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| Looks and brains versus age
Posted: 4/13/2005 9:08:49 AM | FG,
I do not wish to debate you at all and you make many good points. I just happen to believe that your body is a temple to be taken care of as much as your finances or your house. You can tell much about a person by not only looking at their faces and bodies, but what they wear, how they live, what their place looks like and how they deal with money. It is all a picture puzzle that we see in front of us.
I have many women that I care about as friends and even love some as family, but they are not the ones that seem to set that spark off internally. Many are bright and educated and have many of the factors that I am looking for, but there is not that spark that is necessary for me to take it down the road to romance.
My whole point with starting this thread was to talk about looking good and having the brain power that will attract and stimulate each other....then the age factor may or may not enter the equation for many......that is why so many put up age limits on their profiles and insist on pictures to help guide them them in their selection.
If we did it your way, and that could work for some to a degree, all you need is a name and room to chat....and I think we tried that long ago on many sites and it did not work as well as a site like this. Information is necessary for decision making on all levels, even dating and romance....and for me I like to see with whom I am chatting with and corresponding in many ways while I get to know more about them and their brain power.
Like I said from the start....looks and brains vs age....the boundaries that are and are not.....smiles  | |
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| Looks and brains versus age
Posted: 4/13/2005 7:46:34 PM | @ FG and Deacon
I have to agree with both of you . You both make good points and they make darn good sense. I have never known what lady would catch my attention for romance. For some reason it just slapped me in the head(now I remember what happened to my hair). My point is this it has been said that someone can not fall in love at first sight but i have to disagree on that one. I have been there and done that one. was with the lady for over three years. I just prefer to get to know the lady before I commit to anything no matter what it is. I just try to stay close to my age for I never know when my Wooo good looks will fade. But seriously the lady closer to your age can relate to you better at times and as i had stated in a prior post. I have a lady friend that knows me better than family and she is 16 years my younger. So I know what i prefer but i also know that it all depends on the woman and her make up in life. | |
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| Looks and brains versus age
Posted: 4/15/2005 9:23:06 AM | Mound,
Good points as usual from you....smiles
I am not one to believe in love at first site.....I do believe in lust at first site though and omg it is good toooooo.....lol Love to me is a slow growing development that takes the time to peel the layers of scars made by other relationships and life.
I enjoy women of all ages and hopefully can relate to them no matter the age if we can connect. The more they can relate to me and my life, needs, desires, and musts.....the better.....no matter the age.
If I can make them feel good and turn their head and heart in the end....should it really matter if they are my age.....younger or older?????
Thank you all again for all the posts.....very stimulating and interesting.... | |
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| Looks and brains versus age
Posted: 4/15/2005 10:48:40 AM | Can't I have all three?
Someone who looks good to me.
Is at least where I am on the intellectual continuum.
And is close to my "age", and I don't mean body age - I mean mind age.
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| Looks and brains versus age
Posted: 4/15/2005 1:22:16 PM | Your head contains a very sexy brain my friend.
Ten years ago people began to get old
The beautiful world is over
My pretty life is over
A year ago Lenina tried to get old
She said : “I´m everlasting”
She said: “I don´t know what happened”
My life is yours
Why can´t I feel love like you?
Why can´t i see the sunshine?
Why can´t I feel my heartbeats?
You're draining my brain.
Your head contains a very sexy brain my friend.
Your ideas make me mad.
Your ideas make me love.
Your thoughts make me tired.
Your stories create such fantastic worlds of desire
I could just eat you up.
Your head contains a very sexy brain my friend. | |
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| Looks and brains versus age
Posted: 4/16/2005 8:48:31 AM | The brain IS the largest and sexiest organ we have.....Agreed!!!!
What protects it and the rest of you can and is sexy too......put them both together and you have one beautiful person to enjoy in multiple ways......no matter the age or age difference...... | |
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Posted: 4/17/2005 1:52:18 PM | Hey Hot,
Here is where the shredder is hiding.....using my brain and my age and my......whatever looks I may or may not have to think....always thinking  | |
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Posted: 4/17/2005 7:11:06 PM | | I figure its hard enough finding anyone so age is too limiting. To me its how mature a person acts. Seen younger women with a lot of maturaty and oler ones with not much.. | |
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Posted: 4/17/2005 9:52:16 PM | Cool you might be right on the maturity of some but can you really think that and older woman after all that time of growing with time and knowledge would not know what they are wanting as far as looks and age. Some of us just don't stand a chance. Oh by the way cool your twin lives in Kankakee Illinois. fishmail me and I will tell you his name.
