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| Has anyone been brave enough to meet someone with no pic at all? Posted: 4/16/2005 9:10:46 PM | Didn't read all the posts, so if I repeat someone else, please forgive.
I am not pug-ugly, but I ain't no handsome stud, either. I am not photogenic, either, so you'll most llikely not find my pic on these sites. If we meet, I'd like to be judged for who I am...personality...sense of being....you either will like me or not.
And, how do you know the pic posted belongs to that individual and not someone else?
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| Has anyone been brave enough to meet someone with no pic at all? Posted: 4/16/2005 9:31:55 PM | Yea, the private pilot thing is a little strange.
I don't think a person should be considered shallow for wanting to see a photo. I know I would never agree to meet someone unless I seen one first. This day and age you really don't know who your talking to on the internet. How many teens girls have been mislead by older men? After seeing his pic at least I have some clue as to what he looks like. When we meet and it doesn't look at all like the person he says he is I will know right away he is being dishonest. If he says he's 6' turns out he's 5' 6", hair to bald, etc. Let's say for instance he tells me he is 6', slim build, brown/grey hair, blue eyes, beard. Now already in my mind I have this person pictured along with his personality. My mind had already made him to look as I want him to look. When I meet him my brain didn't tell me his hair looked like Don Kings, he was so skinny if he turned sideways and drank a quart of tomato juice he would like like a theromoter, beard looked like Grizzly Adams, untrimed nosehair and ear hair. Now in no way am I gonna be attracted to him I don't care how great his personality is. Because I know what I am attracted to and I don't have to settle for less. | |
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| Has anyone been brave enough to meet someone with no pic at all? Posted: 4/17/2005 4:33:24 AM | Its too bad that you won't meet anyone without a photo Foxefire. You're missing out on a lot of good people. I just met a person for coffee and it went really well. She was nice and cute. Our personalities worked. We each did not have a photo. And I think there will be a second date. | |
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| Has anyone been brave enough to meet someone with no pic at all? Posted: 4/17/2005 12:47:31 PM | | When on Match a couple of years ago, there were so many local women that I did meet many with and without pics. Only one of the ones with a pic really resembled her pic and the two who had NO pic looked absolutely nothing like how they described themselve. So, hey, either way, it just seems like a shot in the dark. :( | |
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| Has anyone been brave enough to meet someone with no pic at all? Posted: 4/17/2005 5:14:35 PM | No i wouldn't bother to meet someone one without pic .....and if no info in profile or just enough to get acct here don't bother too respond....
Its respect thing if I post current photes then expect same of person that wants too communicate to me. Had this very disscussion with guy on here last week said he was cop that why no info and no pic....I think he was either married or afraid that I would be attracted to him...shows lack of confidence...
At anyrate all the best too those that are brave enough I am not meeting anyone without pic unless at local police dept lobby.... | |
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| Has anyone been brave enough to meet someone with no pic at all? Posted: 4/18/2005 10:26:59 AM | | i have met alot of nice guys with no pics some hot and some not but i myself don't go for just looks a man needs to have personality i went out with a hottie and i tell you i think the ones who are hot normaley break hearts so now i go for the personality and sence of humor you don't need pics all you need is get out there and make a new friend never know the one guy you turn down could be your soulmate . | |
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| Has anyone been brave enough to meet someone with no pic at all? Posted: 4/19/2005 9:24:48 PM | | Before I discovered the vast use of internet meeting, I use to be an advid user of a phone system. In a year and a half, I met approxiamately 70+ men. I simply enjoyed our efforts of converstation and as human beings so we would eventually met. I met a slew of different people. It didn't matter to me because I already liked them as the people they were and I knew that we would get along. What more could you ask for? I met a fitness model to a couple grimaces and everyone inbetween. Things are what you make them. I enjoyed their company and wanted the pleasure of making their acquaintance. It taught me a great deal. Meeting someone whose picture you have never laid eyes on is a risk but why not be ballsy and take it?! | |
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| Has anyone been brave enough to meet someone with no pic at all? Posted: 4/26/2005 10:15:03 PM | | I met a guy whi did have a pic, but it was a far away pic. such a let down. I want to know if there is a physical attraction before I meet him. Im not shallow in the least and only look for the uber hot guys, but there has to be something there. You dont want to fall in love with his personality and want to barf every time you look at him. | |
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| Has anyone been brave enough to meet someone with no pic at all? Posted: 4/26/2005 10:37:51 PM | Well, I'm ugly, but I'm used to me. What's the point in deceiving? I've never used a pic that wasn't mine, but I've always used my pic.
I have yet to go on a date with anyone online...and indeed, I've not been on a date in quite a while. The point is that I'm starting out honest, and requiere the same in return.
