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Posted: 8/10/2004 6:26:19 AM | hi this is in respond to sunny37's reply on older woman and young er woman i have tried this 4 times now it didnt work and i am new to this site so dont no how to get arund it yet..but i was told that u have to reply to the last post for it to post....so once again let me try this again
no baby u got it rong its the younger ones that will want marriage and babies....we older ones have been throu it all and dam if i am goin to do that again...as a matter of fact thats y i prefer younger guys ..no strings or commitments wid most neways....if a guy goes up to a young gurl in the bar, just to say hi even, she gets all giddy and thinks he is in luv wid her and thats it ....if u have sex wid them watch out they get all crazed if u dont call them the next day.....u no the young and giddy stage , its actually entertainin to watch sum of them wid there b/f's in the bar..wen me and my freinds go for walks we can see the young ones tryin to look from the corner of there eye so there g/f doest see..to funny...but at my, no young gurl is goin to tell me to not talk to her b/f or even hey wink at him....u live and learn....dont get me rong , its all part of learning and growin we all been there....i actualy believe ..live for the moment ur only young once , experience , grow, cause that age never comes back | |
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yna6
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| Re: Older women dating younger guys......
Posted: 8/10/2004 7:51:36 AM | | Someone mentioned aging and maybe wanting kids....but many older women already had theirs....so YOU get to be a lazy bugger and not go through the hassels! Plus-side point! Older women are a lot of fun! They also seem to be a bit more "down to earth" in their thinking and spending habits...not ALWAYS...but quite often. They realize that "YES"...you DO have to work a lot of overtime to get to where you are going, and YES, you DO need to relax a bit after work without having to run,run,run, every waking minute. Shift work is a problem in any relationship...but what has to be has to be. Younger women don't seem to get it at times. Takes a lot of give and take on both sides...so here's to older women! | |
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Posted: 8/11/2004 1:58:07 PM | | So, I guess my prediction of the older women/younger guys is pretty close. I would really want to meet someone older for experient and post on here. I've been told that older women are more fun and of course very sexually satisfying. Well, I am continuing my search..... | |
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Joined: 5/2/2004
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Posted: 8/13/2004 12:07:40 AM | If ya get one real old ya can sex em till they have a coronry and make sure the insurance is paid up first!
KIDDING!
Though it has been done by younger woman to older guys...hmmm...
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Posted: 8/21/2004 12:54:50 AM | | I think that older women are the best, they have experince smart, and most of the time they know where there going in life , if i haddn't met an older woman when i was 18 who knows what might have happen to me. i'm 35 now and i'm thankful for my older teacher i have more respect for women. well thats all folks, peace out! | |
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Posted: 8/27/2004 6:45:21 PM |
jumbojackla;
Question for you; What are you going to do when she says "Get in, Hang on, and Shut Up!"
You may not be able to handle an older woman!!
Dr. Bud | |
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Posted: 8/27/2004 7:31:42 PM | budsmith.... :-) thankyou thankyou THANKYOU!! ater 9 hours of working with the PUBLIC you made me smile & giggle!
(my ex-boyfriend of four & a half years is 7 years younger than me and the Gentleman i am "interested" in here is 6 years younger than me...
depends on personality and characteristics... etc etc...
(and hormones! blush :-) Later, blondago56/ mary m.
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Posted: 6/12/2005 3:14:09 AM | | jumbojackla, I don't see anything wrong with women dating men that are younger than they are, if it is for the right reasons and not such a huge age difference. You are saying as high as 50? I am 48 and there is no way I would date someone your age, as it would make me feel like a border line child molester. | |
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Posted: 6/12/2005 4:41:00 AM | ok. in my experience... older woman can be a great thing for younger guys.
when i was 22, i started dating a woman who was 35. we dated (and lived together even) for 3 years. it sadly ended on a very bad note. near the end of our relationship she started accusing me of cheating... almost daily. so i guess my point is this:
it's a good idea for young guys to date older woman... but only till they are a couple years older and wiser because of these woman. now, if the relationship is still going good and strong.. great... but if it's fliundering... it's probably going to end. so i say seperate on good terms. and each go your own ways knowing that you made the other persons life just a little better.
i learned a hell of a lot from my relationship... i just wish things hadn't ended on a bad note. :( | |
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Posted: 6/12/2005 7:21:46 AM | | I have younger twenty somethings hitting on me often. I put it on the table that I'm not interested in getting sexually involved right away. A younger guy can be fun, but heck i can hang out with my kids and their friends that are the same age. At least those are people that I know and trust and we have some great times. Many younger guys are fed up with the women their age, they're shallow and have no depth. No surprise, they don't have much life experience yet. The type of relationship that I want as someone to be an equal partner with me, to have great conversations with and be able to know me and understand me well, I don't think a younger person could give me intellectually and mentally or emotionally what I want. I dated one guy 2 years, 10 years younger and he ended up being selfish and wanting a woman to take care of him, it ended quickly. I dated another younger guy that was very smart hard working, he just lived 2 hours away, so it tapered off. Personally, I don't want to invest my time tutoring someone in the lessons of life and/or sex. The younger ones don't have the emotional or other maturity for me. To the OP, if that's what you want and you're completely honest then fine. But all you talked about is what you wanted an older woman for, not what you could offer her. That's the impression I got from it anyway. My teaching days are over, I want someone who's experienced enough sexually that I can enjoy it with him and not be telling him what to do or not to do. I can't see that as being stimulating, exciting or fun. The bedroom should be a playground not a classroom. That being said it reminds me I need to take my chalkboard down out of my bedroom.....HA! Couldn't help but throw that in... | |
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| Older women dating younger guys......
