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| Why Can't Woman Be Honest That Their As Bad As Guys
Posted: 11/8/2006 3:05:09 PM | wow gone for a couple hours to work and the replies are flying off the handle now 
tks for the different views everyone. I've got a date with another girl tonight and i'll let u all know how it went when i get back. Wish me luck | |
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| Why Can't Woman Be Honest That Their As Bad As Guys
Posted: 11/9/2006 4:29:16 AM | | irecently met agirl online read her profile n it said she was just living with the father of her child n that her man was ok with her c in other people . so she cumes online last nightttttt and i said leave him n cum n stay with me anyway i had the guy on msn last night thretenin me bcause i slept with his now as he calls it his wife ,y didnt she just tell me the truth ,but u c i think they were going to ask 4 money im not sure but sumthin like that was definetly goin down . so if this wasnt a scam y are women so decitefull . oh by the way stay away from her hotnhorny191 she is definetly up to sumthin appart from just tryin to extort mon ey from genuine guys . | |
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Posted: 11/9/2006 5:41:37 AM | An earlier post stated that the sex on a first date thing may be a test to "see what kind of guy the OP was". Hmm.. I have a thought on that concept. Tests in relationships that is. Here is my thoughts...
I don't like people who run "tests" in relationships.
Have fun, get to know the person you are attracted to, enjoy their company. Why mess things up with little tests to "see what kind of man/woman" they are. Honestly, its just stupid mind game crap that should never be played.
I once had a girl ask me prior to going out with me what my "policy on sex on a first date was". I was like "hello you haven't even been out with me yet, why are you asking this?"
"Well, I want to know if we have chemistry if I can get yer goodies or not".
I told her I don't fool arround on the first date, and if I decide I'm serious about wanting to date them I won't touch them short of a nice good night kiss for the first month.
"Oh, good I was just testing you."
Great. So the comment about wanting to do me on the first date was just a tease?
"Well, no not really, I want you and would have done it one the first date, but obviously your not into that so, now I won't try, but I would have known you were just out to have sex with me then."
*grumble*
Ladies, don't test us. We don't like it, and you wouldn't like it if we turned the tables on you! | |
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| Why Can't Woman Be Honest That Their As Bad As Guys
Posted: 11/9/2006 7:31:34 PM | | lol well its offical woman are terrible creatures lol, was on the date last night everything went fine till the end when she thought it was going further then i wanted it to thinking i'd take some advice from this site and take it slower then usual(wait till the third date lol). Guess what happened she called me a fag for not wanting to have sex lmao. Now if a woman didn't want to have sex it would be a must that the guy see her point of view and if he didn't he would automatically be a pig; funny how theres such a double standard when i woman wants it and the guy decides to hold off. | |
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Posted: 11/15/2006 1:59:45 PM | | Yes women are just as bad as men we are just better at concealing it. Second men and women get mad when the opposite sex won't give it up and both sexes have to just take it when they get turned down. If she got pissed cause you turned her down then oh well at least you know that was all she wanted. | |
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Posted: 11/15/2006 2:01:19 PM | OP, I am starting to wonder if you are being 100% truthful in your "perception" of what is going on.
She called you a "fag" for not sleeping with her? I've never, ever, ever heard or seen of that happening in my life. If you're sleeping with all these women you are going on dates with, you're part of the problem as well. It's who you are attracting.
Have you ever stopped to think about what the qualities are that you want in a woman and why you end up with the kind you are ending up with now?
Take a second to reflect upon yourself and what you want. Write down the qualities you are seeking then do your best to find women who match those qualities. I
I suspect your issues will go away and you'll find what you are looking for.
Cheers. | |
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| Why Can't Woman Be Honest That Their As Bad As Guys
Posted: 11/15/2006 3:18:37 PM | hey now...just because a woman ends up in bed on the first date doesnt mean that its all they're looking for! women do have needs too you know, and if they feel the desire there on the first date whats wrong with having sex.
My current boyfriend and I did on our first date and we've stayed together, and are expecting a baby now actually...so I dont fnd anything wrong with it! And I definately had no real intention of ending up in bed with him that first night...it just felt right at the time, and I DID want to meet someone for long term dating, and a real relationship...so not all women lie on here at all...thing just sometimes happen that way. Nothing wrong with understanding her own sexuality at all! | |
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TaraNC
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Joined: 5/11/2006
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| Why Can't Woman Be Honest That Their As Bad As Guys
Posted: 11/20/2006 11:05:01 AM | I'LL ADMIT IT!! I'M AS BAD AS MEN!! 
and get this.. I'M PROUD OF IT!!
