| Do you find shy guys a turn on?
Posted: 11/9/2006 1:06:27 AM | I myself am a bit shy. The more I know someone the more I will open up and such. However, there is a difference between painfully shy and a bit shy. Some people are shy and you would not even know it. I think that a bit shy can be really sweet but painfully shy is just not my thing because then I would know really know how he is or how he feels etc.
They have great courses that you can take to get over shyness and also books that you can read to help you. I would suggest that. Also, perhaps your shyness is really just a form of social phobia which should be treated as books and a course will not help that.
Best of luck.
~Carrie B. | |
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| Do you find shy guys a turn on?
Posted: 11/9/2006 5:36:36 AM | if you mean shyness as in blushing, its indeed quite cute, and i actually find men with a little shyness more perferably to those conceited angry loud mouths who would so shamelessly crack dirty jokes and blame women for playing games if they cant get in their pants.
also from experience, the shy type are also more agreeable and plesant, but beware when shyness combine with ignorance, you might come across no more than plain arrogant and boring, however, a little shyness in a man who knows how to be a gentleman - em, could be very charming! | |
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| Do you find shy guys a turn on?
Posted: 11/9/2006 11:21:26 AM | I don't know that I find shy guys appealing, not to say that I could not be attracted or have a nice relationship with someone who is shy but I prefer men who know what they want! Namely me, like a previous poster stated unless I can see your sexual signals from space I am not likely to notice it at all.
I am not a big fan of rejection so (like most humans) I won't put myself out there unless I know that you may be interested too!
Probably why I am still alone..lol  | |
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| Do you find shy guys a turn on?
Posted: 11/9/2006 1:21:27 PM | A word to the wise...shy guys don't cheat."
of course they don't how is it possible to cheat when you're never with anyone to begin with? | |
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| Do you find shy guys a turn on?
Posted: 11/9/2006 2:21:10 PM | | Whether or not a shy guy was ever in relationship or not I've believe a shy guy still would be faithful because I am a shy guy but I used to be very shy. | |
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| Do you find shy guys a turn on?
Posted: 11/9/2006 2:50:51 PM | | I used to be very not shy. I was married for 14 years, together for 16. My ex's personality was so big and she was so outgoing that it wallflowered me I guess. Now, I'm dealing with rediscovering that side of myself. | |
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| Do you find shy guys a turn on?
Posted: 11/9/2006 3:00:02 PM | | Shyness is ok sometimes....as long as you can have fun and be yourself when you are around me and my friends. If you're 2 shy around them then you would be gone. SORRY......Ya gotta have fun! | |
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| Do you find shy guys a turn on?
Posted: 11/9/2006 6:48:30 PM | I Love shy guys!!!! I think it's so sweet!! As long as they warm up after a while...... if you're so shy that you can't hold a conversation.... that's not good.
If the guy is really good looking, shy and sweet.......OH MY!!!! I eat that up! | |
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| Do you find shy guys a turn on?
Posted: 8/19/2008 6:31:08 AM | I've found that most shy guys lack confidence and that's why they're shy to begin with-same as women. So in that aspect, I do not find it to be a turn on. Now if they're just quiet, I'm not sure I could go there anyways because that's the opposite of me. If they warm up quickly after meeting someone, that might be ok.
My best friend is a male I met through another site who claimed he was shy. We talked really easily and that made a differnce. Though when we went out to our local watering hole, the owner mentioned that before this guy had met me, he'd always been so quiet. Now the guy knows most of the regulars and is pretty outgoing. Maybe it just takes time and meeting the right kind of people for them to open up.
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| Do you find shy guys a turn on?
Posted: 8/19/2008 8:19:08 AM | A little shy can be a good thing. But, they still need to take the lead. But, I definitely prefer them to the Life of the Party types.
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| Do you find shy guys a turn on?
Posted: 8/19/2008 8:35:00 AM | OP: I don't find a man that is so shy having a conversation is like "pulling teeth" or out at a social venue is latched onto me and cannot mingle in the crowd.
That would totally turn me off! However, I also don't like the loud (notice me) type.
A combo of both is cool, but too much of one is not.
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