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| Has anyone been brave enough to meet someone with no pic at all?
Posted: 6/6/2006 9:31:13 PM | | Yes, I met one girl on a double date at the movies w/o a pic. There was no way she could get a picture, i was very nervous but i had her tell me a few times both on the phone and online what she looked like, i kept tract so make sure it all lined up, it did she turned out pretty cute BUT looks arent everything she was very very serious and analized all my sentences and such and it was a big mess. Another girl i thought was very very cute. I imagined I was meeting up with a girl that looked a lot like stacy keibler for example. It turns out she was a lot shorter and a lot bigger then i expected. I couldn't bring myself to see her again because it was to hard. | |
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| Has anyone been brave enough to meet someone with no pic at all?
Posted: 6/6/2006 9:35:54 PM | interesting question ,,,
probally not ,it depends on how long you have been talking ,
and how far the person is from you ,,l still would like to see who they are
especially from a net dating site,,, | |
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| Has anyone been brave enough to meet someone with no pic at all?
Posted: 6/8/2006 5:58:08 PM | | I will send a pic to a man if I think we have enough in common to meet. I have recently redone my profile, and think that I have described myself well. Most men do not hang around to get to know me since I do not have a pic, so that is there loss. | |
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Joined: 1/31/2006
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| I met a girl online that had no picture
Posted: 6/8/2006 6:14:41 PM | | She turned out to be one the most beautiful girl I've ever met. Its too bad she still had some emotional issues I would have died to date her. | |
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| too many with no pictures!!!!
Posted: 6/9/2006 9:50:04 PM | You know, there are so many w/ out pics, and it really bothers me. I have to say, thee-mail and phone cnnection cam be a complete waste if there is n physical connection, IMO.
I've had a couple w/ out pics, who have tld me 'trust me, i am attractive!!!". I know pics don't do justice for some, but I think you need t have some idea of what you're getting into.
I haven't had the occasion to meet anyone w/ out a pic yet. I don't know if I would. I'll talk to them, but it wuld take a lot to agree to meet up. A lot... | |
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| too many with no pictures!!!!
Posted: 6/11/2006 6:45:10 AM | I find the people with out pics are the better people and less shallow. I put my pic up recently and got less response. People who just judge by the cover are missing out on a lot of good people who could turn out to be great friends. I'll meet anyone who wants to meet as long as their female with or without a pic. Beauty comes from the inside not the out side. | |
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| too many with no pictures!!!!
Posted: 6/11/2006 12:47:48 PM | Pics are an absolute necessity before I will meet with a woman. HAHAH, no physical attraction means your not getting close to me. Sorry but, I don't really care if it is shallow or not, I am simply NOT having sex with someone I am not attracted to period.
BTW if looks don't matter why not just sleep with your dog? dogs have feelings too  | |
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| too many with no pictures!!!!
Posted: 6/12/2006 6:58:46 AM | | I guess all your friends and buddies must be attractive, guess you have no big friends or smart friends. I bet you don't judge your friends based on their looks. Look you could missing out on some new great friends. Pics are unimportant. Whats in the inside that counts. | |
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| Has anyone been brave enough to meet someone with no pic at all?
Posted: 6/13/2006 9:13:51 PM | Yep I did and well went and met him and well...lets just say no spark at all.
I am, not being vain or ?, pretty with no major flaws but he just wasn't what I would be into checking into further if I saw a picture.
Reality wise I may not have been his idea of a date either.
So although I don't post a picture right away I admit to usually not replying to ones that don't. I know double standard but I am very wary in the start, I will send one layer if asked.
Good luck and trust your instincts, countrycane | |
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| Has anyone been brave enough to meet someone with no pic at all?
Posted: 6/13/2006 11:58:48 PM | if you was blind would you care about how they look
would you care more about how they treated you
if it is true love it will never fade away as the outside does over time
for if it is true love it will last forever
with true love the love grows with each beat of the heart | |
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| Has anyone been brave enough to meet someone with no pic at all?