If men can do it why can't i? I'm not a slut but i like to keep my options open, i'd rather shoot whiskey or have a beer than some fancy drink, i'd rather wear jeans and t-shirt than a skirt, i'd rather muck a stall than clean my room, i'd rather go fishing or 4x4ing than shopping, and if you take me out, i might eat too much and laugh at your corny jokes!! I don't worry about my nails and if i wreck my hair who cares, i'll just do it again later... i am a woman and i'm proud of that but i'm not afraid to show my true colors!!
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Posted: 12/12/2006 11:48:50 AM | | Your profile says "hang out." Even if it had "dating" it would be giving off the same message... something not permanent. "Long term" would be more of what you're looking for, don't you think? It depends on who you pick up, just like the next guy or girl, whatever. I, myself, am pretty honest about what I look for in a person and if they're not looking for the same sort of thing, then we both go our own ways. It sounds to me like you pretty much know that they're not looking for the long haul but you still go out with them, have fun in bed and be on your way looking for the next "maybe" out there. If you're looking for something serious, you might have to be more vocal about it and stick to it when you get the sense they're not on the same page as you... Good luck. | |
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Posted: 12/12/2006 11:54:05 AM | | Now I don' think its fair in this situation to say they just want their jollies but won't admit it. They could very well intend on dating you, but after a few more dates and getting to know you more, realize that they don't see a future with you. Thats just fair and they have the right to do that, as do you. It likely has nothing to do with the sex. | |
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Posted: 12/12/2006 11:59:43 AM | You have to appreciate that there is a double standard out there that women have to deal with so perhaps they don't want to be as open about admitting just how often they have had sex on the first date or how often they have used men for sex.
For me, if sex enters in a relationship really early on, it seems that the sex forms the foundation of the relationship, not the genuine interest and desire to have that person in my life. When the sex becomes routine (which it can and usually does from time to time), the relationship dies a quick and painful(less) death. This is why I try to hold off on getting too intimate too soon, but that's just MHO.
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Posted: 12/14/2006 12:19:28 AM | | If all they wanted was a one nighter I dont think they would have excepted a 2nd or 3rd date. As dates progress you generally start to relax and open up. Possibly these ladies just decided that they were not interested as they got to know you. I am not so sure it had anything to do with sleeping with you or not. If they said they wanted to date, but that early you never know who with. Guess it just wasnt you. Sorry if that sounds harsh, but it is a possibility. | |
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Posted: 12/14/2006 12:46:13 AM | it all boils down to this one simple fact... what you put out there is what you get.
people respond to things that YOU do in a certain way. the certain way they react is dependant on their personality. now if you know what you want, then you can determine what kind of person they are and know what kind of actions to take in which sequence to get that.
therefore dont sleep with them on the first date or even within 5 dates. that will see where they stand after 5 dates. (the number is arbitrary, but you obviously get the point)
im sure you can take it from there
lol
as for my love life... im working on it
first gotta work on the physical | |
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Posted: 12/14/2006 6:47:19 AM | I don't think the women the OP is dating are as sinister as is being implied.
My take on it is they go out with him. They get a great first impression and are physically attracted so sleep with him on the first date. After a few more dates they realize he is not the one for them.
It doesn't mean they started out from the very beginning being dishonest so they could use him for sex. Not every woman who intially finds him attractive is going to become his soulmate. | |
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CTR916
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Joined: 11/27/2006
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| Why Can't Woman Be Honest That Their As Bad As Guys
Posted: 1/21/2007 7:26:41 PM |
Ever since the dawn of time, women have been told not to do certain things. Obviously, enjoying sex is one of them. I think most women won't admit to just plain wanting meaningless sex occasionally for fear of being labeled a slut. So, naturally, if a first date ends up in bed, they're gonna say they want to continue dating because they don't want you to think less of them...JMO. And yeah, we want it as bad as the guys do, trust me.
Are you implying, that if I agree to not call some chick a slut, she might be willing to have a one night stand, and not feel obligated to keep seeing me afterward? What if I liked the sex and wanted to keep seeing her for a while longer? | |
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Tarika
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Joined: 8/30/2006
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