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 crabstuffing

Joined: 1/15/2006
Msg: 450
What do you ladies prefer...Muscular, Skinny or Fat guys?
Posted: 5/22/2006 4:07:02 PM
if fireknight doesn't care...........he should leave it alone; I'm like fox.....and you won't change my mind.............period......if you persist; all you do is annoy.


I don't see anyone trying to change minds. Just offer another viewpoint.
Girls that are only into muscle men aren't reasoned with well.
Muscles=huge ego with most. Men AND women.

To the post below me:
Who said fatties are only allowed to express preferences?
Anyone has every reason to discuss their likes and dislikes and be ready for those that are offended or see it a different way.
Trust me, I doubt anyone that has some pudge is going to be all sad and hurt when women with bulging biceps call them names.
Oh no! I'm fat! I should hide!


And I DON'T date muscleheads, that doesn't mean I can't talk about them.
 who_the_fox

Joined: 4/29/2005
Msg: 451
What do you ladies prefer...Muscular, Skinny or Fat guys?
Posted: 5/22/2006 4:09:49 PM
Odd how it is only the fatties who are allowed to express their preferences.

If you don't like the muscled guys, then don't date them. How freaking difficult is that?
 FireKnight

Joined: 4/24/2006
Msg: 452
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What do you ladies prefer...Muscular, Skinny or Fat guys?
Posted: 5/22/2006 6:04:59 PM
It's amusing in that I have not berated anyone for their choices, I have not insulted or disparaged their intellect, and yet they feel a need to personally attack.

"only the fatties" as a case in point. No one called anyone names that I saw and yet those feeling self conscious feel a need to berate. What is it that is so threatening to you that you feel a need to insult another? I could "return fire" if I were so inclinded but I won't. My purpose is and has been to be helpful to those who really are looking to be happy. I suggest if you can some introspection about why it is soo terrifying to consider someone elses suggestion openly.

It's even sadder that a conversation that was supportive and understanding has turned to this because of misplaced and misdirected frustration.
 Mesnafugal

Joined: 7/12/2005
Msg: 453
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What do you ladies prefer...Muscular, Skinny or Fat guys?
Posted: 5/22/2006 8:26:28 PM
I agree chinua, you and fox are alot alike. Why do you girls feel the need to be rude? I do not see where fireknight went after either of you yet you jumped on him... geez... take a pill.
 chinua

Joined: 9/30/2005
Msg: 454
What do you ladies prefer...Muscular, Skinny or Fat guys?
Posted: 5/22/2006 8:32:57 PM
its funny......i haven't called anybody a 'fattie'.......wouldn't occur to me..........if someone likes to date someone of a certain body type; fine....I'm not arguing with them. But; the insults I get....because I like men with muscles...I have been involved in sports for most of my life, including bodybuilding........most of the athletes that I have met have been very nice; generous people........without huge egos. I have met world, pan am, and olympic champions; from more than one country; I think I'm more than qualified to speak about that..........
I have dated out of shape men too; and you know what?? Most can't stand that I work out.....and want me to quit..........I won't
I was rude???? ok.......where did I call anyone names...........show me..........I defended fox.....because she might have felt like she was being attacked..........so quote where I was ruder than some calling someone else a 'musclehead'...so sue me for defending athletes; they get attacked more than anyone else.
 Mesnafugal

Joined: 7/12/2005
Msg: 455
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Posted: 5/22/2006 8:39:13 PM
Why in the world would a man want you to stop working out??? I used to bodybuild when it was first getting popular for women to do but that was MANY years ago. I have too much to do around my place and I'm involved in too many things. Nowadays working out is just not something I care to do but I do understand how it can be addictive to some people.
 who_the_fox

Joined: 4/29/2005
Msg: 456
What do you ladies prefer...Muscular, Skinny or Fat guys?
Posted: 5/22/2006 8:42:04 PM
I get tired of the hate mail and the bodybuilding bashing. I have never made a post bashing people for their lifestyle choice, whatever it might be. I wonder why it is considered alright to bash someone who is healthy and involved in a competitive sport and who finds other people who SHARE that lifestyle attractive? Did you read me detailing the dangers of obesity in this thread? Or slagging anyone for prefering a different body type than I like? No.
Odd how that works.

I get falsely accused of using steroids and the overweight people are offended by the term "fattie"?? PUH-LEASE!!
 jaelarvad

Joined: 5/16/2006
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What do you ladies prefer...Muscular, Skinny or Fat guys?
Posted: 5/22/2006 8:50:57 PM
I have been attracted to guys of all shapes and sizes before. Most of them I never even got to hug more than once let alone hook up with.

My preference is skinny or muscular guys close to my age who are taller than I am, but guys like that that like me are hard to come by. In fact, I've only found 2 in my life. One I dated for three months before he wouldn't stand up for himself against his father and started living with the girl his father chose. The other guy was married and was dating my best friend at the time. He also was sleeping with at least 2 other girls that he admitted to me about.

Sexually, I prefer skinny guys because they fit better with my frame. I've also been with "fat" guys and found some of them worked well because they had bigger bits. I've never been with a muscular man.
 candigal1977

Joined: 10/3/2005
Msg: 458
What do you ladies prefer...Muscular, Skinny or Fat guys?
Posted: 5/22/2006 9:10:41 PM
MUSCLES!!!!!!!!! and the bigger the better! Past the steriods please!
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