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 Droleci

Joined: 4/21/2004
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Your first time:Was it memorable or forgetable?
Posted: 8/6/2008 9:08:45 AM

Because I was about 7 or 8 and we had no clue what sex was...Now, Don't jump to any conclusions...Well, we talk about what we have seen our parents doing, and of course most parents never talk to their kids about sex because they're just too embarrassed. She and I decide to try out what they were doing.


How is this even possible? You had erections at the age of 7 or 8?

Hell, when my neighbour wanted to play "let's pull our pants down and you lie on top of me" when we were 6, that wasn't "losing my virginity" cause it wasn't sex. She always got much more pleasure from the "play with yourself" sessions than I ever did cause I just had this dangling thingy that didn't make me feel any kind of pleasure (till I figured out what do to when I was 14)
 Sardonis

Joined: 9/28/2007
Msg: 152
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Your first time:Was it memorable or forgetable?
Posted: 8/6/2008 10:20:10 AM
Apparently losing one's virginity is often a disappointing, painful, and/or forgettable experience for most women.

There's a certain irony that some women want to save such an experience til her wedding night, aka her special day.
 James_in_SD

Joined: 7/3/2006
Msg: 153
Your first time:Was it memorable or forgetable?
Posted: 8/7/2008 7:20:45 AM
I forget..............................
 ApplePieSweetTart

Joined: 7/16/2008
Msg: 154
Your first time:Was it memorable or forgetable?
Posted: 8/7/2008 11:42:15 AM

Apparently losing one's virginity is often a disappointing, painful, and/or forgettable experience for most women.

There's a certain irony that some women want to save such an experience til her wedding night, aka her special day.


Lol! I never thought of it that way. *ponders* I think because we think of it as a gift of sorts. You know, he'll be the only man to have entered the Fortress of Solitude.
 samstyles

Joined: 3/23/2008
Msg: 155
Your first time:Was it memorable or forgetable?
Posted: 8/11/2008 3:30:37 PM
How scientific do we have to be about 'first time'?

I kind of like to brush over my sex life and relationships before the point of my split with the kids' Dad a few years ago. If I start counting there then I can look back verry fondly and happily!

Maybe that's the thing, if you dont like your first 'first time', try again and have another!
 DietCoke®Guy

Joined: 3/13/2005
Msg: 156
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Your first time:Was it memorable or forgetable?
Posted: 8/11/2008 4:28:19 PM
I found about my first time a few weeks later. She was in my residence room at iniversity and we were drinking a lot and smoking some funny cigarettes that we had emptied these expensive black capsules into. I remember about the first half hour of her visit. Evidently she was there a lot longer, and I performed admirably. I found out a few weeks later when I was discussing my "virginity" with her.
Your first time:Was it memorable or forgetable?
Posted: 8/11/2008 6:17:18 PM
The only reason I remember the first time I had sex is because I kept the receipt.
 pika29

Joined: 6/30/2008
Msg: 158
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Your first time:Was it memorable or forgetable?
Posted: 8/11/2008 7:28:56 PM
I waited until I was 23 for my first time. It was incredibly romantic. I met a guy online and we instantly connected. We talked on the phone daily for about 4 months and then I flew about 1000 miles from Toronto to NC to meet him. I got off the plane and the first thing I saw was him holding a single red rose.

To make a long story short we had sex on my second day there and to this day I don't regret it, even though things didn't work out between him and I.

Many of my friends had sex at quite a young age (15 or 16) and they regret it. My first time was something special and I am thankful I waited as long as I did
 GoneSailinBabe

Joined: 7/6/2008
Msg: 159
Your first time:Was it memorable or forgetable?
Posted: 8/11/2008 7:32:06 PM
I don't recall it as being anything memorable. It was with my husband to be. I know that. But otherwise....not anything really fantastic about it. Sad huh?
 3b83

Joined: 9/1/2008
Msg: 160
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Your first time:Was it memorable or forgetable?
Posted: 9/4/2008 11:07:18 PM
My first time was ok. It could have been better, The guy was older and was scared he was going to hurt me rather then jsut doing what felt right. But he was gentle and I guess thats what matters
 supernovastunnah

Joined: 4/26/2008
Msg: 161
Your first time:Was it memorable or forgetable?
Posted: 9/4/2008 11:08:28 PM
it was great the guy was such a sweetheart though it was hard to get over him after
 ladyserenity

Joined: 4/15/2007
Msg: 162
Your first time:Was it memorable or forgetable?
Posted: 9/4/2008 11:31:11 PM
I was lucky, the first time for me was making love not having sex. It took all afternoon, my toes didn't curl and my eyes didn't roll into the back of my head but the contact with another person in that way was mind blowing non the less.
Conclusion..memorable
 edward8357

Joined: 10/1/2008
Msg: 163
Your first time:Was it memorable or forgetable?
Posted: 10/23/2008 7:17:13 PM
I was a "late bloomer" as far as girls went. My father was a strict Methodist preacher. I got to "play around" a little with 2 girl friends at an early age but didn't know what I was doing. I read a lot and talked the talk but couldn't walk the walk.
When I got in the Navy and overseas, my friends found out that I still had my "good house keeping seal intact" and bought me a Spanish hooker to remove it. DAMN NEAR KILLED ME! Her pubic hair was thick and as tough as a brillo pad and she knew what she was doing. Scraped all the skin off. I walked funny for weeks. Hard to live that down when everybody knows what happened.
Then I had a port of call off the French Riveria and in a little cozy bar, I met 2 knock out gorgeous sisters. I told them what my friends did to me. They offered to let me go home with them for the weekend and I went. They taught me a whole lot of stuff I still put to use 32 years later. They treated me right! All I can say, for a while I was looking for red hair, nice tits and plush ass everywhere I went.
In all honesty, my first time was memorable, for sure!
 Kerri72

Joined: 7/9/2008
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Your first time:Was it memorable or forgetable?
Posted: 10/23/2008 9:12:25 PM
I was a prom night statistic. I also had a blind date to prom who was about 5 years older than me and I swear he slipped something in my drink because the entire ordeal is fuzzy to say the least.
 ooohmiss!

