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 Beckeroo

Joined: 10/16/2005
Msg: 126
What do you ladies prefer...Muscular, Skinny or Fat guys?
Posted: 12/2/2005 6:19:36 AM
I don't really have a preferance. I like a guy who will treat me right, and they've gotta have a great sense of humour. The other really important thing is, having self confidance. But, if I have to say in regards to looks... I'd have to say either skinny or medium build... even a few extra pounds wouldn't bother me... As long as the guy has good personal hygiene, and does there best to stay healthy, I'm all good. ( If he happend to be really fit & gorgeous, thats just a bonus... I don't go for looks... ) To me a guy could be insanely gorgeous, but if he hasn't got a personality, I wouldn't bother. I have better things to do.
 SweetPeaJulia

Joined: 11/25/2005
Msg: 127
What do you ladies prefer...Muscular, Skinny or Fat guys?
Posted: 12/14/2005 9:43:30 PM
I'm not attracted to big muscular gymrat kind of guys. I like guys who care for themselves, but don't spend all day in a gym eating the Atkins diet. it isn't for me.
 frokkisser2

Joined: 11/17/2005
Msg: 128
What do you ladies prefer...Muscular, Skinny or Fat guys?
Posted: 12/17/2005 12:19:54 AM
[Ya I think a guy who's really muscular and in great shape would be a little too intimidating for me. I'm more attracted to skinny, tall guys with some muscles in their arms ;). ]

Same here!! I love skinny tall guys with some muscles in their arms
 FallenBridge

Joined: 1/15/2006
Msg: 129
What do you ladies prefer...Muscular, Skinny or Fat guys?
Posted: 1/16/2006 9:06:31 AM
I have always had an attraction to skinny guys. I cant say much for guys who have a little weight on them. I am an active person and usually when I check a guy out I consider if he can keep up with me, and if he can, can I keep up with him. I hear a lot of women say that they aren't picky as long as the guy has a personality. What a bunch of bull Sh**. Every guy has a personality, just because it might be one that you don't like doesn't mean it doesn't exist. I don't usually go for muscular guys because I always think that they can do better than me. I would think that most of the girls you meet are probably the ones that are looking for looks rather than an actual relationship. If you play it cool and continue to respect yourself and are feeling good, then you really don't have to worry about anything. One day a female who feels the same about herself will be able to connect with you.
 misspurrr

Joined: 7/24/2005
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What do you ladies prefer...Muscular, Skinny or Fat guys?
Posted: 1/16/2006 10:52:47 AM
I think n speakin 4 myself I prefer a man who is honest!!! That is the most attractive quality... As long as the man takes care of his personal hygene and is a good person his weight usually is not a real issue...
 awaitingyu

Joined: 5/17/2005
Msg: 131
What do you ladies prefer...Muscular, Skinny or Fat guys?
Posted: 1/16/2006 11:00:43 AM
Like I always say....

people's limits as to what they like usually explain further as to what they can offer.
 misspurrr

Joined: 7/24/2005
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What do you ladies prefer...Muscular, Skinny or Fat guys?
Posted: 1/16/2006 11:38:34 AM
How about all 3?

skinny.........In discrimination, prejudices, and lies.

muscular.....In honesty, fairness, manners, and thoughtfulness.

fat............In laughter, life, and love.

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Gentlespirit, I love that n I 100% agree with U!!!!!!!!!!!!!
 misspurrr

Joined: 7/24/2005
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Posted: 1/16/2006 11:39:38 AM
How about all 3?

skinny.........In discrimination, prejudices, and lies.

muscular.....In honesty, fairness, manners, and thoughtfulness.

fat............In laughter, life, and love.


DOES SUCH A MAN EXIST????
 Keljo

Joined: 12/28/2005
Msg: 134
What do you ladies prefer...Muscular, Skinny or Fat guys?
Posted: 1/16/2006 11:44:12 AM
I like guys with just a little bit of pudge....makes um soft and cuddly like a big pillow.

Too skinny and I their ribs poke me...too muscular and its like laying your head on a concrete slab.
 blondegreeneyedgal

Joined: 12/19/2005
Msg: 135
What do you ladies prefer...Muscular, Skinny or Fat guys?
Posted: 1/16/2006 11:52:41 AM
for me I prefer the muscular types.I like to work out and exercise as well,so its usually the type I am attracted to.They dont intimidate me in the least and are usually stereotyped as being arrogant and self centered but I find that to be so wrong.
 misspurrr

Joined: 7/24/2005
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What do you ladies prefer...Muscular, Skinny or Fat guys?
Posted: 1/16/2006 12:01:40 PM
Gym muscles = boring
Construction guy muscles =


Linemen...telephone men... construction workers...oooooooooooooweeeeeeeeeee!!!! best butts around!!!! nice arms.... dont even mind if they have the bit of a tummy!!!
just my personal preferance....
 ImYourAngel23

Joined: 5/26/2004
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Posted: 1/16/2006 12:02:21 PM
I gotta admit...Muscular is really awesome stuff
 Y2J2006

Joined: 12/17/2005
Msg: 138
What do you ladies prefer...Muscular, Skinny or Fat guys?
Posted: 1/16/2006 12:03:21 PM
hmm not sure then what catagory I fit in, I know I am not muscular but i ain't fat...I work a labour type job that is hard on the body too.
 sweetrebel

