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| why don't girls like sex as much as guys?
Posted: 11/7/2006 1:53:34 PM | [Women are horny little things!!
BUT!!! We have been known to get a wee bit bored when some men keep doing the same damn thing OVER and OVER again. Keep things spicy and we wont get bored!!!]
Why is it all up to us to keep it spicy, tried that before and it was always, "No I couldn't do that/not interested in that" I can be quite the little horny . But when monogamy starts to turn into monotany, my sex drive drops. | |
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chef84
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Joined: 8/21/2006
Msg: 78 | |
| why don't girls like sex as much as guys?
Posted: 11/7/2006 6:18:43 PM | | ok, well even alot of older guys will say that once they get married the sex life drops, and it's not by their choice, what's up with that? | |
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chef84
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Joined: 8/21/2006
Msg: 79 | |
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| why don't girls like sex as much as guys?
Posted: 11/7/2006 6:59:18 PM | Ok I simply have to say my nipples get hard just hearing the word sex!!!! I consider myself perhaps above average on the sex scales - according to certain tests flying around - so why is it that some women simply adore sex and others do not - it's all about attitude and how you learn to love yourself and feel free to express yourself. Any woman, or any man that cannot be open and free with their partner, had better learn to open up, or their sex life will suffer. They will never know the joys of what a good, healthy, strong, sex life can be - how very sad!!! So I say to anyone that still feels the need to supress any sexual feelings - let it go explore and learn to love sex to the fullest !!!!  | |
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| why don't girls like sex as much as guys?
Posted: 11/7/2006 7:04:04 PM | girls do like sex as much as guys if not more...hence the multiple orgasm thing hun, I am frequently quoted as saying NEXT!!!lol
as for older women not liking younger guys thats false too, they just don't seem worth the effort or time when you know they don't know very much, & will most likely blow their top right away, but theres plenty I look at and go hmmmmm
women just can't put sex as a top priority like most men do,
we have too many other things to manage in life
stuff that falls apart when we aren't there or people that seem to
school, work, lunches, dinners, suppers, laundry, baths,
and you ladies know the countless other things that can be added to that list
be nice if I could come home from a hard day of work and lay on the couch watch TV and play on the computer while someone else does everything for me!!!!!geez I just might wanna do the Wild Thing all day every day too
and like Sazzy said Quality is definitely better than quantity!!! | |
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| why don't girls like sex as much as guys?
Posted: 11/7/2006 7:09:25 PM | Nope not gettin this one... maybe because at my age women are just entering their sexual prime while I am discovering Sunday Night Football and an easy chair... LOL Seriously... for all their faults, my last 2 GF's did not exhibit this problem AT ALL!
God really does have a sense of humor, when he puts a man in his sexual prime before he can understand procreation, and the woman a decade or so later..... | |
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| why don't girls like sex as much as guys?
Posted: 11/7/2006 7:19:59 PM |
Be careful what your saying here girls the next thing outta the guys mouths will be to see the ladies doing housework in maids uniform
Well if a guys is gonna do my housework and keep me happy in bed he better have alot of energy.
If married men carried on the courting like they did at beginning of relationship (flowers, dinners, walks) through the marriage they would never go without sex.
Ok Ok I will be fair here cause I'm really starting to feel sorry for you guys now and if girls would relax a little and not get naggin and b*tching we would probably still get all of the above mentioned from the men.
In other words we are both to blame for failures in a relationship....ducking now...giggle
Yeah it does go both ways... What you said above reminded me of a song I heard recently.. it's a country song, not sure of the name or the artist only heard it once or twice at work a couple months ago, but the line "She doesn't tell me to" or something like that." Anyone know the song? | |
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| why don't girls like sex as much as guys?
Posted: 11/7/2006 7:50:32 PM | | It is all on you man, you come on here and say what you say, you are exposing yourself to not having what it takes. With comfort, there are not many girls who do not have an erotic side, i will admitt, some have not explored it yet, but it is your job to bring that out. You have to get in tune with their every desire, what they want what makes them tick and build upon that. Create new thoughts and dreams and fantassies and no word of a lie once these bridges have been reached and crossed. The two of you will have so much sexual history, you will not be able to look at each other while in a sexual moos without getting extreamly turned on and hot for each other. Picture masterbating and thinking about your own girlfriend, that is where you want to be. Once you build a sexual history that has been so hot, you should not be able to get her out of your mind. | |
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| why don't girls like sex as much as guys?
Posted: 11/8/2006 8:56:36 AM | BEBBG Wrote:
I do! It's called "She Don't Tell Me To" and Montgomery Gentry sings it....I love that tune!