Posted: 6/12/2005 7:23:30 AM | Call an escort service and ask them to send you an older attractive lady.
Nothing but pure sexual bliss without any strings attached.  | |
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Posted: 2/29/2008 3:42:59 AM | See this is the issue I have with this topic. Like the young man who started this thread, I am also very attracted to mature females and very attracted to mature white females-(I am black by the way)
The problem I find is the contradiction. For example I find the same obstacles with older women as the comments that were made in this thread. For example one woman stated that "there is more to women and don't you know that women don't like to be used for sex" while another woman said that 'most younger men she meet are shallow and have no depth'.
Then you have others that will say that younger men get too attached when many 'mature women' just want to have a good time and enjoy the moment while it lasts.
Its like mature women that are attracted to younger men don't know what they want. Those that say younger men are shallow and have no depth, I will argue that those "mature" women are not willing to get to know younger men on a deeper level and are approaching younger men with prejudices and perceived notions.
I mean ofcourse if you are 51 years old and and a 31 year old approaches you, he is in a different place then you are, hasn't experienced every thing you have but that doesn't mean he doesn't have any depth. If you were more open minded then maybe you could see that that person has a lot more to offer.
Also there is more then just a sexual relationship or a long term relationship. I see so many people put relationships in these two categories and these two categories only. Yes it is less of a chance that the larger the age gap is the lesser chance there is for a long term relationship but why should you go into looking at it like that?
If you are an mature woman and there is an attractive young male seeking your attention, your affection and dare I say- your sexual satisfaction and you wish to be reciprocal, that doesn't mean that you can only have an strict sexual relationship or only a long term serious relationship.
Why not develop an friendship on experiences, likes, dislikes, activities and others that you share and also enjoy a very sexual relationship as long as it lasts or whenever one of you wish to end the relationship. It doesn't always have to be one or the other.
I haven't had an sexual relationship with an older woman since 2004 but during that time I was 25 and she was 53 years old. It was mostly an sexual relationship but it was a friendship as well. It was very rewarding for us both and enjoyable while it lasted and when it ended, it ended on a positive note. She respected me and my ideas and respected me as a person. Unfortunately it appears that many older females are more reluctant to allow themselves to experience the relationship with a younger male whether it is a purely sexual relationship, a more serious long termed relationship or something more. | |
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Posted: 2/29/2008 3:49:48 AM | Dear Jumbojack, lol....You must be confused on your many profiles on various sites...this is "plenty of fish", not adult friend finders! bye bye | |
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| Older Women a fetish?? WTF??
Posted: 2/29/2008 8:53:04 PM | | A fetish is something meaning arousal from something non sexual in nature. So the idea of you banging an older woman is a preference. | |
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Posted: 4/26/2008 6:42:24 PM | | i was40 and my neighbor lady was 67 and single, when my wife and i split up she invited me over to her house to talk. she was hispanic and was very classy and not bad looking. well it didnt take long for her to let me know she needed some and how dumb my wife was kicking me out.it wasnt long at all and she was naked, ready to go. she had a hard body and killer ass, she didnt complain i pumped her hard for hours. her puss had to be sore. till this day i still **** her ass off. i dont know to many young girls who can **** like that. i would like to find me another older female to take care of my needs. | |
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Posted: 4/26/2008 7:09:14 PM | So, if you do find an older woman, how long a relationship did you have in mind? I know one can never predict these things, but I suspect you are not interested in long term. Has it occurred to you that mature women are probably looking for something more meaningful than a few months with a young man who is really only interested in sex?
Is there a secret club out there or something for young men swap tales and urge each other to contact older women? I've had no end of approaches like this and it is not funny or even flattering. When I queried one man's motives, he said he thought I would be flattered that he'd contacted me. Great, so he thinks he's offering to do me a favour it seems. I know exactly what these women will tell you, they will say 'you are too young for me', which can be translated as meaning, 'I don't believe for one minute that you are interested in me as a person'. It doesn't actually mean 'try and persuade me that you really are interested in older women' . Sorry, but you are out of your depth. | |
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Posted: 9/25/2008 7:06:30 AM | Reviving this thread so I am not being redundant in starting a new one! LOL
You know...I get the young guys hitting on me, often. And when I say "young"...I mean young enough to be my son! (Most are my son's age...early 20's) This has so much "ick factor" for me! And I cannot understand it EVER working for anything other than a "May/December" or "Mrs. Jones" kind of sexual relationship.
Heck....I am going back and forth in emails with one here...who INSISTS that I should give him one chance...and the little sh1t just does not comprehend how wrong this is.
Heck...if we were out at a bar or something, and I noticed his shoe untied....what would be a completely normal thing to alert them, with anyone else, would turn into a motherly thing with them..."Sweetie...your shoe is untied!"  | |
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Posted: 9/25/2008 7:17:14 AM | No, A motherly thing....would be to bend over and tie it for him! Afterall, he hasn't figured out how to do baby knots yet!
What I find to be unusual.............
At 35, I get more interest from the older and younger crowd, than I do from women my own age.
I'm not exactly sure why that is, nor am I complaining. | |
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Posted: 9/25/2008 7:25:41 AM | ^^^True!
I think 30's is the neutral age...you are not "too old" to not be cool with the younger crowd, and you are not "too young" to make the older crowd feel pedophilic!
When you hit the 40's, especially when you have kids in their 20's....it becomes weird. Not that it is not ok to just hang with or befriend...I get along incredibly with my kids friends....but I get along even better with their father's!  | |
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Posted: 9/25/2008 7:27:22 AM | | I am now an "older" woman and frankly, all these threads on pof about older women and younger men BORE ME TO DEATH. What is this freakin' obsession?? | |
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