Joined: 3/5/2007
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Your first time:Was it memorable or forgetable?
Posted: 10/26/2008 6:00:26 PM
My first time was very memorable.....I was 16...just about to turn 17....his name was Michael...he was 19....tall and good looking....it was in early November....we were on the beach (we both lived in a waterfront neighborhood) at night...he was keeping me warm..... Brings a new meaning to sex on the beach!
We still keep in touch to this day....
 Taralaraa

Joined: 9/1/2007
Msg: 166
Your first time:Was it memorable or forgetable?
Posted: 10/26/2008 6:18:02 PM
Havent read 6+ pages.... Just the Title there: Your first time: Was it memorable.....?

I remember where we were.... in his bedroom, a purple blanket on the bed.... I remember the guy.... nice guy... was with him for about 18 months but he wanted to settle down and get married (he was 21, I was 16) I didnt want to, so we didnt depart friends but I remember him with affection... at the time he cared about me, was good.....
 girlwillbegirl

Joined: 4/25/2007
Msg: 167
Your first time:Was it memorable or forgetable?
Posted: 10/26/2008 7:03:08 PM
Very awkward. Practice makes perfect, and I've been practicing ever since.
 LatentHeat

Joined: 4/22/2008
Msg: 168
Your first time:Was it memorable or forgetable?
Posted: 10/26/2008 10:18:37 PM
Memorable, of course. High school sweetheart, been dating for 3 or 4 months. She was 17, I was 16. The folks were on vacation somewhere, and My uncle was looking after me and younger Bro, but left on the friday night; my GF was staying with me , so it was the first "sleepover" we'd have, but being both virgins, we knew what we wanted that night. We were up all night, playing Led Zep's Physical graffiti over & over. I was nervous enough it took two tries to keep Mr Mojo Rising.(stupid condoms) The deed was secondary in the grand scheme, it was laying nude with my girl that was the best. It was sweet, tender and innocent. She was such an awesome girlfriend. Good times.
 The rock man

Joined: 4/13/2008
Msg: 169
Your first time:Was it memorable or forgetable?
Posted: 10/26/2008 10:38:22 PM
Not for me!

I forgot how I showed up to have my first nut (with a partner) with an almost girlfriend, only to be sitting in someones apartment ditching class with 3 girls.
The one that I was supposed to get with said her little friend was in town, so it would have to be put off.

That's when one of the other girls said she would! What? Her friend said she would like to have some. We went back to the bedroom, yes all 4 of us.

So my first time was in front of a small group! 2 watched and talked about us as we went at it! A min later we were all sitting on the bed talking about something else!

By the end of the week all three had gotten a piece of the ROCK!
 BlondE324

Joined: 6/17/2008
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Your first time:Was it memorable or forgetable?
Posted: 10/27/2008 5:34:39 PM
My first time was this past Friday. My boyfriend has been away on business during the week for the last two months, so instead of him coming home every weekend, I went up to spend the weekend. We've been together for 7 months now and are very much in love. Not a single regret. I'm so glad that I waited until I was in a loving committed relationship, even though I had to wait until I was 25.
 OneMoreTimeWithFeeling

Joined: 9/8/2008
Msg: 171
Your first time:Was it memorable or forgetable?
Posted: 10/27/2008 5:47:43 PM
I do remember mine. It was my first bf and we had been together for about 5 months. It was Halloween and we were both virgins. I guess my anniversary of losing it is upon me. It was at my friend's parents house and they were away. I was the first one of my friends to have sex.
 mizzladyarie1

Joined: 4/6/2008
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Your first time:Was it memorable or forgetable?
Posted: 10/27/2008 7:31:10 PM
very memorable.....in a museum in a small empty town in a dark movie room..... it was a summer love before high school......still talk to him today...he is married with kids now and doesnt look too good...lol I am glad i met him at his prime...don't get me wrong i am not superficial but he has been in jail and everything since then...he told me i was the best decision of his life...
 sometimes-miss

Joined: 8/29/2007
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Posted: 10/27/2008 7:43:23 PM
Well, I was six, and he.....oh, you don't want to hear about THAT first time. Now then....well, everything that could go wrong almost did. I had trouble keeping it up while reaching around 270 degrees to get birth control off the shelf. Dropped the rubber. Picked it up, had dog hair on it. Threw it out, got another. Had trouble getting the wrapper off, tried putting it on backwards. Cursed. She laughed. Heard her parents coming home, had to stop, didn't come, didn't get to try again for quite a while. Yeah, memorable, but not in a good way.
 dwayne88

Joined: 6/8/2008
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Posted: 10/27/2008 7:55:05 PM
Wow! Some people get lucky early. 10, 12, 13.

I haven't yet. 25 and counting. Hopefully it is good. But at this point, just having it happen would be great. ......................................................


Where were some of you at when I was a teen? lol
 hellsapopin

Joined: 5/15/2008
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Posted: 10/28/2008 7:30:02 AM
Well I was 16 and of course totally inexperienced. She was very "tight" and I came just trying to get it inside her. I don't know if that really qualifies as sex. I think I must have broken the speed record.
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