Thank you so much for that...one of a few songs I heard this fall that really resonated with me (Eric Church "How Bout You" was another.)
Lotta wisdom in that song, I love doing for my S.O. when i don't feel compelled or obligated. It makes me feel as good (if not better) to do them as it does her to recieve em. When those little extras become expected and/or demanded, they lose their appeal, the emotional reward I get from performing them vanishes and unfortunately, I lose interest. | |
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chef84
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Joined: 8/21/2006
Msg: 89 | |
| why don't girls like sex as much as guys?
Posted: 11/8/2006 3:56:13 PM | | you're right I'm not getting any. maybe it's just these Windsor girls. mmmm, or maybe girls in general. Now I'm not saying you're lying ladies but maybe it's just all talk some of you are saying. cause I hear it all the time from alot of guys at work (young and old) how they have no sex life. and even on the tv shows. ex. Raymond, he's always complaining about how he never does it. now you're probably saying, "yeah that's just tv" but at the same time it's reality. alot of guys will do it on their first date if things go really well, but as for the girls they want to wait | |
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| why don't girls like sex as much as guys?
Posted: 11/8/2006 4:09:23 PM | Oh, so your real question is "Why aren't girls as slutty as guys?" Well, here's the reality in the grown-up world: women hold the power. Even the easiest ride in town knows she can lead a guy around by his****just by holding out for a while. A woman can get laid anytime she wants, just because we men will put out if women smile at us the right way, or don't, or completely treat us dirt but ask if we want to fool around. We're easy like that.
The fault is not with women so much as with men being complete slaves to their penis. | |
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| why don't girls like sex as much as guys?
Posted: 11/8/2006 4:39:31 PM | ^^^^^ Thats so not true.......well not for all of us. God gave me two hands, so if I want it, I can get it anytime I want....okay so it's not exactly the same....but some good advice I was given a long time ago....nobody can love you better than you can
Seriously though..... I really hate generalizations... | |
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| why don't girls like sex as much as guys?
Posted: 11/8/2006 5:39:13 PM | Of course it's true. You mean to tell me if someone you were really into said to you "I really think we should wait," you'd shrug and say "Your loss?" You'd do anything up to and including killing the president (please Marge, ask me to kill the president) for her. Of course you can go jerk the gherkin until then, but don't delude yourself into thinking you have any power to resist.
Now, it is a generalization that all women would do this to you, but all women know they have the power to do so if they choose. | |
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| why don't girls like sex as much as guys?
Posted: 11/8/2006 5:55:08 PM | | I definitely think the tables turn around 40. Have a relationship with a healthy women in her early 40's...good lord they are goats...god bless em!!!!! | |
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| why don't girls like sex as much as guys?
Posted: 11/9/2006 2:02:18 PM | [/You mean to tell me if someone you were really into said to you "I really think we should wait," you'd shrug and say "Your loss?" You'd do anything up to and including killing the president (please Marge, ask me to kill the president) for her.]
Yes I can say that, and in fact I have. I'm not saying it wasn't difficult, but I have. especially when they are a virgin (at least that's what I was told). Sex is great, and I love it as much as the next guy, but it doesn't run my life.
And like I said before......nobody can love me as good as I do | |
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Em1nem
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Joined: 4/11/2006
Msg: 96 | |
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| why don't girls like sex as much as guys?
Posted: 11/9/2006 2:15:46 PM | | ok i think i figured this posting thing .Now what i can`t figure out is why my WIFE does`nt like sex anymore ? once a month is fine with her. | |
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chef84
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Joined: 8/21/2006
Msg: 99 | |
| why don't girls like sex as much as guys?
Posted: 11/9/2006 2:42:56 PM | | see this is what I was kinda talking about, his wife only wants to do it once a month, and I'm sure he'd do it everyday. so what's up with that ladies? you can't have a high sex drive as much as a guy or even more if you only want in very few times in a month. and it's not just his wife. guys want it all the time | |
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| why don't girls like sex as much as guys?
Posted: 11/9/2006 2:47:23 PM | | I'm thinking the men that are suffering with not enough sex should look deep into themselves and figure out why the woman doesn't want anymore than once a month from them. What do YOU do to make her feel sexy and really wanted? And I'm not talking about groping her, saying "come on baby...let's @%$O" or just crawling ontop of her in bed and expecting her to be ready. Sure, that might have worked in the beginning when sex was new between the two of you but after a while, most women need to be seduced mind, body and soul. It might help if you spent your time doing that or helping her around the house or with the kids rather than on a dating site looking for what's missing in your marriage. It takes two! | |
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