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 geegal

Joined: 11/17/2006
Msg: 51
Do men still look for old fashioned girls?
Posted: 11/22/2006 8:44:55 PM
nicely put! thats exactly what an 'old fashioned' gal is..
 pokerjimmy

Joined: 11/10/2006
Msg: 52
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Posted: 11/23/2006 8:17:19 AM
I think what both men and women want varies with the individual, so yes...some do.

I found your definition of "Old Fashion" more contemporary however. Women as an equal partner with a man is not how things USE to be.

It's the only kind of woman I'm attracted to.
 Jar3

Joined: 8/25/2006
Msg: 53
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Posted: 11/23/2006 4:14:55 PM
Yea I must admit, but I prefer an more new aged, old fashioned woman. Allow me to explain. Tattoos: They are acceptable as long as they are tasteful, I know a lot of women that have one and are very respectable women.
Appearance: Dressing sexy does not mean wearing less... You can look just as sexy in sweats and a t-shirt (depending on timing) I cant deny that a good looking woman does catch my eye and my attention.
Personality: This is a big one!!! Iv dated a woman that all she talked about was sex and thats it. This is unacceptable in my opinion. There needs to some conversation, otherwise there can be no relationship.
Lifestyle: It needs to be healthy... not that she need to be a health nut, but taking care of herself (body and mind) is vital.

Thats what I consider new aged, old-fashioned.
 justsomefun01

Joined: 11/3/2006
Msg: 54
do men want unique women?
Posted: 11/23/2006 4:47:06 PM
Heh, Shilo this is the secodn post of your i'm responding too.
Anyway, personally i want a women who will be my equal.

There are still men out there that want a unique women. I wouldn't say 'still' i'd say there are more then there used to be. The 'old fashioned man' used to beat his women with a stick no bigger then his thumb if his woman got out of line. And women wern't allowed to vote or make imporant discisions.
 Metaphysicalman

Joined: 7/5/2006
Msg: 55
do men want unique women?
Posted: 11/23/2006 5:03:03 PM
Hmmmm. Maybe there's a lucrative mail order business

in Mennonite Brides
 CloneAlone

Joined: 7/8/2006
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Posted: 11/23/2006 5:44:40 PM
Wow, not at all what I would consider old fashioned. That just seems like the basics that anyone would want. So, given that definition, I'm looking for an old fashioned clone for sure!
 TootsieTX

Joined: 8/21/2006
Msg: 57
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Posted: 11/23/2006 8:13:45 PM
Ohhh ...I hope they do.. with all my heart.

Old fashioned is probably the wrong term, but it is used frequently to describe someone with good morals and values.....Someone who is true to themself and family....Someone who does not have sex with everyone they date or with anyone they date until it becomes a committed relationship or marriage....Someone who does not "play games"..... Someone who knows and practices manners and good judgement.....Someone who believes there are different roles for men and women.

I guess if the above is what people call old fashioned, then that is what I am. I also have the "old fashioned" homemaking skills such as sewing, cooking, canning, even hanging laundry on the line.

All of that doesn't make me less of a person or someone who does not deserve equal human rights. I can think for myself and have opinions and can be quiet independent. But all things considered, I am one old fashioned woman who would love to find an old fashioned man.

So please tell me that there are men who are looking for such women. We are here...looking for you men who value us.
 valleyjavastop

Joined: 6/4/2007
Msg: 58
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Posted: 10/25/2007 2:44:11 PM
old fashioned doesn't sound good enough ,,isn't real the term we are looking for here ..a real women ..loyal and dedicated to her family and man ,the real deal ,,she is sexy ,can cook ,and is happy ,,and most of all she still has morels ,,


the above poster sounds perfect .thats what i call normal .is it so old fashioned?

yes where are they ?
 Blueguy21

Joined: 1/21/2006
Msg: 59
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Posted: 12/9/2007 11:26:20 PM
I would love an old fashioned woman, problem is they are practically extinct! :(
 Aurora772

Joined: 12/1/2007
Msg: 60
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Posted: 12/10/2007 4:21:52 AM
I like old-fashioned girls. They do exist. Sadly, most get snapped up right quick.
 Sayter

Joined: 7/21/2007
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Posted: 12/10/2007 5:19:02 AM
My fiancée is one.
 joejoe82

Joined: 6/7/2007
Msg: 62
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Posted: 12/10/2007 8:42:35 AM
when i see an "old-fashioned" girl i run as fast as i can in the opposite direction
 Seavoyage