We all have our standards.
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| Has anyone been brave enough to meet someone with no pic at all? Posted: 4/30/2005 4:38:11 PM | | I met someone without a picture once. We had talked quite a bit before meeting and I found him to be an awesome person. Even though I didn't see "romance" for us, we are still very good friends 5 years later. If I had a closed mind and wouldn't meet him because he didn't post a photo, then I would have missed out on the last five years of an awesome friend. | |
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| Has anyone been brave enough to meet someone with no pic at all? Posted: 4/30/2005 5:00:50 PM |
I met someone without a picture once. We had talked quite a bit before meeting and I found him to be an awesome person. Even though I didn't see "romance" for us, we are still very good friends 5 years later. If I had a closed mind and wouldn't meet him because he didn't post a photo, then I would have missed out on the last five years of an awesome friend.
Aaah... but that is not what you were originally meeting for was it? | |
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| Has anyone been brave enough to meet someone with no pic at all? Posted: 4/30/2005 5:23:41 PM | Justmeinnh
I am only speaking for myself, but meeting someone doesn't mean love will be in the air. Should that happen, that would be grand. For me, it starts as friends. So yes, we meet someone with a beginning friendship. If it grows great, if not, I treasure my friends. | |
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| Has anyone been brave enough to meet someone with no pic at all? Posted: 5/3/2005 1:33:05 AM | Why not? After all,There really some of us fantastic people out there that can not post pictures due to our jobs,and other means that simply state,We can't post a picture due to our contract laws. Just because a picture is not posted doen't mean people are hidding something intentcially. I feel for security reasons that is written in my contract is for our protection,and priviacy of the couples. I see some of the responses say it is not fair to them,as they got pictures posted,but the fact is;It is not fair for those people to exsploit fairness in posting picture,than bashing good people that can not due so because of security.What I mean by that is "I have a picture posted of me,and it is only fair to me,If you don'y have one posted" That is the worst statement anyone could use. My point is that people without posting a picture is a very highly rated to pickup a highly partner,and the stats,prove it too. There are very many good quality people out there that do not post a picture,and are highly rated finding the perfect fairytale ending story that will happen. I would like to hear more responses,amd discussion on this matter. This is a hot topic that people around the world knows it is true. With todays society you are most likely to run into a posted (false or doctored up)picture,to only get your attention,and then most likley dissapointed,and raise a fear (or negitive reaction) of all people that really are out there looking for love the way it is suppose to be. If you are really true to who you are looking for,this is the only tool of how our past families foud everlasting love.and yes my friends,It it really does truely work.Please let me,know your true feelings,and I know some are going to write how this didn't work for them,well you got to keep trying to be sucessful,and I know you really don't want me to say this,but YES you will succeed..I hope to hear from many of you on this topic. I would like sucessful stories,and uncessful stories,and unsucessful stories,as that is the only way to fix it.Use what hurt you worse,to help make you thr best!! Have fun.and share it with us all.....
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| Has anyone been brave enough to meet someone with no pic at all? Posted: 5/3/2005 6:40:56 AM | Why not? After all,There really some of us fantastic people out there that can not post pictures due to our jobs,and other means that simply state,We can't post a picture due to our contract laws. Just because a picture is not posted doen't mean people are hidding something intentcially. I feel for security reasons that is written in my contract is for our protection,and priviacy of the couples. I see some of the responses say it is not fair to them,as they got pictures posted,but the fact is;It is not fair for those people to exsploit fairness in posting picture,than bashing good people that can not due so because of security.What I mean by that is "I have a picture posted of me,and it is only fair to me,If you don'y have one posted" That is the worst statement anyone could use. My point is that people without posting a picture is a very highly rated to pickup a highly partner,and the stats,prove it too. There are very many good quality people out there that do not post a picture,and are highly rated finding the perfect fairytale ending story that will happen. I would like to hear more responses,amd discussion on this matter. This is a hot topic that people around the world knows it is true. With todays society you are most likely to run into a posted (false or doctored up)picture,to only get your attention,and then most likley dissapointed,and raise a fear (or negitive reaction) of all people that really are out there looking for love the way it is suppose to be. If you are really true to who you are looking for,this is the only tool of how our past families foud everlasting love.and yes my friends,It it really does truely work.Please let me,know your true feelings,and I know some are going to write how this didn't work for them,well you got to keep trying to be sucessful,and I know you really don't want me to say this,but YES you will succeed..I hope to hear from many of you on this topic. I would like sucessful stories,and uncessful stories,and unsucessful stories,as that is the only way to fix it.Use what hurt you worse,to help make you thr best!! Have fun.and share it with us all.....
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