| Need advise - My Boyfriend been with 105 Girls!!!!
Posted: 11/10/2006 11:01:56 PM | | Honey, you are both too young. Listen to Tom Leykis Talk 103.5 Mon-Fri at 3:00pmPST. He will clue you in on what alot of kids your age are doing. It's sad, but true. Work on your own career. Make your relationships only one part, of many parts in your life. So when one part ends, (nothing lasts forever) you will adapt. If a guy sleeps with 105 girls, he's a hero, if a girl does, she's a whore. Go figure. be safe and don't get any diseases! You might be one of the lucky ones who finds true love someday. | |
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| Need advise - My Boyfriend been with 105 Girls!!!!
Posted: 11/10/2006 11:03:22 PM | Have him tested, most definitely. Most of those 105 women have probably heard the same thing he's telling you. I've been with about 100 women, but I'm 40 ****ing 3 years old.
Just protect yourself, and don't let love blind you to the truth. I know, easier said than done. | |
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| Need advise - My Boyfriend been with 105 Girls!!!!
Posted: 11/10/2006 11:12:41 PM | I would tell him, that you believe in equality. You'll be back in a few years if he's willing to wait. Then disappear for a year or so.
Alternatively, I would ask for names and phone numbers so I could verify the numbers. After all, he might have missed one. | |
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| Need advise - My Boyfriend been with 105 Girls!!!!
Posted: 11/10/2006 11:20:22 PM | The points are
Do you want him?
What kind of relationship do you want?=Who do you want yourself to be?
That's all.
For me, it sounds like he is a bit insecure. I don't think a man that sleeps with hundreds women tells it honestly unless he is insecure or he is a complicated player. And you know, insecurity and mind game favor... both of them are pretty hard to deal with. Maybe there will be a harder path in front of you.
But who cares what other people say? He is your man. Past serves as one useful reference. But no one can change his/ her past. What you share with him is only in future. There's no man with no insecurity or no shit in his past... unless he is a snot lol He is 24, older than it.
Think. Take time. Tell him no sex till you are 100% sure. Let him get a check before it.
Well, he said it's different with you? Then let him prove it 
Good luck and be happy! | |
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| Need advise - My Boyfriend been with 105 Girls!!!!
Posted: 11/10/2006 11:28:30 PM |
Any guy who can patiently wait that long is being honest with you.
But I'd ask for weekly updates on the numbers. After five weeks you, would be, if he is keeping up averages, about 107 or 108. No matter, he didn't love those either, just something to do while he was waiting for you. | |
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| Need advise - My Boyfriend been with 105 Girls!!!!
Posted: 11/10/2006 11:30:23 PM | | Hi As im 49 and been married twice I offer this advise; We all have a past and thats where it should be kept. Dont think about it, as its not a problem unless he is doing all the girls at once. Mind you men dont have that much energy anyway. Really it doesnt matter as long as he is clean. And think of the experience he has. Well one would hope he knows what he is doing by now. Just my thoughts. | |
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| Need advise - My Boyfriend been with 105 Girls!!!!
Posted: 11/11/2006 7:11:37 AM | | OBL.....yes sir, you do have some major problems, aside from letting you penis do all tha thinking for you." Just have some sex and get it over w/, you'll feel better I promise"?????worst advice I ever heard.......I have sex cause I don't wanna, no issues there, I just don't wanna.....no wonder you're single....... | |
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| Need advise - My Boyfriend been with 105 Girls!!!!
Posted: 11/11/2006 7:26:43 AM | you will be just another notch on the bed post...he may be a smooth talker...once he gets what he wants from you...he will hit the happy trail to find another...wake up and smell the coffee!
sweet talking you........he is telling you all "you" want to hear..he must have a good game....it must be working....105....thats a little hard to believe....and why in the world would he tell you something like that...he is trying to prove something to himself only.  | |
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| Need advise - My Boyfriend been with 105 Girls!!!!
Posted: 11/11/2006 9:17:08 AM |
And think of the experience he has. Well one would hope he knows what he is doing by now.
