| What do you ladies prefer...Muscular, Skinny or Fat guys?
Posted: 1/17/2006 7:25:34 AM | | Y2 that does go both ways..with the media the way it is now..men are looking for the model type woman..they are no longer lookin for the marylins they are lookin for angelina .. we all can't live up to mens expectation and it's rather frustrating for us as well... | |
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| What do you ladies prefer...Muscular, Skinny or Fat guys?
Posted: 1/17/2006 7:41:48 AM | Myself, I perfer whats all in the heart, But I guess maybe i,m off a bit cause for some reason a really thin guy just doesnt appeal to me, Im all about the attitude n confidence though,
I wanted to ask ya though, U said uve always had a girlfriend till now, is that maybe because uve set ur standards higher?, Please dont get wrong on that, but when we get alil older we no what we want in a person, n now that u seem to really take care of urself maybe ur looking for that in the same, I no what I want n I refuse to settle (which no one should).
Its all about the attraction really.
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| What do you ladies prefer...Muscular, Skinny or Fat guys?
Posted: 1/17/2006 8:15:07 AM |
Y2 that does go both ways..with the media the way it is now..men are looking for the model type woman..they are no longer lookin for the marylins they are lookin for angelina .. we all can't live up to mens expectation and it's rather frustrating for us as well...
True BUT remember we men have to be the ones to chase you. You women are the ones who can pick and choose if you feel the guy is good enough. Sure many guys loath over Angelina and women lothe over Brad. But when it all comes down to it, women will end up with a guy like Brad if they search hard enough and guys? All depends on the guys and how they look if they end up with an Angelina.
If I was to want someone like that, I may as well accept being single for good because that ain't happenin. I wil always say women hold the cards and we men have to play by your rules. because in the end, the decision to date is in the women's hands not ours. And so women can and do set those standards high to weave out the undesirables.
let's face it, women would rather wake u beside a hot good looking guy and say "Wow he is so hot" than wake up beside an average looking guy who is a great guy and say "What is it that I like about him again?"
Attraction is so much more physical than emotional these days. is the times and is sad but is what we have created and have to live with.
I put it his way, i work a decent paying job, no big title in it, have an education, no car, and a roommate that I do not see as our work schedules are completely opposite. Downfalls? Job is not a career, no car and not my own place. Women could care less the type of guy I am right off the bat there, even if they find me attractive say. See finding the negatives and erasing the positives with it. But I will say they gotta do that now. | |
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| What do you ladies prefer...Muscular, Skinny or Fat guys?
Posted: 1/17/2006 8:27:46 AM | It's really about comfort for me..
If I meet a guy, and just feel a connection..and I swear I'm not being cheesy ,but I talk to him and the whole time i'm thinking I know you..
I don't care what he looks like..I'm meant to be with him | |
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| What do you ladies prefer...Muscular, Skinny or Fat guys?
Posted: 1/17/2006 9:31:29 AM | @Y2J2006
True a woman is given the power to choose who they want for a man, but a man can still try with putting some better bait on that hook. And if he uses the wrong bait then he has to change that bait. Most women want to be treated well right? Then that would be part of that bait. Of course it is not the guys fault if he doesn't have enough qualities or looks to land a mermaid, but he could at least try and keep the emails flowing even if they are one sided or untill he is blocked. The point is he is doing his job and taking that first step, and some women like that quality.
If the guy is looking in the wrong direction maybe HE should give all women a chance? I just turned the tables on you oops! So the same goes with women, they have a set amount of qualities/looks they are looking for just like you have. | |
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| What do you ladies prefer...Muscular, Skinny or Fat guys?
Posted: 1/17/2006 9:42:46 AM | How we look in the way of tall, skinny, in shape etc is more important now it seems for alot of ladies. Women will toss a guy away even if he is decent and great because the look he has is not up to par. But hey it is all fair and they have every right to do it...they have the power of picking and choosing.
Y2J,
U would not believe the way some men R that way 2 women...if we dont look like barbie then we R cast aside like rubbish... I think everybody has their idea of what they want... and what they will settle 4... a woman might B the sweetest , girl with a great sense of humor and loads of love 2 share but because she is overweight a man who is cryin the blues because he has nobody will toss her away... I've Cn it...n I've bn n it... then after they go away n time passes sometimes they come back n realize what a mistake they made...but the damage is done... and they dont understand ...when somebody wants U ...dont just toss them away when U maybe lookin @ the love of a lifetime!!! better than U ever imagined!!!  | |
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| What do you ladies prefer...Muscular, Skinny or Fat guys?
Posted: 1/17/2006 9:57:24 AM | let's face it, women would rather wake u beside a hot good looking guy and say "Wow he is so hot" than wake up beside an average looking guy who is a great guy and say "What is it that I like about him again?"
Actually Y2J,
I've bn with a few "average" guys woke up n saw him and said I think he's the most handsome , wonderful , guy n the world...bcause he loves ME n treats ME right...that is what makes him sooooooooooooooo fine...
I've bn with men who have scares n lots of wrinkles..or baby smooth skin...but they were ALL fine n my eyes...
there's nothing wrong with having a roommate...it is UR place...U pay UR bills...not spounging off of another... Y dont U have a car? U said U had a good job ..which by the way is a GIANT + ... n if U treat a women right....she will NEVER C U as "what is it I like about him?'" n if she feels that way U deserve BETTER!!!!! | |
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| What do you ladies prefer...Muscular, Skinny or Fat guys?
Posted: 1/17/2006 10:10:01 AM | I like 'em muscular best (but not too much) and stocky, but not fat. No skinny! That's not cuz skinny guys aren't sexy (cuz they can be, usually have nice torso definition) but I am a curvy chick.... quite frankly, I want a guy who can hold me and... well, shoots, put me up againsta wall in the heat of the moment, too. I think couples who are proportionately complimentary look and probably function together best. And by the way, you look just man-tastic. | |
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| What do you ladies prefer...Muscular, Skinny or Fat guys?
Posted: 1/17/2006 10:21:51 AM | MissPurrrr...
you wrote:
if we dont look like barbie then we R cast aside like rubbish...
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Not really...
While I appreciate a beautiful girl, regardless of her body type -- I generally don't go for Ginger but rather MaryAnn... | |
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| What do you ladies prefer...Muscular, Skinny or Fat guys?
Posted: 1/17/2006 10:38:43 AM | Darkprince,
Maryann was a petite women n thats n that same catagory ... I'm talkin about women with junk n the trunk...and n the back seat n n the front seat... large ladies... some 3X extra large ladies... who have alot of good things 2 offer and love 2 give... but most men wouldnt look @ because of the outer package... it's the same I guess with men...but a heavy man can get a pretty women faster than a heavy woman can get a man ... 
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| What do you ladies prefer...Muscular, Skinny or Fat guys?
Posted: 1/17/2006 10:45:24 AM | Ok... I have a preference for men taller than me... I am 5'7 and with just a two inch pump I am 5'9" or more... I love high heels, but I get close to 5'10"... Anyway...
Physically,
1- a man taller than me...
2- he must have some meat on him... (yes... there too!!!  )
3- I love dark dark black eyes... (Mine a pale pale green bleu... ) Opposites attract...
Those are just a general trend that I seem to be naturally attracted to...
Most of all... I must feel comfortable and able to be myself and he must and I mean must have a sense of humour and be open minded... Aware or world events and must be good at debating his point without raising his voice and just bully his way into situations... | |
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