| What do you ladies prefer...Muscular, Skinny or Fat guys?
Posted: 1/20/2006 7:02:30 AM | | I wouldn't worry about that electric_jester62, I too have had a low self image about myself at times. I have always admired the size of my father and never liked the size of my somewhat small hands. But when I look at the size of some small women's hands, I feel better. So always look on the brighter side. There is a woman that will appreciate your size and stature. | |
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| What do you ladies prefer...Muscular, Skinny or Fat guys?
Posted: 1/20/2006 9:12:28 AM | | Well i am not as picky as some when it comes to looks. I mean I am not very attracted to skinny men.. I like guys who are cuddly like teddy bears and I also have no probs with guys that are muscular. whats more important to me is their personality and how they treat me | |
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| What do you ladies prefer...Muscular, Skinny or Fat guys?
Posted: 1/20/2006 9:16:55 AM | preferably, more on the skinny side with a little muscle is perfect. i think youre in great shape, and the funny thing is...
ive had a lot of guy friends with the same dilemma! they were overweight and had a gf, in good shape and dont.
so...i'll tell ya what i told them.what i really think it is, is intimidation. personally, my husband was very approachable because he is skinny and thats part of the reason i had an easier time letting myself get to know him. guys that are muscular come across as arrogant sometimes, even when they arent trying to be. if you look good (and you know you do), try your hardest not to flaunt it. trust me, your body will speak for itself. all you gotta do is be a good guy and let your personality stand out the most. i dont know if that helps at all, but thats just a page from my book of experiences.
of course, that only helps if youre looking for an honest girl. if thats not what youre into, the bimbos will come a 'runnin anyway you dish it. | |
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| What do you ladies prefer...Muscular, Skinny or Fat guys?
Posted: 1/20/2006 9:48:46 AM | Funny how image is so important, yet we will all say we want personality. But image is the main ingedient. Shows how we have all evolved.
I know a guy who spends all his money on his car (payments and insurance) and clothes. He works at two part time jobs making just enough to get by from week to week. BUT you would not believe how the women flock to him. Only because he drives a 35K car and wears all the best clothes. Yet he can't afford to pay when on a date. Unreal how it will still score the women. They end up paying on the date because he is broke. | |
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| What do you ladies prefer...Muscular, Skinny or Fat guys?
Posted: 1/20/2006 9:59:59 AM | | haha although he gets dates anyhow and he gets second dates, he makes up some BS line and so the women seem impressed by his looks, image and car and think he will pay the next time. By the next time he is already in thier pants so he is doing something right. Sad how it works becasue i do not even get first dates!!! | |
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| What do you ladies prefer...Muscular, Skinny or Fat guys?
Posted: 1/20/2006 10:06:04 AM | | Well for my two cents...i prefer skinny guys or average....i dont find over hunky guys attractive....i do want someone who isnt to into the big bulked out body look....i find that being healthy is good enough for me....i think muscle men are abit laughable....just too much ...Men i think women dont need you to be all muscle ..i think we want more of how you treat us and have heart then muscle....Now i love the skinny men the most tho...why well because iv always found them to be a packin....packin? Well all im going say on that issue...you'll have to get my meaning yourself on that one ha.!. So i say yes to those men who feel they need to work out to stop it....yes stop....we want a loving heart not a hard body...muscles are not bad just not to much of em....the Deb | |
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| What do you ladies prefer...Muscular, Skinny or Fat guys?
Posted: 1/20/2006 10:08:04 AM | he makes up some BS line and so the women seem impressed by his looks, image and car
Don't worry about that I'm hopeful that you wouldn't want to date a girl that falls for that crap anyway! Usually women can get an idea thats its bs anyway, at least thats how I am and I hope most women are.  | |
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| What do you ladies prefer...Muscular, Skinny or Fat guys?
Posted: 1/20/2006 2:20:09 PM | Muscular Guy - He has the six-pack, but I really prefer to drink a six - pack then look at one. But I like his guns, they are good for making me feel protected.
Skinny Guy - He might not be able to wrestle or protect me but he's hyper and can keep up with me.
Fat Guy - He offers that feeling of cuddly bear but he probably has his own issues which he thinks are my issues about him which couldn't be further from the truth.
Soooooo... I put all three into the blender and come out with Wonder-Man!  | |
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| What do you ladies prefer...Muscular, Skinny or Fat guys?
Posted: 2/2/2006 2:12:36 AM | | While some have said and others have disputed that a woman might be attracted to a man's personality I have to say that is where I sit. I don't want to be with a man who looks in the mirror more than he looks at me, just the same as I would prefer a man who pays more attention to me than he does his bank account. I am in shape but no body builder and I expect the same from a man. I am more prone to be attracted to height, hands, shoulders and eyes and too much muscle turns me off. If you can keep me guessing and keep me laughing, you're a keeper. | |
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| What do you ladies prefer...Muscular, Skinny or Fat guys?
Posted: 2/3/2006 11:07:08 PM |
Right now I feel the best I ever had about myself. It is funny though I always had a Girlfriend when I was fat and skinny but now that I am in great shape and musclular I dont have one now
a little advice from a young'n
mostlikly this is because your either good looking..
and like u say athletic u msut have a nice body..
my understanding is that the opposite sex, gerenally tends to avoid this
because of the chance of you cheating. because u can get alot of chicks,
more than that of a fat or skinny person would.
and that a fat or skinny person would "treat" them better because
they know there not jsut with them for looks.
ive had this problem to. but wuts funny is me n my best friend always pondering.
howcome i dont have a gf. when im good looking.. probably one of the nicest guys they'll ever meet, and yeah..
this is just my opinion so.. | |
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| What do you ladies prefer...Muscular, Skinny or Fat guys?
Posted: 2/5/2006 1:07:39 AM | | Well, it doesn't matter to me as long as he's confident in himself. I love that about a man. I don't mean****, I mean confident. **** comes across to me as false. And is a turn off. It's like lying to me. Confident, is the way to go. That seems to lean more towards being true. Like he knows what he wants and how to get it, but as a gentleman of course. | |
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| What do you ladies prefer...Muscular, Skinny or Fat guys?
Posted: 2/5/2006 4:32:55 AM | well heres my $0.02
I find that there are lots of women that don't like their men too big as i know from relpies
I myself like women petite that love big cuddly men
as some women said on here they love big man with huge chest and huge strong arms around them as they feel very safe and protected
I respect that women have preferences and hate those sterio typical women that think us big men aka gym guys have no self asteem or egos too big and all the rest I am very secure in myself and workout cause I like to be in shape and was that bodybuilder type once upon a time (more on the ripped side) but now stay big and strong
but I have intellect and savy not just brawn...I can form sentences and in fact have long post secondary education as is required in my proffession
but there will always be prefered types and stereo typing as well
take me or leave me I don't care and won't get mad about it either
besides there are so many beautiful women out there ....just look at all the beauties that replied on here you women are all very sexy and very delicious.....best of luck to you all and hey if you want to chat sometime hit me up | |
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