| Your first time:Was it memorable or forgetable?
Posted: 11/12/2006 10:45:23 PM | | the first guy I was ever with was fantastic in bed, a hard act to follow in that regard but a jerk too. I was with him for a couple of years. He was with me for a long time when I wouldn't have sex with him, we just made out heavy all of the time and I wouldn't, he put up with it, but then one night I did and it was really great sex, we continued out relationship for a long time, but he wasn't really my boyfriend. It was an odd relationship. We weren't exclusive. I am glad for that experience since it was amazing sex but if I could do over, I would have avoided him from the get go. He wasn't worth my virginity. I just gave it to him because I liked him a lot, was getting older and wanted to have sex. He was the one at the time. | |
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| Your first time:Was it memorable or forgetable?
Posted: 11/12/2006 11:57:17 PM | Well, my official first time doesn't count...why?
Because I was about 7 or 8 and we had no clue what sex was...Now, Don't jump to any conclusions...Every day I would walk home with a friend of mine after school, she lived about two doors down from me and one day she came over to my house because nobody was home at her house, and being young and being friends, we talked about EVERYTHING, just like kids, not holding anything back. Well, kids have a tendency to walk into their parents room at the most inopportune times, and we see stuff that little kids just...shouldn't see, lets face it...sometimes there are things that just shouldn't be seen. Well, we talk about what we have seen our parents doing, and of course most parents never talk to their kids about sex because they're just too embarrassed. She and I decide to try out what they were doing.
Now...even though it happened...nobody ever knew and a couple of years later, she and her family moved away, I grew up, learned about it all...was a tad bit traumatized I'd say. I mean, hell, I lost my virginity and didn't know it...several years after the fact, I was about 15, I'm mowing my front lawn, same house where I grew up, I hear a voice behind me and I turn around and it's her. Lets just say that my mind took a stroll down memory lane and that very instant. For the next several hours we hung out with some of my friends, her old friends, and finally when we got alone she asked if I remembered anything about us and I said that one day popped into my head...she said that she hadn't forgotten about it and how dumb we were. After all...we blamed our parents...as all children do...
Take heed to this story parents...talk to your kids.
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| Your first time:Was it memorable or forgetable?
Posted: 11/13/2006 12:13:29 AM | | it was memorable because i look back at it and we were 2 virgins just wanting to lose it to each other it was forgetable because it took way to long she was dry and i had a rubber on and we had no concept of lube so it was really awkward lol i was 16 and she was 15 but the 2nd time was alot better | |
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| Your first time:Was it memorable or forgetable?
Posted: 11/13/2006 12:22:08 AM | | Was quite memorable. I was 17. We had been dating about 4 months, he was the love of my life at that time. He was 25, we had a nice dinner out went back to his place. Had a fantastic time. He was patient, caring, and amazing. We are still great friends. | |
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| Your first time:Was it memorable or forgetable?
Posted: 11/13/2006 12:55:39 AM | | I remember it still, as much as I joke about it. Nothing special, and nothing ackward. Could have been better, but far from anything bad. I still remember it and smile about it when I think back. | |
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| Your first time:Was it memorable or forgetable?
Posted: 11/13/2006 4:31:39 PM | First time was very memorable....
I was with my older brothers best friend ... oops... lol I was 18, he was 28... oops again lol j/k
Thanksgiving one year I was at a party, had just broken up with a real jerk who was just tryin to play me to get a peice... he walked in, didnt even recognize me at first! Then we started talking, I gave him a ride home cause he was drunk and I wasnt. We get to the place I was staying for the weekend. (just a 1/2 mile from his parents house where he was visiting) and he asked me what I would do if he kissed me.. I said it was a bad idea, cause my brother would be pissed. Anyways.. I went to just give him a hug and ended up kissing him. Then going into the house, and sent him home. Despite him asking me to keep fooling around lol.
Woke up in the morning TOTALLY thought I just got him in so much trouble, and was sorta freaked out. Get home the next week, and he is at my parents house (visiting my brother).. He asked me one nite while he was there if I wanted to go get coffee with him for everyone, so we went for a drive, didnt even get 2 minuts away from the house, he stops the truck and starts kissing me!.. (He's a really good kisser lol) And says, I've wanted to do that since I saw you agian, I even asked ur brothers permission.
