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| Has anyone been brave enough to meet someone with no pic at all?
Posted: 11/19/2005 1:05:51 AM | You know... I took a chance once. Just like an author of this thread did.
I mean, the guy did have a picture, but it was all blurry, etc. He was... absolutely what I have been dreaming of to say the least.
However, turned out to be yet another playa.
So... Can't say it doesn't happen.
Always Love,
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| Has anyone been brave enough to meet someone with no pic at all?
Posted: 11/19/2005 1:23:22 AM | One of the dating sites that use to be totally free had a profile of a hot mid twenties baby doll that flirted and an teased and promised everything.... She was into cyber and loved to get the guys to send her pictures....some very racey.
I walked into my computer room one day and ran my 14 year old daughter off to do a chore she had neglected. This is when I learned about dating sites and the fact that men would send nude pictures of them selves to women they had never seen.
I contacted the dating site and all of the mem on her contact list and shared that they had been engaging in cybersex and sending nude pictures to my 14 year old daughter.
I'm sure that many were embarased, some maybe not....
My advice is if you send a picture fellows and ladies make it a clothed one until you know for sure who your sending it to.
Some of the no picture profiles are men pretending to be women that get off on stringing you along, Guys if your into cybersex remember your partner may be a 57 year old closet gay that dreams of your hot text and loves your sexy nude pictures  
When I considered a dating site I posted my picture for all of 5 minutes then on my first search I ran smack dab into a picture of a family friend with a very large mouth. I deleted the picture before she saw it thank goodness. I told my wife about it and she said I was nuts for ever posting a picture in the first place.
We are both members of another dating site called okcupid which has these neat compatability personality and trivia test that are a lot of fun... any user can create a test and some of them are very good. | |
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| Has anyone been brave enough to meet someone with no pic at all?
Posted: 11/22/2005 8:21:07 AM | I just got a message from a man here that had no pic. I asked for one and i got chewed out. He as angry because i didn't reply right when i read the message...Does anyone else sometimes take time to think these things through? I was just alittle shy of saying i would go out and no picture. He then called me some awful names.....now i know i made the right decision.................. | |
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| Has anyone been brave enough to meet someone with no pic at all?
Posted: 11/22/2005 12:04:34 PM | | Honestly, hell to the no... I mean if I have provided a visual... then you should be able to do the same.. for all I know you're over there talking to me looking like Shrek... I mean I would like to at least know that you look like Shrek.. I am being honest.. you probably messaged me because you thought I was attractive, so I would like the opportunity to see if the feeling is mutual... People lie all the time about not caring what the other person looks like and that is 100% grade 'A' BUH-SHYT!!! Initial attraction is number one... do not lie to yourself. And if you give me a hassle about sending me a pic or something (as the above poster recieved) I know that your personality is ugly, and you probably are too, and I keep it moving... | |
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| Has anyone been brave enough to meet someone with no pic at all?
Posted: 11/22/2005 12:19:27 PM | | I talked to someone I met her over the phone once with no pic. She told me that she modeled for Victoria Secret and that she had 36DD breast. I was still skeptical with no pic. She told me when she put up a pic she got to many messages and that she wanted to protect her privacy.I understand these concern's, but at the same time your that hot and you won't send me a pic after a phone conversation? Many people have gone out with people with no pics and had horrible results. It's no wonder that stereotype that "they are hiding something" exist. Maybe some of these people are hoping to woo you with there great personality before they drop the bomb on your first date!! | |
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| Has anyone been brave enough to meet someone with no pic at all?
Posted: 11/22/2005 1:01:36 PM | shame for you,
i met my girlfriend on this website without a picture and same for her.
think about the person 's personality through writting and then maybe a picture will boost up things!
ps- been with my gf for 7 month she s amazing!
to be continued...... | |
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| Has anyone been brave enough to meet someone with no pic at all?
Posted: 11/22/2005 4:27:53 PM | I have met several men who did not post a photo with their profile. It can go either way. A few have been reasonably attractive, and then there were the few who lied through their eyeteeth about their looks!!! (and not in a good way).
It doesn't really matter, but take your cues from the response if you ask why they don't have a pic posted.
