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omaga3
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Joined: 9/30/2007
Msg: 277 | |
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| why do men dump women who are too nice to them??
Posted: 10/12/2007 8:38:48 PM | | Honey, men don't want you to act like a "wife" when you are dating them. There is time for that if he is the right one. Men want a "girlfriend" they are fun, sexy and alot less demanding.. Would he come over and clean your house... I think Not! Stop doing things for Adults they can do themsleves. If you are after a "partner" they should be able to dress themself, cook , yes and even clean if they are trying to impress you. If they feel you are trying to hard they think there is something wrong with you. I am sure you are a lovely caring person but you have to NOT treat them like children they don't like it and it scares them... Please think about. | |
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| why do men dump women who are too nice to them??
Posted: 10/13/2007 3:32:34 AM | Welcome to the 21st century!! U r not alone hun!! Read the book"why men love ****es"Maybe that will give u some answers!! I'm finding out more n more that men seem to like,psycho,controlling,manipulative ****es-not the nice ones!!
And even though they complain that we r all psycho n can't find a good woman--in all reality they r more turned on by the controlling ****es.
I got dumped too because I was too nice even though the guy complained constantly about how his ex tried to control him.Maybe she was too nice too! Who Knows??
Don't change who u are,he'll regret his decision someday,but don't wait around for him-MOVE ON!!
That creep doesn't deserve u!! GOOD LUCK,HUN!! | |
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| why do men dump women who are too nice to them??
Posted: 10/13/2007 5:51:14 AM | | Because men don't want to screw their mothers, or at least they won't admit to wanting to screw their mothers, and his mother was probably the last woman to impale herself on the spike of domestic martyrdom for him. When you started doing it too, you made him react to you as a child does to it's mother. | |
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| why do men dump women who are too nice to them??
Posted: 10/13/2007 8:38:04 AM | | LilBethy, some men would rather be treated like dogs. Then they don't feel as if they are in a commitment and don't get scared. Well Good luck Girl and keep your head up. | |
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