Posted: 6/14/2006 4:01:02 PM | I don't have a pic cuz I cant post one n I can email one to anyone who is not shallow n is interested in getting to know me as a WHOLE PERSON!Looks aren't everything but they do help!Not everyone can be hunk or beauty queen!I saw a story about a woman with half a body who got married n had a baby?How did she attract her man?I truly believe someone for everyone!We should all stop being so picky n look at what's inside the person as well as thier looks!!Don't judge a book by it's cover!!!!  | |
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Joined: 12/4/2004
Msg: 691 | |
| Has anyone been brave enough to meet someone with no pic at all?
Posted: 6/15/2006 10:44:51 AM | Usually no pictures just means they don't have a camera. When I have met people with no pictures it has not usually gone bad. However I at least got a picture before I met them, because waiting around for someone is harder if you don't know what they look like.
If they were a real creep, they would just steal someone else's pictures. Even profiles of ugly people with pictures get more responses than hot people without pictures so there is incentive for everyone to post them... | |
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| Has anyone been brave enough to meet someone with no pic at all?
Posted: 6/15/2006 7:23:52 PM | | I spoke to a guy who had no pic, it scared me cause he tells me that looks are not important and that is all about the personality of a person. To me personality is a must but if I am going to sleep with a guy, I at least have to be able to look at him, chemistry is a combination of multiple things. Looks are the first impression. But, if I am just looking to hang with them then looks are not as important, because it is them as an individual that I want to be as friends. Attraction is good part, but not all of it. | |
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| Has anyone been brave enough to meet someone with no pic at all?
Posted: 6/16/2006 4:48:25 AM | | I spoke with a flight attendant 3 weeks before ever seeing her picture or meeting her. She described herself truthfully, 5'10" attractive blond, but her 'age' was 'off'. I guess that's a woman's right?(smiling) That first date was one of the most exciting, not knowing what she looked like, not even asking for a picture, before seeing her in person. I agree with the people who have mentioned taking the time to talk with someone for 2-3 weeks before meeting. You can get a 'feeling' for who they really are. | |
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| Has anyone been brave enough to meet someone with no pic at all?
Posted: 6/16/2006 5:06:56 AM | | Yes I have. The very first lady I chatted with from this site. Great lady. Another lady I met from this site without a pic also. I ended up dating this lady for a period................Lets just say, not one of my better memories. I do agree with the person who posted above me in regards to not being in a hurry, though I have posted otherwise in the past. One of lifes lessons me thinks. | |
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| Has anyone been brave enough to meet someone with no pic at all?
Posted: 6/16/2006 5:47:31 AM | I did it once and will never do it again. You basically taking a chance based on what she or he told you in here. Well, even though they might be a great person inside, if there's no attraction, nothing much will happen sexually in the future...right?
- "Well you made a friend out of it?" I'm not in here for finding friends.
What I find funny is how some will say that you are shallow for wanting to see a picture. Someone will have to explain that one to me eventually!
The very first rule is attraction so please for those who will claim that this is shallow...get a life! Sure you might meet a gorgeous woman for example but then as soon as she opens her mouth, she just might turn out to be quite ugly...it happens but then you need to start somewhere.
- " Her inner qualities is what I appreciate most". So true but then again without a sexual attraction...What's the point?
I can just see one of those person who just love to call others shallow say: Oh yes, he (or she) is bu tt ugly but since I just love who they are inside, I just want him to take me right now....Suuuuure!!! | |
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| Has anyone been brave enough to meet someone with no pic at all?
Posted: 6/16/2006 8:46:18 AM | Yes i DID! It was spontaneous on my part (a rare thing for me): We talked on the phone for 7 hours, and the next day for 5 hours: I called him and asked if he wanted to meet.
We did....I was immediately comfortable with him; sat with elbows and shoulders touching...like old friends.......he is EVERYTHING i ever wanted in a man:
intellectual (HUGE turn-on for me)
sensitive
kind
empathic
intelligent, etc., etc.
I didn't think a man like this existed. After only 1 week i told my friends: I think he is the one!! Week 5 is just beginning!
I've always been adventuresome...gotta go for it.
Grins n Smiles, Ally | |
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Joined: 6/10/2006
Msg: 700 | |
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