Hmm, his experience is he goes through girlfriends as frequently as he changes his underwear. He knows what he is doing by now for sure--Mr. Slick. If you want to sex him, you'll have good sex, just be prepared to be tossed into the hamper with the rest of his changed underwear. And go to the doctor too if you've sexed him. | |
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| Need advise - My Boyfriend been with 105 Girls!!!!
Posted: 11/11/2006 9:29:38 AM | Don't know if the figures have changed, but if you sleep with a girl,guy its like sleeping with 10 others, so in his case 1050 others, some where along the line an std has bound to pop up by accident or so.
Wrap you self in a body condem. Uck.
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| Need advise - My Boyfriend been with 105 Girls!!!!
Posted: 11/11/2006 8:05:52 PM | I don't believe it comparing "sex stories."
When it comes down to it, the past really shouldn't matter if someone really cares for you.
Yes, you might want to be sure both of you are tested, so you feel secure that he's clean. | |
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| Need advise - My Boyfriend been with 105 Girls!!!!
Posted: 11/12/2006 2:43:45 AM | Here is what I think.
I was really curious once how my number compared to my girlfriend's number.
It was fun, and we were having fun talking.
The number for him, and how it sounds like it was presented to you, sounds
scary- even if it is a story. | |
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| Need advise - My Boyfriend been with 105 Girls!!!!
Posted: 11/12/2006 7:04:44 AM | Well, well, well
Basically, both of us felt like we click together well. And we decided to be in a serious relationship. So, we decided to talk about our past to each other. In that way, we will be truthful to each other in the future. We thought that gonna be a good base of the relationship.
Thats where i came to knw abt the 105 chicks!! My 1st impression was: '' Pouf! Is he some kinda James Bond? How the hell did he count zat!''
BUT i should admit, he volunteered to do the test before i ask him. (though he keep saying he had it protected all the time).
The only reason he gave me for not being in a relationshp was: '' Coz i never met the right girl and those girls didnt want commitmt anyway. But i always wanna settle down once i met my right girl.''
Yea, he do treat me wiz respect, support me morally to achieve my goal and always protect me.
I sud admit he is a good human being. But as someone said earlier '''Past is a good reference for future''. Thats y i came here for advice.... | |
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| Need advise - My Boyfriend been with 105 Girls!!!!
Posted: 11/12/2006 7:21:41 AM | Hey AngieGurl,
Listen to every else who posted get tested, both of you get tested. Regardless of anyone's numbers it is responsible to get tested before you become intimate with someone, and vice versas. Based on the fact that he is 24 and never been in a "relationship" sends a red flag, so proceed with caution. Trust your instincts on this, if you think he is a lair - ask him questions, call him on it. But if you think he is geniune - he could be ready, watch the red flags and be careful where you put your heart. | |
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| Need advise - My Boyfriend been with 105 Girls!!!!
Posted: 11/12/2006 7:27:42 AM | You want advice:
Dump his lying azz. At 24 years old there is no possible way he was with 105 girls. If he is willing to lie about some thing like that, he will lie about everything else too. RUN AWAY | |
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| Need advise - My Boyfriend been with 105 Girls!!!!
Posted: 12/9/2006 1:34:02 AM | | One of my close friends in highschool was like that, he had access to every girl in his vacinity. Personally in your case I give you alot of respect being #106, you have to wonder though did he say that to #105? or #95? or #23, seriously you didn't fall for that did you? Now if it was me and a female told me she had more than 10 partners at just 23 I would have got rid of her in a New York minute, but this is a judgement call some people don't care being in a line that long, some people like the express line it's a little shorter. | |
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| Need advise - My Boyfriend been with 105 Girls!!!!
Posted: 12/9/2006 2:05:20 AM | | "HE SAID HE NEVER DID IT UNPROTECTED" i dont know this man but i think he is a f**cking lier!!! im finding that ^ very very hard to beilive !!!!!! how does it feel to be the 104th girl ???? hes probly got got STD which means so have you ..............good luck girl !!!!!!!!!! | |
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