| What do you ladies prefer...Muscular, Skinny or Fat guys?
Posted: 5/3/2006 5:34:26 PM | When you are looking to meet someone for a long term relationship personality plays a much larger factor than looks.
Yes, I have preferences for thin or muscular men (two out of three ain't bad ). A guy can look really good but then be abusive, a jerk or there's nothing in common. His looks don't matter then. It's just time to dump the guy and move on to someone else who will treat me right.
The looks don't hold up a relationship in the LONG RUN. If you go by just looks alone, you aren't doing yourself a favor. You might miss out on important aspects of a guy's personality. To me looks is just one small part of the picture when I am considering a guy for a relationship. I'd rather have a guy of average looks who treats me right than a guy who is an Adonis but a real jerk.
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BBdrgn
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Joined: 7/15/2005
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| What do you ladies prefer...Muscular, Skinny or Fat guys?
Posted: 5/3/2006 10:45:56 PM | to me, i find muscular bodies with ripped abs and big biceps really fake looking. honestly, it's quite a turn off for me. i feel as if most guys (i didnt say all so guys please dont be offended) with "perfect" bodies, think they have it all and can get whoever they want because they've got such a hot body and and girls will just love it. i dont want to cuddle up to a ken doll at night.
i cant say that bigger guys turn me off, because i'm not a tiny little girl myself, but theres a difference between being big because you eat too much junk and sit on your ass all day, and being bigger because you have a big frame, slow matabolism and genetics. am i making any sense at all? theres a voice in my head telling me to stop before i make an ass out of myself. but what really bothers me is when a bigger guy refuses to date a bigger girl. it really boggles my mind. | |
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| What do you ladies prefer...Muscular, Skinny or Fat guys?
Posted: 5/3/2006 11:20:24 PM | Having been raised in a family who always took pride in their bodies,
worked out & we all still belong to a gym,I tend to be more attracted
to a muscular,well built man.Not saying I wouldn't date any other type,
but I'm more attracted to the man who takes pride in themselves & their body.
(and BB your abs are to drool over)......... 
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chinua
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Joined: 9/30/2005
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I Spy
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Joined: 4/7/2006
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| What do you ladies prefer...Muscular, Skinny or Fat guys?
Posted: 5/5/2006 9:56:34 AM | | I dont mind if a guy has a LITTLE bit of a belly, but i would prefer a man to be slim with muscle...not to much muscle so that they just bulge but just so you can see the muscle is just fine with me...lol! but thats just me so... | |
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Catwm
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Joined: 3/1/2006
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| What do you ladies prefer...Muscular, Skinny or Fat guys?
Posted: 5/5/2006 4:39:06 PM | my personal preference is thick slightly chubby
i like a man to have meat on his bones i am not really into a man who is built cause i think he may feel hard although it can be sexy but even a man who is built can be overly built
i like the teddy bear type myself but not all the fat in one spot like the belly cause then thats a beer gute and u gotta think
do u want that beer gute on top of you?....i dont lol | |
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| What do you ladies prefer...Muscular, Skinny or Fat guys?
Posted: 5/5/2006 4:52:06 PM | I've dated a range of body types, from thin, to stocky, to slightly overweight. I liked them all for different reasons. I started to like them once I got to know them and started off as friends. If I can laugh and have fun with a guy, that really starts me on the path to really liking him and seeing where it goes.
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| What do you ladies prefer...Muscular, Skinny or Fat guys?
Posted: 5/7/2006 5:21:04 PM | eye candy is dandy .... what dreams and fantasies are made of.
In real life, I want my equal. Id say Im in decent shape. I eat healthy and go to the gym at least 3 times a week. Fried foods havent passed my lips in years. I sure miss fried chicken, fried okra, and bacon.... **sigh**
He doesnt have to be perfect. IM certainly not perfect. A little under or over weight is just fine as long as his heart is in the right place, and healthy. | |
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| What do you ladies prefer...Muscular, Skinny or Fat guys?
Posted: 5/7/2006 5:26:15 PM | I like average men.
A little extra weight never hurt anyone (since I'm always trying to get some on my body lol). I'm not perfect and I don't expect my mate to be perfect either. That said, I would not want to date someone who is lazy and not active at all and just lets themselves go. There are just more ways to be fit and you don't need ripped muscles to be fit! | |
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| What do you ladies prefer...Muscular, Skinny or Fat guys?
Posted: 5/7/2006 5:41:41 PM | | I *thought* I had a type once, tended to date slim guys , and then I met someone who was a big of extra weight on him and I loved it! Then I dated an athletic guy (not all ripply , just fit) and that was cool too. I don't have a preference when it comes to weight. It depends on the person. Some people look great fit and some people look great with a few extra pounds. | |
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| What do you ladies prefer...Muscular, Skinny or Fat guys?
Posted: 5/7/2006 6:00:39 PM | I think I'd be happy with one that is breathing....maybe has a J O B....but the rest is really a case by case basis.  Seriously, I want a man with BBs abs, Dragon's personality/heart, Mandrakes flirtiness and Trump's money. Is that asking too much? I'll just stick with the breathing part ~ I think I can find at least one with that trait.  | |
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| What do you ladies prefer...Muscular, Skinny or Fat guys?
Posted: 5/7/2006 6:16:45 PM | ^^^^^Your gonna be in trouble when Manny sees that! Tsk Tsk Tsk.
 You're still the only Dragon for me! 
I just don't remember having much of an opinion on body type ~ I guess I do like average to athletic. And preferably 70-100 pounds more than me ~ seems a comfy place for me!
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| What do you ladies prefer...Muscular, Skinny or Fat guys?
Posted: 5/7/2006 6:44:00 PM | In a perfect world, I would have a man who is as fit as I am....and who is pound for pound more muscled....who loved metal and punk .....reading, dancing, hiking and extended cuddling.
But that isn't going to happen. | |
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| What do you ladies prefer...Muscular, Skinny or Fat guys?
Posted: 5/13/2006 9:34:10 AM | | I prefer muscular man, its because I know they try to be healthy by working out and eating right, its not for any reason but being healthy man, looks is nice too but its only superficial. What's important is the personality and attitudes. I don't hate fat and skinny men, we all have our own way of living in this world, to each his own. | |
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