| Filling the Lonely Times
Posted: 11/26/2006 9:11:49 AM | | Well one mystery solved...now if i could just find the answers to mine...lol... | |
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Frozyn
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Joined: 11/6/2006
Msg: 402 | |
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| Filling the Lonely Times
Posted: 11/27/2006 7:56:49 AM | I have been trying to fill my time with something I have always wanted to do. For example I was looking over the weekend at somewhere to maybe take some dance lessons. I have always wanted to do that. Also giving my time to a good cause, helping out at an animal shelter..
Maybe just think about what makes you happy and doing something just for yourself!
Take care... | |
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Posted: 11/27/2006 8:42:55 AM | I have been making music since 15, and im 19 now. Whenever I'm lonely, I pick up me guitar and I play whatever comes to mind, even if I'm playing the same three notes over and over ( the story of my life) for an hour or so. Revel in the lonely times. It could be the best inspiration for a painting, song, or poem. And who knows, maybe somebody might like what you have done, and that could be good for connection with someone who feels the same.
I have music to talk to me when I'm feeling down. It's not the same as a human-being laying next to you, talking to you about her day at work; and running her fingers through your hair. But music does it for me. And you know,  sometimes it gets me to do other things as well, it motivates me. It brings me out of my depression and I get things done, like cleaning my room.
Personally, I doubt that I could ever have a serious relationship when my career grows. Touring, recording, among other things; would keep me a lonely man. And really, I'm fine with that. Not everyone is made for relationships, and I've accepted that fact. I wouldn't turn the chance down though.  | |
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| Filling the Lonely Times
Posted: 11/27/2006 8:48:58 AM | | Hey, Dana, you missed your appointment last night in the back booth at Lucky's. Everyone got bitten but you. | |
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Petey™
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Joined: 2/5/2006
Msg: 409 | |
| Filling the Lonely Times
Posted: 11/27/2006 8:58:26 AM | Well Gish.............dance lessons sound like fun.......and as you said your doing something for yourself. 
Since you live close too.......you should come out and meet the gang Thursday nights at Puckers......it's only 10 minutes from you !!!!!!!!! | |
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| Filling the Lonely Times
Posted: 11/27/2006 9:02:49 AM |
Hey, Dana, you missed your appointment last night in the back booth at Lucky's. Everyone got bitten but you.
Oh well .... sh!t happens,
But, trust me,
It was worth missing Lucky's for,
I had fun doing what I was doing. | |
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| Filling the Lonely Times
Posted: 11/27/2006 9:07:37 AM | | Oh, uh-huh, uh-huh. Don't make me get out the thumb screws to make you talk!!! | |
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| Filling the Lonely Times
Posted: 11/27/2006 9:31:31 AM | | Sharon, Speaking of talking, tell us how the new outfit worked out !!! | |
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Posted: 11/27/2006 2:36:15 PM |
Sharon, Speaking of talking, tell us how the new outfit worked out !!!
Dana, I think some may not know what my face looks like. I only know that PawPawKen included me in the cleavage ticket depository.  | |
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| Filling the Lonely Times
Posted: 11/27/2006 3:57:03 PM | | but those tickets were winners, guess if you want a winning ticket let pawpawken place it close to heart! he does need to warm up those hands though! | |
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Posted: 11/28/2006 12:46:28 PM | | oops, pawpawken, what happened to her ticket? our were winners...... | |
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Posted: 12/2/2006 7:50:34 AM | Living can be lonely, and lonely can be living, but it's what I do with living while I'm lonely, that determines if I'm lonely while I'm living.
I think that makes sense in the way I wrote that. I might have even confused myself. | |
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Petey™
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Joined: 2/5/2006
Msg: 419 | |
| Filling the Lonely Times
Posted: 12/2/2006 8:06:12 AM | KW...........I read that 3 times.............
Is there gunna be a test later? | |
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| Filling the Lonely Times
Posted: 12/2/2006 8:39:42 AM | Living can be lonely, and lonely can be living, but it's what I do with living while I'm lonely, that determines if I'm lonely while I'm living.
