| a promise of sex broken Posted: 11/11/2006 1:06:04 PM | This guy is selfish because he won't please her when she wants it.. But when he mentions that he wants oral sex, she doesn't want to do it... and thats ok? And this guy has the nerve to work all the time to support her and their 3 kids, but he's an a$$ for not being home for a nooner..
Sorry but this post seems like a selfish woman's rant about how she can't get her fiance to do what she wants when she wants like a little puppy. | |
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| a promise of sex broken Posted: 11/11/2006 2:40:07 PM | Geesh, let's face it.. People do fall asleep at times. The man and woman aren't always on the same wavelength.
One of you is bound to want sex when the other one doesn't.
With any luck, and patience you'll find enough common ground so both of you will feel loved and happy. | |
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| a promise of sex broken Posted: 1/22/2007 8:28:59 PM | (' ') (' ')
Hear! Hear! I'm in agreement with u. More MEN must speak out against the inequalities & injustices proffered by women. It's always about "them" & what "they" want. I need to sell those t-shirts: "I want it all & I want it NOW!!"
Boo, hoo, hoo! It's supposed to be all about me! I've got the (kitty). It's supposed to be MY way!!!
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| a promise of sex broken Posted: 1/22/2007 8:57:31 PM | | So you guys have a problem with sex, you're just going to create more problems according to your profile if you want a 3some. If he falls asleep on you, he's probably going to do it to the other person too lol. Perhaps you guys are doing it cuz your sex life is boring? I suggest going to counseling so you guys can talk about issues before it gets worse after you marry. | |
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| a promise of sex broken Posted: 1/22/2007 9:35:10 PM | You know when I feel that I must be the voice of reason that the world has gone to hell in a handbasket
1) When your partner (Both sides are equally guilty as a whole)gives you what you need in the bedroom; if you make sure that they NEVER forget how much you enjoyed it and recipicated in kind. They will do it more often.
2) If they don't give you what you need, then make sure they NEVER want you to less enthused than you were that night. They'll stop being selfish
3) Not enough time for everyone to get happy............take turns...... or no before work sex take turns ......or no nooners ect.
Ladies AND Gentlemen
It doesn't matter how much experiance in the bedroom your partner has. If they don't know your needs they cant make you happy. Maybe their last lover was a dud ....Liven them up. Maybe they were raised straight laced.......Take them where no lover has gone before. If you don't communicate with your lover, Its your fault not theirs. Your sexual interests and history doesn't run down their arm and into their brains the first time they touch you.
LASTLY AND MOST IMPORTANT
This communication doesn't start after the sex session they didn't please you in. BAD MOVE
This is a discussion for a non sexual, more intellectual moment with all the clothes on and on equal footing | |
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