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| Has anyone been brave enough to meet someone with no pic at all? Posted: 5/7/2005 2:51:43 PM | | hi just a small response here i have no pic wish i did but i would respond just to talk what is the harm in talking hey you can always meet the person have a coffee and leave no strings lol anyways i have met people and no problem to have a drink and if nothin there then ohh well move on | |
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| Has anyone been brave enough to meet someone with no pic at all? Posted: 5/12/2005 2:31:29 PM | | lol Yes I have met a guy without a pic before I was nervous as hell! He knew what I looked like however I had no idea what he looked like. Much like you we had talk and I knew that weather or not he was attractive we would hit it off because our personalities just matched. We met a the movies and he was a total cutie he's in the army and has loads of stories so we did alot of talking! this was 2 months ago and I am still casually datting him! WOOT | |
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| Has anyone been brave enough to meet someone with no pic at all? Posted: 5/13/2005 12:17:35 AM | | Am I brave enough to do it? Hell yeah if someone sounds nice enough and composes themselves well in their profile... only problem is every person I've emailed who has no picture has never replied back, whereas I have gotten replies back from people who did have pictures at least SOMETIMES, I got responses back from non-picture people NEVER, so I guess we'll never know what might have been with that, eh? | |
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| Has anyone been brave enough to meet someone with no pic at all? Posted: 5/13/2005 4:39:18 AM | | I answered an ad for someone who didn't have a picture - he had a nice little ad, and after talking to him, realized he was wonderful! I don't quite frankly care what he looks like, because what is on the inside is so much more important! Beauty fades, breasts fall, and butts sag in the end for all of us, so I want something much more tangible than a "hottie" to spend my life with. | |
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| Has anyone been brave enough to meet someone with no pic at all? Posted: 5/14/2005 11:38:23 AM | lol anyone reallly care meet someone you think is a nice sweet good person in your judgement not societys lol
thats just crazy if you are going to place a relationship soley on the physical asspects and attributions lol
oh well enough Oprah lol | |
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| Has anyone been brave enough to meet someone with no pic at all? Posted: 5/14/2005 6:12:27 PM | I agree with danceinpants If your on here to meet someone for a relationship then you should know what they look like. It makes me feel like their trying to hide something. And it is only fair...I have a pic on here and I have had guy's who don't have a pic on here get mad when you ask for one but don't have a problem asking if you have more? I'm sorry but I like know what the person I'm talking to looks like. | |
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| Has anyone been brave enough to meet someone with no pic at all? Posted: 5/15/2005 12:10:26 AM | | Does meeting people with deceptive pics like headshots-only count? I've now been out with 2 women who ONLY had pictures of their faces in their profile, they sounded nice enough online and on the phone so I went out with them only to find that they were easily 2-3 times as big as me, VERY embarassing to end up finding out that my date for the evening is bigger than any other woman in visual range! | |
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| Has anyone been brave enough to meet someone with no pic at all? Posted: 5/15/2005 11:57:33 AM | | Well Pinacol you got your pic on here but only pics of your face and a lil bit of cleavage, that still shows nothing of the rest of your body... some of the most out of shape women around can have some of the cutest faces, just a face isn't what makes someone physically attractive though, it's the whole package. | |
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| Has anyone been brave enough to meet someone with no pic at all? Posted: 5/15/2005 12:48:12 PM | I had a bad experience with this... Met a guy (not from POF) who was funny, fun to talk to...but no pic. I am pretty open when it comes to looks, but...welll.....lets just kindly say there was no chemistry. He was 5'4 (said 5'8) and must have been about 400 lbs...the worst part was the...erm...smell *shudder* | |
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| Has anyone been brave enough to meet someone with no pic at all? Posted: 5/15/2005 11:03:39 PM | | i met a girl from here one day, she had no pic. we ended up talkin on the phone for a few days, then she sent me her pic later. all it showed was her face but she looked attractive. we met at a local park, she was hot!! we hung out there for a couple hrs, talked about everything, pretty much. went back to my place and watch the spurs play. i walked her to her car, exchanged hugs and i haven't talked to her since. well ok, once by email. that was about a month ago. needless to say she has issues. at least she could say hi every now and then. so, i will continue to look at profiles w/out pics. i like to read what they write, i think it has the potential to explain themselves better. but i've had more unread/read deleted than anything, still haven't figured that out. that's my story. this online thing has gotten me nowhere, and i'm still here. well, i'm not a quitter. | |
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| Has anyone been brave enough to meet someone with no pic at all? Posted: 5/15/2005 11:40:26 PM | Ok so I do not have a picture posted and that’s not because I am hiding my flaws but because I am comfortable putting one up. If I am asked then I may share but I do not feel that one needs to so that they can be judge on appearance alone. Society can be cruel and I am saying this knowing that I am not a perfect 10 but an average person appearance wise. Haha I think I may be a 10 for sense of humor and a big heart…and to someone out there I am a perfect 10...LOL
Neway I think that ppl without picts should be given a chance. Who knows….like others have said they could be the one you are looking for. That’s all I have to say….(hehe I just wrote my first response as a new member)
Cheers everyone and Hope you all find who you're looking for :) | |
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| Has anyone been brave enough to meet someone with no pic at all? Posted: 5/16/2005 5:31:45 AM | I have never met a person in real life after having had internet discussions with them, but I've met a couple of females after having just talked to them on the phone. While I like to have a visual representation of the person I'm talking to, it's not totally necessary because a great personality takes precedence. I don't want to just sit there and look at a pretty face-- I could just take a picture, it'd last longer.