I didn't have one for awhile because I hate to have my photo taken. The only way people could get a picture of me was through "ambush" photography. Not very attractive!!
So my daughter finally got a webcam, and we took some pics that way. Not great, but serviceable. | |
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| Has anyone been brave enough to meet someone with no pic at all?
Posted: 11/26/2005 5:38:19 PM | | I personally dont have a pic because I use my work computer, but I have met people with pics and without pics and sometimes they look like whaT THEY SAY AND SOMETIMES THEY DONT.jUST BECAUSE SOMEONE HAS A PIC POSTED DOESNT MEAN ITS THEM AND OBVIOUSLY IT COULD BE AN OLD PIC OR ITS THE BEST ONE THEY HAVE OF THEMSELVES. I THINK IT WORKS BOTH WAYS PEOPLE LIE WITH PICS AND PEOPLE LIE W/OUT THEM TOO. ITS STUPID LIMITING YOURSELF TO PEOPLE WITH OR W/OUT PICS BECAUSE IN ALL HONESTY U DONT KNOW WHAT YOUR MISSING. | |
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| Has anyone been brave enough to meet someone with no pic at all?
Posted: 11/28/2005 11:15:23 PM | Sure. Hell, why not? Its just a meeting. Its not like once you meet them for coffee you are obligated to be with them and live happily ever after. I'll just have to let that person know upfront that I am not looking for any sort of "relationship" but that having a new friend in life is ok. Oh and I wouldn't recommend giving that person a phone number either until that person becomes.....approved.  | |
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| Has anyone been brave enough to meet someone with no pic at all?
Posted: 12/3/2005 3:27:18 PM | I have met several people with out pictures and only one was ugly, but that was her personality, so a picture doesn't tell you anything. Some people I have met with pictures didn't look like them at all. So I say pictures don't mean a thing.
I have met 5 people with pictures and only one picture looked like the person. Its whats inside the heart that counts. | |
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| Has anyone been brave enough to meet someone with no pic at all?
Posted: 12/3/2005 4:06:53 PM | Here is a question.....
you go to meet someone who didnt have a picture up and they are really.... athsteticaly challenged.... extremely... I mean extremely...
how do you extract yourself from that situation without making them feel bad?
happened to me, and I felt like a deer in the headlights of a oncomming semi...
how do you handle that with any amount of grace?????? | |
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| Has anyone been brave enough to meet someone with no pic at all?
Posted: 12/3/2005 5:52:06 PM | | That's such a good point ducimus, that'smy biggest fear in meeting a pictureless person. It's not so much that I wouldn't sit and enojy a coffee or drink with someone that absolutely does NOTHING for me physically if I enjoyed them intellectually, it's just the lettting them down part AFTER the meeting occurs. They will of course keep contacting you because you sat there and seemed to enjoy yourself simply because you sat there and was able to "hang" like you would with a friend, and meanwhile they are thinking "WOW she's interested in me"only to later have to tell him flat out I was not attracted to him at all? OUCH that's so harsh. Spare us both the horrible moments and just exchange pics, simple. | |
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| Has anyone been brave enough to meet someone with no pic at all?
Posted: 12/3/2005 5:59:21 PM | | I have a few times. The 1st time, I had just started college and had just been introduced to online chatting. So it wasn't even a dating site, just a regular chat site. I met this guy and we clicked and from then on we talked on the phone for hours everyday. Our phone bills were crazy! He was in Texas and I was in Michigan, so it took a while for us to meet but we finally did after a year of talking. Long story short, I fell in love with him before I even met him and I still love him to this day. We both took different life paths though and lost touch. But if I had the chance again I would be with him in a heart beat. | |
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| Has anyone been brave enough to meet someone with no pic at all?
Posted: 12/3/2005 6:23:45 PM | I have not had the experience of meeting anyone without seeing their
picture. However one lucky man has met me without seeing mine.
He must have found me quite attractive because we dated steadily
for a few months.
My picture is not on my profile because yes, I try to weed out shallow people.
I am here to read forums and perhaps eventually find a life partner.
I do have a private picture that I send out if and when I decide to make first
contact with someone.
I say go ahead, it's a numbers game,if someone is interesting to you,
try meeting them with or without their picture! | |
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