Joined: 1/18/2007
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Posted: 12/10/2007 8:56:21 AM
Well, as a guy who is somewhat old fashioned but also liberal, I definitely like women to be somewhat old-fashioned. I like people who are what you say, what you get, honest, well-mannered, respectful, polite etc... I have grown to appreciate more traditional people whether as friends or for a girlfriend.
 Wolfie65

Joined: 6/16/2007
Msg: 64
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Posted: 12/10/2007 9:04:58 AM
If she's old fashioned' as defined by me, I'm all for it.
If she's 'old fashioned' as defined by online personals code-speak, no thank you......
 Double Cabin

Joined: 11/29/2004
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Posted: 12/10/2007 9:09:18 AM
If "old fashioned" translates to a woman that is not overflowing with self absorption and she has an alacrity for reciprocation then throw out my I-Pod and get me a spoon and a washboard.
 Onlyforumsonly

Joined: 8/25/2007
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Posted: 12/10/2007 9:33:18 AM
I love this stuff. Because old-fashioned really means marrying for money and status. Which is not to say that I think that's what women who call themselves old-fashioned are doing, but that's what women did in the old days. They sold a set of services in exchange for access to resources.

And yeah, who would want an old-fashioned man? Male cheating rates have actually gone down. A faithful husband used to be a serious rarity. Rape within marriage was legal until the 1970s. Never mind the amount of control involved in the breadwinner role. Nothing will ever convince me that my life is worse than my grandmothers' lives, nor would my grandmothers even try. They envied me.

So yeah, not an old-fashioned girl. This isn't to say that I'm a sl*t, either, or anything else bad, only that I'm not interested in selling my body or soul for a roof over my head. And that's not only not old-fashioned, that's very modern.
 rock_hunter

Joined: 11/6/2007
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Posted: 12/10/2007 9:49:51 AM
By "old fashioned" you mean a woman who remains virgin until marriage, knows how to cook, submits to her husband and is a good homemaker, well, of course.

If by "old fashioned" you mean a woman who expects all the perks of chivalry and none of the duties of femininity, forget it.
 kungfuguitarist

Joined: 7/31/2007
Msg: 68
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Posted: 12/10/2007 11:07:44 AM
Do men still look for old fashioned girls?

In my experience, "old fashioned" has always been synonymous with "cheap." I'll pass.

rock_hunter's post has to be quoted:
If by "old fashioned" you mean a woman who expects all the perks of chivalry and none of the duties of femininity, forget it.




 life_of_leisure

Joined: 1/4/2007
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Posted: 12/10/2007 11:23:12 AM
Personally, I really dig chicks who don't vote.
Do men still look for old fashioned girls?
Posted: 12/10/2007 12:32:05 PM
There is a huge pond of 60 year old and up old fashioned woman out there.
 85032Luck

Joined: 3/16/2006
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Posted: 12/10/2007 1:11:22 PM
nothing old fashioned for me, she must own:
-flat screen tv
-microwave oven
-vibrator (go away -the games on)
 SassySky

Joined: 11/9/2007
Msg: 72
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Posted: 12/10/2007 2:27:00 PM
Love the different descriptions on here. Of what makes a woman old fashion.
I think what I am hearing more on here is Traditional..than Old fashion..
I am, not sure how old fashion I am since I sure in the heck don't look Like June Cleaver..

I know I am traditional since I can still count and remember each sexual partner I have ever had..I believe in a strong code of ethics and morals. Etc..I am willing to meet my partner more than halfway when needed. I am understanding enough to know never to damage his pride or self worth. I know I can at times put my own needs aside, when his are more of a priority.
I guess I am definately more tradional... Old Fashion what ever the word is...

But since I am single who the hell knows if men really want that stuff anymore..
great Question OP
 strangerstill

Joined: 12/20/2004
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Posted: 12/10/2007 3:31:21 PM
I prefer a mix of old fashioned and modern in a woman.
 Anthony6/79

Joined: 10/16/2007
Msg: 74
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Posted: 12/10/2007 4:55:33 PM
I love old fashioned women well some let me explain.

Does not sleep around & has morals & carries her self like a lady but...I do not like women who would like to go out on a date with me but does not ask me out because she believes "THE MAN HAS TO MAKE THE FIRST MOVE". That is where I draw the line. If you like some one then go after it. Do not let what ever your mother told you when you we're younger hold you back from who you are interested in.
 sexythaiflower

Joined: 9/30/2007
Msg: 75
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Posted: 12/10/2007 5:01:00 PM
Yes man like old fashion. they like when woman preten she stupid and she laugh every joke. they want woman happy when he buy them food or any small stupid thing. they want feel strong and smart, hansum. if woman have good body and make man feel good, she can take everything. this why woman like me get so many man easy. just tell them they so good and yoo need them.
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