.
I never said I didn't love it, want it, need it for a better sex life.
I was talking purely from a physical standpoint and penetration ! | |
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| Is foreplay as important as you get older ?
Posted: 1/7/2007 4:50:35 PM | Foreplay is wonderful and I prefer it. Not just the oral but the touching and kissing/tongues...
My age has not affected my preference, although foreplay is much more intense and meaningful when u love someone and not just on a fling.
and maybe just gettin right to the pumping is good for you but not sure if age is a factor or not? maybe just your mood/hormones? | |
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