| | When going out what makes you Crazy?Page 2 of 2 (1, 2) | psssss: Don't say anything, but that is what alot of guys use as an excuse for being all up on someone else the week before and who is obviously not there that night, so they say. Well I was looking at you and stuff, remember, but thought you were way out of my league. Once sentence, two great results. Get out of the fact that you were interested in someone else the last time the other girl was present and give a compliment all at the same time. lol lol lol.
Ahh, only sometimes though, alot of guys are intimidated by an attractive woman and tend to shy away. | |
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| When going out what makes you Crazy?
Posted: 11/17/2006 9:11:33 AM | I hate guys.
who offer me a drink, and the expect me to be their girlfriend, for the remainder of the night.
This is especially horrible, when you start talking to the guy, for a bit, and you have nothing in common with each other.
Also,
Ive been told that guys hate it when im talkin to them, and my eyes wonder all over the place. I avoid eye contact because i'm shy. Dont get me wrong i dont avoid it completly.
if i'm interested you;ll know. | |
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| When going out what makes you Crazy?
Posted: 11/17/2006 9:17:44 AM |
Are we that scary that you think we will bite??
I can't speak for all of us guys...but, I think it's hearing the word "No" that scares us. Fear of rejection plays a big part. I swear, some friends of mine would rather sit on a pissed-off rattlesnake than ask a girl to dance! I can't say I'm not afraid of rejection, but I'll still go & give it a shot if I should find a girl who interests me. The worst she could say is no! At least, I'd like to think that's the worst! 
Oh, by the way, Patch? Well said! I couldn't have said it any better myself!  | |
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| When going out what makes you Crazy?
Posted: 11/17/2006 6:47:19 PM | | Hmmmmmm Justin not sure if that was a compliment or not hahaha And the word "NO" scares women and men alike. It would be nice to be at a club and have someone actually come and ask me to dance instead of the sneak behind thing but I find that is not something that happens to me...not sure why but I love to go out and dance and just don't even think about it!! When and if the time is right then who knows :o) | |
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| When going out what makes you Crazy?
Posted: 11/18/2006 6:49:24 PM | I dislike when people are simply rude. Covers most of the complaints up here but I have to add 1. I hate being insulted simply for saying hello to someone. (yes "Hello" is about the only opening line I have, usually followed by the equally suggestive "How are you?" gambit) If you're not interested in even talking, fine, but is there any reason to be insulting? I can understand that, I suppose, if the initiater doesn't take no for an answer, or is coming on way to strong but it always bugs me when a simple hello can cause a venomous reaction.
Just my 2 cents. | |
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| When going out what makes you Crazy?
Posted: 11/18/2006 7:14:17 PM | Hmmm ... I fully admit to sucking at interaction with men ..... I have never learned the social grace of accepting a compliment or knowing how to react ..... staring at the floor works for me!!!!
I can tell you the most offensive approach I have ever expierenced .. A couple weeks ago ... on the dance floor with some friends ... and in he comes the really drunk guy who thinks he can dance ... I attempt to thwart him, but he wins ... and gets me seperated from my friends .... so I do the old look at the floor ... but with this guy ... no go.
I did not even get the grace of a hello ... he said " I wanna dance with you, your hot" I said "no thank you" he took that and turned it into it being ok to grab my chest!!!!!!!!!
I kid you not ... my reaction was pure shock ... then a panicked "please don't touch me" and at that point my girlfriend swooped in for the save ..... thank god for that ... | |
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| When going out what makes you Crazy?
Posted: 11/18/2006 7:17:07 PM | sarah, that same thing happened to me a couple years ago EOA in London.. some guy actually reached out when I was dancing with my friends, and grabbed my boob!! I had a bit more vocal reaction though, that guy got an earful of 'F'bombs, I'll tell ya that much!
Why do some guys think they have the right to do something like that??  | |
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| When going out what makes you Crazy?
Posted: 11/18/2006 7:29:33 PM | When a 40 year old acts like they are 14.
When she does nothing but talk about her ex.
When they dump you and say "You're such a great guy, your next girl is going to be so lucky".......oh bite me. | |
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| When going out what makes you Crazy?
Posted: 11/19/2006 11:20:05 AM | | inappropriate touching...I hate it when guys think they can get all sexy with you on the dance floor and you don't even know them, and half the time they're drunk anyway. I remember one time this big, tall guy came up from behind and grabbed me, and he was so drunk he didn't realise that he had wrapped his arm around me neck, he was literally choking me. or the way a few of them (and I say a few because I know it isn't the majority) think its okay to grab my chest, or even the blatant comments. | |
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| When going out what makes you Crazy?
Posted: 11/23/2006 4:23:35 PM | I am not intimidated by any attractive women...I am very good in socializing with people. If i saw an attractive lady i liked, i would approach her and try to have a decent convo. If i get rejected which it had happened once before I just walk away knowing that i tried my best and can't please everyone but there are always more fish in the sea  | |
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| When going out what makes you Crazy?
Posted: 9/8/2008 11:41:15 PM | I very rarely go out to the bars anymore..........I had my time back in the 80's
However, when I do venture out, I hate that because of my age, guys just 'assume' that I am either a 'cougar' or a 'milf'...............
When someone who is ages with my oldest Daughter (21) comes up to me and drapes his arm over my shoulder with his fingertips 'just within reaching distance' and says "Hey Baby - what's going on"..................I just want to take of his diaper and tan his hide. | |
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