| What happened?!
Posted: 11/9/2006 10:39:08 PM |
Get used to it chicky, not all guys are interested.
Oh, he was interested - they just weren't interested in the same way | |
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| What happened?!
Posted: 11/10/2006 2:32:10 AM | | Yeah, forget about him. I think he was just hoping that in time, you would drop your pants...Kudos on you for not doing it and sticking true to your word.....but forget about him. | |
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| What happened?!
Posted: 11/10/2006 3:16:13 AM | drop yer pants.
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I'm doing laundry and i want to wash em..
buwauahahahahahahah!!! | |
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| What happened?!
Posted: 11/10/2006 5:51:11 AM | Thanks for the many props guys! =)
As for nightssky....
 Yeah. Riiiiiight. Heheheh. | |
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| What happened?!
Posted: 11/10/2006 7:58:32 AM | He probably thought he could get you to "drop your pants' in the heat of the moment. I'd say move on. If he's not attempting to contact you it means " he doesn't want to contact you". So move on.
If he's with someone else he may be back if he gets dumped. No second chance. He's too disrespectful. | |
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| What happened?!
Posted: 11/10/2006 8:35:08 AM | I don't think I'll give him another chance. I'll forgive him, but I really don't think I risk myself again by going back to him if given the chance...
I was ready to be with him 100% of the way...but lately, he didn't give me the impression or the assurance that he likes me and wanted to be with me....Did all the right things at the beginning, went cold as ice on the 3rd week....
But! as someone told me: "forget him and move on! someone will see you for all you're worth and that fool will be sorry he ever let you go!   | |
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Posted: 11/10/2006 10:39:40 AM | You didn't make it past the 2 week decision point, it's just that simple.
Us men, tend to break up at certain time intervals:
a) after first date
b) after 2 weeks
c) after 1 month
d) after 3 months
e) after 6 months
f) after 7 years of marraige
g) when we hit 43
Now, this logic does break down if good food is involved. | |
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Posted: 11/11/2006 1:30:41 PM | Dang, so I should have cooked some food...
*Note to self: cook food in order to have them hanging around longer....*
Didn't know there was time intervalls involved in this... I think for girls I'd be more whether he does certain things or not...if he's too much of one thing or another
-He doesn't dress well enough
-He dresses better then you
-Says I love you too soon
-Doesn't say I love you until you head-lock him
-Not romantic enough
-Too romantic
List goes on...
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| What happened?!
Posted: 11/11/2006 2:24:11 PM | It's possible that he was talking to other girls and he found someone he liked better. But, I think it's more likely that he thought he was gonna get into your pants. At first, he probably thought he was ok with not having sex, but he changed his mind and didn't have the nerve to tell you. I say don't bother calling him. He's not worth your time. I can tell you really liked him, but there will be better guys out there.
You are a cute girl...of course he wanted to get into your pants eventually! ;-) | |
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Posted: 11/11/2006 2:58:58 PM | ^^^ !
Yes I did start to really like him too, forget.regret, but then this thing happened. So although I'm not in tears about it, it does kinda hurt. But I'm all good about it. It was a learning experience, I know what to look for and my "red flag-o-meter" will work better!   
Thank you for the compliment, I AM a cute girl, and a GREAT girl at that! hahah
(And the rest of you girls are too! =) ) | |
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Posted: 11/11/2006 3:41:56 PM | C... NO NO NO, dont call him. You have your answer which is no answer.
He wanted to get into your pants... you were the ultimate challenge and he figured out he wasnt going to win. Or, he found someone else that he felt more compatible with. Either way, its his loss... not yours.
Whatever you do, please dont wait around for him. If a guy likes you... he doesnt make you wait around. Period. | |
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Posted: 11/11/2006 5:06:17 PM | Cinderoo... I have seen your posts in other forums and I just wanted to say that I have huge respect for you and your commitment to your beliefs. Not everyone is so strong. Stay that way, you will NEVER regret it!!!