If I really thought she sounded nice, I'd be willing to throw caution to the wind. | |
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| Has anyone been brave enough to meet someone with no pic at all? Posted: 5/17/2005 11:46:08 AM | Hi Lady...I have a story for you! I have just started and on this site and I decided at first that I had to be a total babe with a capital B, to get any guys attention. So i found a picture of someone that I somewhat resembled and posted that as my picture instead of my own. The e-mail and chatting began in a blink of an eye and I was very interested in some men but I couldn't possibly meet them because they didn't know that the picture was a fake. So to the people(men) that I had already clicked with I told the truth and most didn't care because they liked me for who I was and not the image they saw. One of those men wasn't hurt at all and he's 25...7 years older than me! So we ended up chatting one night for 5 hours! ending at 3am..We talking the following night as well and it was looking as if we were falling in love . And just recently we meet..haha...he drove 2 hours to meet me and he got to my house at 1 in the morning! I was so worried to let him see him..thinking that he would take one glance and ran for the hills..haha..but when he saw me he told me how beatiful I was(better than the pic to be exact!). We hit it off and plan to see each other very soon. Some people's pictures aren't always 100% true. And some people just don't want their pictures on the internet. Love can come to even invisable people just kidding. I hope that your happy with your man and good luck to the both of you! -Kelly | |
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| Has anyone been brave enough to meet someone with no pic at all? Posted: 5/17/2005 10:15:52 PM | Hey, I'm about to meet up withsomeone in a couple of days after having some fun and cheeky conversations on chat and phone.
The thing is she has seen my photos, profile and mostly everything I do. I have no other idea on how she really looks, but vague discriptions and how she's not to entirely confident in her appearance.
Now, I admit the truth about my self, to me physical appearance is almost near the top when it comes to attraction. I've had some dissapointed blind dates in the past and well, sometimes I really can't relate to some poeple who don't really look after their body and try to keep up appearances.Maybe, I am shallow.
BUT....with this girl I am "seeing", I can't explain it but, I have this feeling that I would not really care entirely anymore on her appearance, even though she's so concerned with her face. I love her openess and closness to her feelings, and to me that would overshadow any first immpressions that I would have of her when we'll meet.
I don't know maybe I'm finally growing up.
Actually I think she is brave to meet me. she already is happy with my appearance and overall demeanour so the attentions is really all on her when we meet.
I just hope that by the very least we can be very good friends. And anyway, Isn't that what it's all about?
by the way, were both POF members.
whish us the best | |
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| Has anyone been brave enough to meet someone with no pic at all? Posted: 5/18/2005 1:50:51 AM | | Not from this line, but I have chatted with, traded emails, and even met in person men whose photos I had not seen first. Regardless of physical looks, most of them were absolutely lovely people...fun, smart, interesting, even kinda cute! The only jerks were the pretty boys who made it painfully clear they were disappointed in my looks, which aren't so bad, I just happen to be built for comfort, not for speed. The majority of men I've agreed to meet sight-unseen have been very happy to see me, and I, them. | |
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| Has anyone been brave enough to meet someone with no pic at all? Posted: 5/18/2005 9:51:03 AM | I once heard a story about Picasso. Someone asked him why he didn’t paint women they way they really look. Picasso pulled out a photo of his wife--a stunning, vivacious woman--and said, “what does a woman look like? Oh, I see, flat, black and white.”
The point is, no-one is really like their photo. Would you want to judge your potential mate by a one inch square photo? Would you want to be judged in this manner?
No, of course not. I want a man who dreams bigger than an inch photo. And I certainly do not want him to be only interested in my big eyes, lovely cheekbones and luscious rack. He must see me, and what I am is not a square photo. I am certainly not flat, black or white.
Thus, I never put up a photo. I have them on-line, and I’ll gladly send friends to the sites on-which my photos are posted. However, he has to have discovered “the real me” first. | |
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