| What do you ladies prefer...Muscular, Skinny or Fat guys?
Posted: 5/16/2005 8:20:15 PM | | i posted my last comment at work, didn't have time to go into it deeply... having said muscular, that does not mean i haven't dated, had relationships with men of all body types. personality will out over body type to a certain degree...but i try to keep in shape, and stuff, so why shouldn't i go after a like minded guy? just a thought... | |
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| What do you ladies prefer...Muscular, Skinny or Fat guys?
Posted: 5/16/2005 8:36:06 PM | Rhiannyn.....
You should go after what and who you want and never have to apologize for it....
As someone that is called mr. average by most demographics, I can tell you that you do the best you can with what you have and if you decide not to be all you can be...then you have no one to blame but youself......  
Sooooo...with that said....I will take my not muscular body......not thin body....not fat body......and just enjoy what I have to offer and look for someone that enjoys me and compliments what I am and me her to the point of being a great couple....smiles | |
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| What do you ladies prefer...Muscular, Skinny or Fat guys?
Posted: 5/17/2005 12:44:55 AM | Heh.. i'm a scrawny lil sh*t. I think I weigh around 130ish now.. but my musculature is very proportionate and nearly ripped lookin. *shrug*
Buddah
ps.. i'm also currently in the best shape i've ever been in and lovin it and I believe it shows. | |
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| What do you ladies prefer...Muscular, Skinny or Fat guys?
Posted: 8/7/2005 3:01:17 PM | well I have a large build my self, and a gut, which I don't like that much, (very rarely do I take my shirt off out side of my home)
I think most women want a guy who look's like Vin Diesel not a Tom Arnold
but I'm willing to be wrong | |
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Joined: 6/20/2005
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| What do you ladies prefer...Muscular, Skinny or Fat guys?
Posted: 8/7/2005 7:21:01 PM | | I like a man who looks healthy. I don't care to see men with toothpick legs; nor do I care for morbidly obese fellas. On the other hand, very muscular guys with their veins popping out is another turn off. It comes down to how a man carries himself, his frame, and his height. I do like a man with a nice butt and a nice chest that I can lay my head on. Strong arms and hands are another plus. Now, that's the cats meow! | |
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| What do you ladies prefer...Muscular, Skinny or Fat guys?
Posted: 8/7/2005 7:25:58 PM | | Mostly dated regular guys...not really into the schwarzeneggar types or hugely fat. The best lover I had was very skinny. I don't think the body shape has any bearing really. It's the person behind the eyes that counts. | |
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| What do you ladies prefer...Muscular, Skinny or Fat guys?
Posted: 8/7/2005 10:11:57 PM | Well at the time I was looking, I did indeed date some skinny guys but honestly was happier with a guy who had a little extra weight. I believe it was something about hugging the skinny guys that was not as comforting, but that is just a guess. I never was super big on muscle. But you know what? When push comes to shove, I really think the 'final decision' should be made by the personality of the person in question  | |
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| What do you ladies prefer...Muscular, Skinny or Fat guys?
Posted: 8/7/2005 10:23:28 PM | | I have found that the bigger women prefer bigger guys. The last woman I was with was bigger than me (most women are bigger than me because of how skinny I am). She said that her weight intimidated her because of how she was bigger than me and made her feel fat next to me. She said she did not know if she could get past that but it seemed like she was always looking for the negative things. She said I was being negative but I think she was being a bit negative herself. She had some depression problems and was on medications for it so I think that had a bit of a negative influence on the relationship as well. I have found that common with many of the woman I have tried to have a relationship with. They would end up dumping me but many of them had depression issues and most were taking medication for it. | |
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| What do you ladies prefer...Muscular, Skinny or Fat guys?
Posted: 8/8/2005 6:03:09 AM | | personally.....i like a man with a little beef......not too fat or too thin and muscle bound men dont date real women...they like barbie dolls anyway.....i guy whos say 30 lbs overweight makes me feel secure and safe.......if your too skinny...im afraid if i hug you too hard i'll break a rib lol | |
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| What do you ladies prefer...Muscular, Skinny or Fat guys?
Posted: 8/8/2005 6:07:34 AM | what about you c deacon.....do you only date skinny women who look like barbie?
no it really shouldnt matter about thin, fat,muscular......if you like each other than who cares....yeah the general public will but its not about them....its about you and the other person...as long as you treat each other with respect,,,that what matters | |
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| What do you ladies prefer...Muscular, Skinny or Fat guys?
Posted: 9/9/2005 11:00:03 AM | Muscular, skinny or fat? Hmm.
If we're talking strictly physical attraction, I tend to not be attracted to "soft" men. I think it's that they feel too feminine. I've rubbed up against soft men who were both skinny and fat. Figure that one out.
Too much diesel? Save the gas. Bulging muscles don't do it for me. My male physical ideal? Moderate to considerable amount of muscle mass on a long and lean body. Add veiny forearms and cut triceps and biceps? Oh, my.
And, of course, I've been attracted to and have dated men who aren't my ideal. Physical attraction is but one part of the attraction equation! There are so many intangibles, lovely things you just can't put your finger on ... | |
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