Mr_Ultimo..... you forgot one.....
You didn't make it past the 2 week decision point, it's just that simple.
Us men, tend to break up at certain time intervals:
a) after first date
b) after 2 weeks
c) after 1 month
d) after 3 months
e) after 6 months
f) after 7 years of marraige
g) when we hit 43
h) whenever midlife crisis hits (usually late 30's early 40's) | |
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Posted: 11/12/2006 5:16:43 AM | | Only he knows what happened or did not happen NO dont call if he wants you and is willing to spend the time he will call... Now im not saying to all the other women not to have sex after a couple of dates lol But he should earn that ever so allusive and amazing gift of a womens flesh | |
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Posted: 11/12/2006 12:20:16 PM | Ok...I can only speak from MY point of view...keep that in mind.
First Question...Was he religious too? I'm willing to bet he wasn't. In that situation it became cleat to him that there was a definite rift in his personal beliefs and his. So Don't sweat this...you did nothing wrong and you should know that it NEVER could have worked anyways. The very religious and the non-religious have too many conflicting ideals. You're better off that it did not continue.
It's just a low thing to never call after hanging out the amount you did. No contact is even lower than breaking up over an email...and that's about as cheesy at it can get. lol | |
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| What happened?!
Posted: 11/12/2006 4:50:54 PM | Mr_Ultimo,
I thought maybe as much, but I wanted to expound on it... lol 
Me | |
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| What happened?!
Posted: 11/12/2006 5:42:53 PM | (Clever Handle)
Well, he wasn't religious in the sense of waiting until getting married to have sex like me and stuff but he was a muslim...although he wasn't a strict pratitioner and all. And true that often times someone who actually lives by their religion have a harder time dating people who are more liberal in their views, but that shouldn't account for the fact that all ties went as dry as a Melba bread...I would have much rather him telling me in my face bluntly that he would not be able to do this than him slipping out the back door like that butler in mr.deeds(you know...the sneaky one, the one that has a foot fetish... loved that movie!!)
*********UPDATE!********
Well I forgot to write this on Friday night (it was 1 in the morn...so it was more like Sat. morn =p), but I talked to him on MSN and he told me that he "needed to have a serious discussion" (paraphrased) with me, and that he'd call me sometimes this weekend....I asked him if he was REALLY going to call me. He said "for sure!"
....well this weekend is passing and going, and no phone calls yet.
Am I surprised that he has (again!) not called? Not so much
Slightly irked and irritated that once again, hasn't acted on his (own) words?
..Yes, yes I am.
This boy I tell you! *sigh and throws hands in the air in frustration* | |
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Posted: 11/13/2006 10:43:08 AM | ***********OTHER UPDATE!!!!************
Well, as of today, I finally know why the standoff!
He was starting to see someone else during this weekend. So, for everyone who voted "he went to see some other girl who would have sex with him", you can give yourself 5 brownie points  .
And for me, I'll be fine. It's nothing good friends, Lindt chocolates, a one hour man-bashing session (sorry fellas all girls do it at some point, it just feels good and then we can move on ), and a box of kleenex won't solve.
..Although it does suck to be the "springboard" of another relationship....oh well. I don't hold anything against him and I forgive him, even if i had to talk to him on MSN and ask him what he wanted to talk to me about....May he live a good life, and he will now become a "almost bf that became a friend instead" guy. hahahahah.
Thank you to all you POFers that read and put their 2cents in, your outputs were great and good lucky findidng someone, if you haven't already!!
As for me, it's back to casting off the nets....Ha!!
Much Love,
C. | |
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Joined: 2/27/2006
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| What happened?!
Posted: 11/13/2006 4:17:56 PM | | Yep. I KNEW it. 5 points for me!! What you should do is look for a guy like me who is so fukking weird that no women would want to have sex with him. Then he will have no choise but to stay with you. You really are a hottie. If you are depressed try the opera - always works for me. Better than the Lindts. | |
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