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Posted: 4/18/2005 2:06:03 PM | Confucius say:
"Old age and treachery win out over youth and beauty every time."
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Posted: 4/18/2005 4:19:05 PM | I'm hot for old age and treachery
Prefer my age and older....not about the speed, but in the mastery.
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Posted: 4/18/2005 7:18:14 PM | | Moundpuppy, could you elaberate on what you are saying? I'm A little confused, and the twin thing too...lol | |
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Posted: 4/18/2005 9:02:29 PM | @cool
Ok on the twin in Kankakee is a guy named Paul (won't say last name here) I knew him when I was in Illinois. I have a picture of him and his wife. Were best buds for a while. The last time I knew he still lived there and that was only about two years ago. The two of you are like twins. Just minor differences and he is a little older. When I first saw your pic I thought it was him until I took a closer look. Now on the other I was only referring to an older woman usually knows what she is after be it age or looks or the brains of a guy. On maturity well I had to agree that some ladies are more mature at a younger age but there is usually something that has happened along the way to cause this to happen. Not saying I am right on it but it has been so to me in all I have seen on the ladies. But does it really matter as long as the lady takes and enjoys your company and you hers. The lasting relationship and the enjoyment of the closeness that melds the two together are really what matters. The mind is the one item that takes and makes everything join together no matter what we are looking at be it the fine body of a woman, the looks of her eyes, the smell of her neck when we kiss it gently with a fine feather nuzzle in the wee of the night. Now age is not a matter as long as the one you are with is what you seek. Some just prefere the woman to be above or below a certain age or the man which ever the case may be. If the mentality of either is equal to the other then age will play no factor in the equation. The mind will take over and they will be as one when it is necessary. That will be in all aspects on life if they are together. | |
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| Looks and brains versus age
Posted: 12/15/2005 2:05:57 AM | She's got to have Looks, Brains, Character and the right age to have 4-6 kids with me from scratch.
She has to have life-long Goals. Be driven in whatever she does. Kids, University, World in any order.
Moral Integrity, she has to have Moral Integrity along with the Looks and Brains. | |
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Posted: 1/12/2006 1:52:40 AM | | I hate to disagree but...... Where I think looks really dont matter I also beleave that age does. I dont think that I can have a lasting relationship with someone thats too young or too old for me to relate to. Maybe thats limiting myself but im old enough to know my own likes or dislikes by now lol. i want a love. not someone to mother or a father figure either. | |
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Posted: 1/12/2006 2:05:31 AM | | It must just be me but i still think that trying to have a serious relationship with someone way younger than me is not what i want age breeds maturity and allthou I like to have fun as much as the next guy or girl, i allso need the wisdom of someone who's been there done that as i have and gone through alot of the same things as i have. | |
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Posted: 1/12/2006 2:17:20 AM | | I was with a guy 19 yrs younger for 3 yrs-we had a lot in common (eighties music,old films,new films,art,crafts, etc)...the reason we split up was the age old relationship-buster-he hit me once.That was enough-and that can happen at any age.Age is not important,respect is...and I believe that you are as old as you feel.I check out young guys and older men too! It's about how you get along! | |
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Posted: 1/12/2006 8:48:56 AM | I'm 33 and I get creaped with 50 yr old and even more confused with 21 yr olds
First a 50 yr old is almost old enough to be my dad and 21 yr ols are almost young enough to be my kid.
The Sociology is that it is easier to have a relationship with someone in a similar age range and social background and up bringing as you have and share values and lifestyles. For me my ex was 10 yrs older and he slowed down and grinded to a stop and I was still riding the wave of my youth.
I'm not in it to get ues or to use someone else but to get out and do stuff
Younger men are sometime more respectful of women younger men will be respectful because they have been taught to them but you always wonder what they're telling their friends afterwards | |
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