Well.. he started coming over to my house to visit 'my brother' lol... every weekend, and even took time off work, we hung out like that for over 3 months, and I spent the entire X-mas hollidays with him, New Years day, after staying up all nite watching movies at his house, we did it for the first time. And we are still together lol... Will remember it for ever lol.. definately worth waiting for... He still reminds me how long I made him wait. Apparently it feels even longer when u are over for 'sleepovers' almost every nite for 3 months lol :P | |
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| Your first time:Was it memorable or forgetable?
Posted: 11/13/2006 5:25:15 PM | I was 13 had some beers was more curious than into it. He was 19. You can imagine how much fun I had.
I don't regret alllll the bad sexual experiences I had, because I think that must of been me earning all the awesome love making I give and receive now. | |
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xodara
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Joined: 10/7/2006
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| Your first time:Was it memorable or forgetable?
Posted: 11/13/2006 8:39:38 PM | Mine was both.
It was my 18th birthday. I always said I'd want to wait until I was married, but he was 11 years older than me, and we had been dating about a year. He said he wanted to marry me...until he got me. Then, all of a sudden, he wanted never to get married, and wanted me to move in with him instead, in another state, so I can help him take care of his handicap father. At 18!!
Being hindsight is 20/20, I know now what he was after. But, you have to give the man credit for being so patient to wait a year for a piece of a$$.
But, little did I know...a man should NOT be, under normal circumstances, the length of a regular cigarette at full erection. I didn't understand that he had a bad drug problem and could not get fully erect. So, when he accused me of not being a virgin, I was crushed. What did I know?
Anyway, it's rememorable and forgetable for the same reasons. | |
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| Your first time:Was it memorable or forgetable?
Posted: 11/14/2006 12:41:09 AM | | I was 12 she was in her late 20's or 30's, I hung with old dudes, so alot of times they would push women on us youngsters, anyway I felt pressure to do, like if I didn't do i wouldn't be a man, lol, when you are young you are dumb, anyway I was uncomfortable, and i think i am ruined from that because the thought sex sometimes makes me sick. | |
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| Your first time:Was it memorable or forgetable?
Posted: 11/15/2006 3:20:33 PM | | I actually remember it like it was yesterday, but I don't want to give details. But I will say is that it was back in March and it definately was a one night stand...and a rebound from the past. | |
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| Your first time:Was it memorable or forgetable?
Posted: 11/23/2006 10:35:43 PM | Memorable : I was 19 he was 23, and we wound up doing it on his disgusting bedroom floor because it was the middle of the afternoon and his roommate was home. Not only was it slightly painful, but I got gum stuck in my hair, that was stuck to paperplate that was on his floor.
Lol, never said it was memorable because it was any good  | |
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| Your first time:Was it memorable or forgetable?
Posted: 11/24/2006 8:43:47 AM | | Seriously painful. It was when I was 16, with my boyfriend of about 8 months or so. I made him stop. Lots of blood. It took us about two weeks of trying until we could actually enjoy it, without pain for me. I'm glad it was with him, though..he was a fantastic boyfriend and we were together for two and a half years. | |
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| Your first time:Was it memorable or forgetable?
Posted: 11/24/2006 9:39:18 AM | | it will always be a memory.. we dated for 2 years then did our deed and we dated for a year after that... it was a wonderful time every time i pass that ball park i still laugh hahaha | |
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| Your first time:Was it memorable or forgetable?
Posted: 11/27/2006 7:48:45 AM | | Yeah, it was good....we had known each other for a while, but were not involved as b/f and g/f.....so finally one night, we gave into our desires. She was shocked at how long I lasted....good for me?? I don't know. But it must have been good, as it was the beginning of many many MANY more times. After a while, we made things official but that only lasted about a year, and now, I haven't seen her for a long time. But it was fun while it lasted. She's the only one I have experiences with though!! | |
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numon
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Joined: 4/13/2006
Msg: 70 | |
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| Your first time:Was it memorable or forgetable?
Posted: 1/24/2007 2:06:58 AM | | For me my first time was definatly memorable. I was 22 and she was 26. Her name was Bridgett. It was indescriblably. Thing is in this case I knew it was going to happen so I was as nervous as hell. But she made me feel really relaxed. Definatly a night I'll never forget | |
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tokr
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Joined: 9/2/2006
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| Your first time:Was it memorable or forgetable?
Posted: 1/24/2007 2:13:22 AM | Not fun. My first time was when I was 12 years old. I was raped by my step-father.
The first time I had sex consensually, it was actually very nice. Even though the guy was a complete jacka$$ and I got pregnant the first time. | |
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