Joined: 9/6/2005
Msg: 139
What do you ladies prefer...Muscular, Skinny or Fat guys?
Posted: 1/16/2006 12:07:44 PM
muscular muscular muscular muscular.

period.
 Poorgie

Joined: 9/18/2005
Msg: 140
What do you ladies prefer...Muscular, Skinny or Fat guys?
Posted: 1/16/2006 12:20:34 PM
If a woman works hard to stay fit, most times they are attracted to that same body type.
 Y2J2006

Joined: 12/17/2005
Msg: 141
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Posted: 1/16/2006 12:25:42 PM
Ya and also clothes make the man according to women.
I know a guy who buys expensive clothes and the women think he must have money. The guy is flat broke after buying the clothes and paying his bills. Funny how image will make others take a second look. I have a friend who dresses casual all the time, he makes about $75K a year and he says. "Why do I have to be with the "in" crowd and show my money in clothes and cars? I am comfortable being me wearing ym levi's and shirts and driving my Honda Civic."
 Ninki

Joined: 4/11/2005
Msg: 142
What do you ladies prefer...Muscular, Skinny or Fat guys?
Posted: 1/16/2006 12:27:27 PM
I like men who are a little muscular, especially their upper arms. I don't like flabby upper arms in men.


N.
 CountrySugar

Joined: 1/15/2006
Msg: 143
What do you ladies prefer...Muscular, Skinny or Fat guys?
Posted: 1/16/2006 12:41:54 PM
I like my men big and cuddly..Such big ole bears
 Y2J2006

Joined: 12/17/2005
Msg: 144
What do you ladies prefer...Muscular, Skinny or Fat guys?
Posted: 1/16/2006 12:44:19 PM
Man I am in that grey area again, first with being 36/37, women under 30 do not date men over 30, women in thier 30's have high standards or date guys under 30 and women 40+ do not date guys under 40. Now being an average build, again women prefer tall guys (I am 5'10"), muscular guys, skinny guys, big cuddly guys. Damn I can't win now holy shit.
 layla908

Joined: 1/12/2006
Msg: 145
What do you ladies prefer...Muscular, Skinny or Fat guys?
Posted: 1/16/2006 12:51:49 PM
i would say i like skinny guys the most. i've dated all 3 kinds. but i tend to like the nerdy skinny guy that doesn't know he's hot :-)
 Y2J2006

Joined: 12/17/2005
Msg: 146
What do you ladies prefer...Muscular, Skinny or Fat guys?
Posted: 1/16/2006 12:55:47 PM
Hey I sure ain't hot...that is for sure...nerdy I dunno about that..just average..does that cut it?
 misspurrr

Joined: 7/24/2005
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What do you ladies prefer...Muscular, Skinny or Fat guys?
Posted: 1/16/2006 12:59:09 PM
Man I am in that grey area again, first with being 36/37, women under 30 do not date men over 30, women in thier 30's have high standards or date guys under 30 and women 40+ do not date guys under 40. Now being an average build, again women prefer tall guys (I am 5'10"), muscular guys, skinny guys, big cuddly guys. Damn I can't win now holy shit.

Y2J2006 ,
Alot of women 40+ will date guys n their 30's ...it's a maturity issue ... most guys I've seen n their 30's, early 30's @ least R not done with spreading themselves around... most guys n their later 30's R done with the games...now this IS NOT ALL guys n their 30's ...but there R the exception men.... I hope U find a lady who will give U what U deserve...best 2 U with UR Purrr
 Y2J2006

Joined: 12/17/2005
Msg: 148
What do you ladies prefer...Muscular, Skinny or Fat guys?
Posted: 1/16/2006 1:02:35 PM
well here is the outcome for me and it has got me puzzled over the years now.
Single since I turned 30, I am 37 in two weeks. Met women under 30 and they say I am too old. Met women in thier 30's and they say either I am not good enough(?) or that I am too old. Met women in thier 40's and one who was 51 all said I was too young. I think ok what gives? But as i put it, 3 more years and I will finally be out of my 30's. And I have not even slept around in my 30's...no sex for 5 years now and that has not been by choice. So all these things have got me all lost in this dating game thing. I cannot figure it out. Some say it is me others say it is the women i have met. I say who knows LOL
 layla908

Joined: 1/12/2006
Msg: 149
What do you ladies prefer...Muscular, Skinny or Fat guys?
Posted: 1/16/2006 1:18:04 PM
so much to worry about. just stop worrying for a while. it's so much easier. as long as you're happy with yourself...that's all that matters :-) i don't discriminate. i've dated all sizes, age, color. of course i want to be attracted to the guy, but so many other things can attract me to them. personality can definatly make the man. real mean are what i like. not show-offs, or bad asses. i like normal, calm, easy-going, funny, guys. harder than it sounds i guess. but i'm ok being single until i find one that make all the others go away. [one day]
 DarkPrince64

Joined: 12/15/2005
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Posted: 1/16/2006 1:21:10 PM
It's funny to me that I've learned that many guys who "work out" or are "body-builders" use that as their ONLY source of self-confidence...

I said "many" btw, not all of 'em... (I'm a former gym-fly and a former-stripper)

I lift weights a lot too and keep my body in good shape -- but I don't let this be my defining factor. I was confident before the workout and remain confident without letting you know that I've worked out...

I've got a nice body but have much more to offer than that...
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