Why are we all so lonely? It seems that are so many things to do out there that we would never be lonely - POF gatherings, church gatherings, family gatherings, POF forums, ad nauseum (sp?). Not only are we lonely but we're bitter, too. With lots of excuses for why we can't find anyone. Does anyone really have an answer other than get up off your a*** and live your life? | |
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Posted: 1/24/2007 12:33:43 AM | Maybe it's habit forming to do stuff alone, maybe not, but when I did it for 2 years from 2002-2004, I find myself enjoying my time alone at home than with somebody. I can honestly say I know what true solitary confinement feels like.
Not only are we lonely but we're bitter, too
Who said being home alone all the time makes anyone bitter?
Sure, it would be nice to have someone to talk to at night, other than the fish, cat & dog. But, it doesn't mean I'm just going to take in ANYBODY.
My brother & dad did that. Role model examples of why I'm glad I'm still single and didn't tie the knot with just anyone.
I've found a new hobby of electric trains. I can dive into working on the layout whenever I want to. I'm a mayor, landscaper,conductor, engineer, coordinator, and many other things.
I can jump in the truck, go for a drive through the country or wherever I want to go, and change the scenery for a while.
I can hook up the camper, go hit the campground for the weekend & do some fishing whenever I want to.
I don't drink, and feel no need to be in a bar by myself, so I don't do bars that often.
with toying with screenwriting, I can dive into a section that I'm writing, and have on distractions.
The only time it does get bothersome is not having someone to share fun times with.
Not too shabby for someone that should get up off your a*** (one extra star must be anus instead of the 3 letter version) and live my life! | |
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Posted: 3/3/2007 8:12:45 PM | I wonder why some days or evenings have that lonely feeling about them. This is one of those nights for me. I'm really feeling tonight that I want the man portion of my life settled. It would be nice to have that platform set to work the rest of my life from. If only I knew what is causing the hold up on that.
I think of the movie, "Romancing the Stone," where Joan Wilder is enamored with a faceless figure she calls Jesse. He represents the one and only who can fill her lonely place. I think we all have that faceless figure that we are missing and keep looking for. This person is a faceless stranger we are convinced is the only one who can come into our lives and fill the emptiness described in this song. It's like we know this person somehow but they keep escaping just beyond our grasp. The face never comes into view.
Are You Lonesome Tonight?
~ Elvis Presley
Are you lonesome tonight
do you miss me tonight
Are you sorry we drifted apart
Does your memory stray to a bright sunny day
When I kissed you and called you sweetheart
Do the chairs in your parlor seem empty and bare
Do you gaze at your doorstep and picture me there
Is your heart filled with pain, shall I come back again
Tell me dear, are you lonesome tonight
Spoken:
I wonder if you're lonesome tonight
You know someone said that the world's a stage
And each must play a part
Fate had me playing in love you as my sweet heart
Act one was when we met, I loved you at first glance
You read your line so cleverly and never missed a cue
Then came act two, you seemed to change and you acted strange
And why I'll never know
Honey, you lied when you said you loved me
And I had no cause to doubt you
But I'd rather go on hearing your lies
Than go on living without you
Now the stage is bare and I'm standing there
With emptiness all around
And if you won't come back to me
Then they can bring the curtain down
Is your heart filled with pain, shall I come back again
Tell me dear, are you lonesome tonight | |
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| Filling the Lonely Times
Posted: 3/3/2007 8:33:39 PM | | Its normal for me to feel lonely i often drive during the night hrs and sleep during the day so i dont talk on the cell much. or go to public places to conversate for any length of time. So the next best thing is to get the other drivers all rowdy on politics or something on the c.b driving down the road... | |
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| Filling the Lonely Times
Posted: 7/23/2007 7:40:25 PM | Filling the lonely times.
Well some might say after seeing the threads tonight that i fill the lonely times by bringing back old threads. Tonight is my tribute to Dr. K! She has had many great threads and tonight while I sit home alone, as the grandson is staying with his great grandparents I'm searching the threads for some of CK's best work! | |
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| Filling the Lonely Times
Posted: 7/23/2007 8:34:14 PM | Good job fka, you're filling it by being a very good friend, a fine gesture for someone you admired so much. | |
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